How parents evaluate their children correctly, and how parents evaluate their children

1. Parents understand the characteristics of their children.

Understanding children is the premise for parents to educate their children, and to educate children, parents must understand the physical and psychological characteristics of children. Personality and behavioural traits of the child.

2. Parents observe and record their children's performance.

In order to have a comprehensive and profound understanding of the child, parents must observe the child in a purposeful and planned manner, obtain various real materials about the child's physical and mental development, and record them, so as to provide an important basis for the analysis and evaluation of the child.

First of all, the observation should be regularized. Parents squeeze out time every day to ** children's activities; Combining focused observations with general observations; Observe words and looks, grasp the psychological characteristics of children, and make sure that there are goals for observation and standards for evaluation.

Second, the observation should be comprehensive. Parents should observe the child's physical and mental conditions, whether it is the child's physical, cognitive, and language development; Or child emotion; We must pay attention to social development, and we must not neglect any aspect of it. Parents should not only care about the acquisition of children's knowledge and focus on the development of this aspect in the assessment, but ignore the children's abilities; behavioral habits; Observation and cultivation of psychological development.

For example, when observing the development level of children's movements, parents should consider both the development level of children's gross motor movements and the development level of small motor movements. When observing the development of children's language, parents should not only listen to their children's language pronunciation + use of vocabulary and sentences, but also pay attention to their children's interest in language and language comprehension.

Finally, the diversity of parent records. In addition to using text to record the development of children, you can also record the growth process of children through a variety of household appliances such as tape recorders, cameras, and video cameras, so as to obtain three-dimensional and dynamic information, and achieve high quality and quantity. For example, parents use the tape recorder to record the children's stories, songs, and music, and use the camera to take pictures of their children's paintings, handicrafts, and calligraphy works, and use the camera to record their children's birthday parties, peer activities, and outings.

1. You are a positive, self-confident boy. Have a plan and goal for learning, be able to arrange your time reasonably, and study very well; Have a peaceful attitude, care for and help classmates, care about the class collective, actively participate in various activities organized by the class and school, have a strong sense of labor, actively participate in sports activities, and respect teachers. I hope you will continue to work hard, not be satisfied with the status quo, and strive to do better.

2. You are a cheerful, generous, polite and cute girl, uniting classmates and being helpful; Actively participate in social activities, care about the class collective, live more frugally, love labor, and be strict with yourself; Serious and goal-oriented in learning, but lacking the spirit of hardship; Be able to actively participate in various activities organized by classes and schools, and have good psychological quality. I hope you will continue to work hard in your future studies and achieve better results in all aspects.

3. You are a simple, hardworking, and intelligent girl. Attentive to lectures, hard work, diligent thinking, strong enterprising, able to overcome many difficulties in studying abroad, strong self-care ability, able to endure hardships, be kind to others, respect teachers, actively participate in class affairs, excellent and stable academic performance. I hope to continue to work hard, always maintain a steady and progressive momentum, and believe that you will do better.

4. You are a smart and hardworking boy with ideas and goals. Good at thinking, listening carefully, doing things carefully, respecting teachers, being friendly to classmates, especially enthusiastic to serve the class, assisting teachers in their work, and having good comprehensive ability. Able to face everything calmly in learning, with good grades and relatively stable.

Good quality, great potential, I believe you will work harder, learn endlessly, and strive for better results.

5. You are a boy with a rich inner world, but you are not good at expressing yourself, you are thoughtful and intelligent. In the class, you unite your classmates, work hard, and have a sense of collective honor. In terms of study, you can listen carefully to the teacher's class and complete your homework on time.

The teacher remembers your strengths. The teacher hopes that you will study harder, ask questions you don't know boldly, and pay attention to your learning methods. The teacher believes that you will be able to do well.

It is best to tell the truth that he is an obedient child at home, understands the hard work of parents, and takes the initiative to help parents do some housework within their ability, such as: get up early to clean up the bed, tidy up the room, clean up the dishes and chopsticks, and have a deeper understanding of their own things and are working hard to do it, thank the teacher for the correct guidance of the child, thank you teacher!

The purpose of evaluation is mainly to recognize or deny a certain thought or behavior, so that children can realize the meaning of doing something, so as to stimulate children's internal motivation, mobilize children's enthusiasm, and think and grow from the inside out. Based on this, we try not to evaluate things as much as possible, but to provoke children to think and dig into themselves. In this process, parents make necessary evaluations, both positive and negative, to actively trigger the child to further dig into the meaning behind the incident.

Then, our praise and criticism will go beyond the evaluation itself. Therefore, I advocate that when evaluating, we should be targeted, talk about things, not simply draw conclusions, but after fully understanding the child's mentality and the process of the event, give the child correct verbal guidance, and accompany the child as much as possible to put the end of the matter well, so that each evaluation can get the greatest value of the embodiment.

It is necessary to see both the advantages and shortcomings of the child, not only the good in the eyes, but also the bad blindly find reasons, that is to harm him, see the shortcomings to help him change, to be more patient, this is what many parents lack the most.

Seeking facts, learning, is the main thing, other aspects should be observed from time to time, the child is not doing right, and pointing out the inch, it is good for his growth.

When facing children, parents should learn to evaluate their children correctly, and never say: you are a disobedient bad boy, your mother doesn't care about you anymore, how did I give birth to such a waste of you, etc., which will cause a blow to the child's self-esteem and self-confidence, which is not conducive to the development of the child.

At the same time, the child should be affirmed, the child has done good deeds, and the parents should recognize the child's behavior in a timely manner, even if the child has helped the parents do housework, the parents should also praise the child. When a child does something wrong, as a parent, do not blame, but calm down and listen to the child's explanation and listen to the child's true thoughts.

1. Don't deny your child's efforts regardless of 3721.

In the process of learning, whether the child is doing right or wrong, as long as the child is done through hard work, we parents should not deny the child, but should educate the child in a guided way.

2. Do not discuss and evaluate children.

In the process of educating children, the first thing should be to cultivate children's independent learning ability, if there is too much discussion with children in the learning process, it will cause children to rely too much on their parents.

3. Do not make comparative evaluations of children.

I believe that in the process of our own parents' own growth, we have also seen a lot of "other people's children", other people's children are always better than themselves, other people's children are right and good no matter what they do, but they can't do anything, they will often feel very frustrated and have no motivation.

Don't judge your child by outside evaluations.

From the perspective of being a child, what the child wants to hear may be:

I saw that you didn't understand this knowledge point in class, and now you are trying to study it repeatedly on your own, and although it took a lot of time, I finally understood it. You must be very proud of yourself.

I understand that you don't really love your current job, but when you first entered the society, I admired your perseverance in order to accumulate experience.

I don't know how many people who can see this are like me, and I hope to hear these latter words from their parents. If you don't have one, then from now on, start with yourself, really see your child, and "evaluate" your child in this way.

Mom and Dad's evaluation of their children is as follows.

Mom and Dad's evaluation of their children is as follows.

1. I hope that you will study modestly, strengthen your learning where you have strengths, keep improving, strengthen your learning where you are deficient, and strive to have noble moral sentiments and good cultural literacy.

2. I hope that children will be positive, healthy and upward in their studies and lives. If you have a clear distinction between right and wrong, be a good student.

3. You are a good child of your parents, and in the new year, your parents expect you to consciously understand and do your homework. The self's room is tidy and tidy; You're already a big kid, do everything seriously to do your best, don't be so-so, be more patient.

<>1. Helpful and friendly. Be able to help with housework as much as possible, eat and wear without pursuing famous brands, and do not compare with others. He has always been praised by his parents and pursues perfection in his work.

Serious study, a wide range of hobbies, moral, intellectual and physical aspects are all-round development. I hope that the children will continue to work hard in the future, maintain good character and morality, be full of fighting spirit, become useful talents in society, and contribute to the country.

2. You have been naughty since you were a child, and with the migration of time, you have learned to respect your elders, care for and help others; If you like sports, whether you are at school or at home, you will have a healthy and handsome figure. Parents earnestly hope that you will continue to carry forward your strengths and go to the next level on the road ahead!

3. The child has been an excellent student since elementary school, and has served as a class cadre for many years, and his academic performance is among the best. She is more obedient, which saves her parents a lot of worry. In general, children are more independent.

She loves to read, and she is assertive, not blindly following, I don't pursue her grades, because she knows how to make trade-offs. She's constantly trying, and with her own faith, I'm sure she'll be able to do it.

4. You are a very lively and lovely child, cheerful, very intelligent, and able to express yourself. Mom and Dad want you to show your energy at home at school, okay? Communicate more with your classmates, participate in more activities, and give full play to your strengths, Mom and Dad are here to cheer you on!

It's hard to be objective and impartial!