Why modern youth are reluctant to get married

The reluctance of young men and women to marry is a very common social phenomenon for the following reasons:

1.Social values have changed, and they prefer freedom of individuality and do not want to be burdened by their families;

2.Work and life are stressful, consumption is more, and there is not much savings and savings;

3.The cost of marriage and childbirth is huge, and the average family cannot afford it, such as a new house, car, bride price, as well as child support, schooling, etc., which requires a lot of money, which is also the main reason why people are reluctant to get married;

4.The divorce rate in today's society is also very high, which makes people afraid of marriage.

The above is a personal opinion, welcome to correct!

Today's young people are reluctant to get married, mainly because if young people get married, the pressure is relatively high, the housing price is relatively high, and the bride price that the woman wants is difficult for the man to afford.

Because young people nowadays like to fall in love first and find feelings, and the material requirements for marriage are also high, many people are not in a hurry to get married.

Alas, I don't think it's that you don't want to get married, I think it's too demanding for women, and if you don't want to communicate with men, I think it's very difficult.

Modern young people are reluctant to get married, first of all, because of the high pressure of work and life, and the high cost of marriage, and secondly, modern young people are still free, and they don't want to tie their marriage, so they are unwilling to get married.

Stress is the main reason, and the raising of children after marriage and the cost of marriage are the top problems for modern young people who dare not get married!

Modern young people are reluctant to get married, because young people are used to freedom, and there is pressure to get married. That's why I don't want to get married.

The main reason is that the current work and life are stressful, and the second is that today's young people are more advocating freedom, and they no longer live for the way and method of inheritance of the older generation, and they have their own ideas.

Because today's young people are unwilling to be bound too early, and then the pressure of life is high and the cost of marriage is high. So reluctant to get married.

There are two main reasons why modern young people are reluctant to get married: one is that the economic pressure is too high, the housing prices are too high, and the other is that the ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced.

The main reason is that the current work and life are stressful, and the second is that the current youth are more advocating freedom, do not want to bear too many responsibilities and obligations, and want to live the life they want to live freely.

It's not that you don't want to get married, you first understand the cost of getting married, especially in big cities. It's generally around 2 million.

Because young people nowadays are under too much pressure, they are single and they are still very free, and it is very troublesome to get married, so they are reluctant to get married.

Some young people feel that they are not financially strong enough to take on the responsibility of caring for a family. In fact, it's not quite right to think so, even if the economic situation is not good, you can find someone who is willing to endure hardships with you to fight together.

Nowadays, people's lives are under too much pressure, especially young people, and the pressure of marriage is even greater, and many young people are reluctant to get married in the face of houses, cars, and bride prices.

It may be that young people nowadays are unwilling to be bound by family responsibilities, so they are reluctant to get married.

Why are so many young people reluctant to get married now?

Reasons for reluctance to get married:

1.Material needs: If you exceed 10,000 a month, you can find the other half.

2.Mandatory requirements: If you want a house or a car.

3.Advocating freedom: If a person's life meets the above standards, he will consider the next step, and if he can't reach it, he will be delayed until the most critical thing is not the above standards, but the concept of marriage and divorce is quantified, and there is no difference between having and not.

One is that there is too much pressure, especially housing prices, and the other is that I like to live freely and do not want to be constrained.

Because the modern youth and the older generation have different lifestyles and ideologies.

Young man: There are many people who have no money, no car or house, 5,000 yuan a month, and can barely support themselves.

Young women: There are many people who don't want to endure hardships with them, those who drink too much poisonous chicken soup, and those who don't want to live their lives.

Or those who have planted a fight on the road of feelings, those who have paid for several years of emotional cultivation and cannot achieve positive results, and those who no longer believe in love, there are also many people.

There are three mountains, education, medical care and housing.

The pressure is too much, and I can't support myself, so why talk about marriage.

<>Some of the main reasons why modern young people are reluctant to get married:

1.Attitudes towards marriage have changed: Modern young people have a different view of marriage than traditional ideas.

Many young people believe that marriage is not a necessary stage, and they are more interested in personal freedom and independence, rather than being bound by marriage.

2.Economic pressures: The cost of living in modern society is getting higher and higher, and the pressure of work is increasing, and modern young people need to pay more financial pressure in order to maintain their standard of living, which makes them may see marriage as a luxury that they cannot afford.

3.Social anxietyIn modern society, people generally face many anxieties and uncertainties, such as employment, housing, health care, etc., which can cause young people to feel uneasy about the future, insecure, and reluctant to enter into marriage easily.

4.Personal developmentYoung people are more focused on self-esteem and personal development, and they want more time and energy to pursue their own ambitions, dreams and hobbies, and are not willing to take on family responsibilities and burdens too early.

5.Diverse lifestylesIn modern society, people have more choices and possibilities, and their lifestyles are becoming more and more diverse.

In general, young people's reluctance to marry is the result of a combination of factors, which require us to be open and understanding, and to respect and support young people's attitudes and choices.

I can give some possible reasons for this:

1.Financial pressure: Modern young people face high financial burdens such as high housing prices and education costs, and many people are reluctant to marry easily because they believe that marriage will increase financial pressure.

2.Personal freedom: Modern society emphasizes personal freedom and choice, and many young people want to enjoy their single life first, pursue their interests and careers, and do not want to be bound by marriage.

3.Changing concept of marriage: With the change of society, the concept of marriage is also changing, and many young people no longer think that marriage is necessary, or no longer pursue the traditional marriage model.

4.Changes in the marriage and love market: Changes in the marriage and love market in modern society will also affect young people's willingness to get married, such as the emergence of social **, **dating platforms, etc., making it easier for young people to meet the opposite sex, so they no longer feel that marriage is necessary.

It is important to note that the above are just some of the possible causes, and everyone's situation is different, and the specific reasons may be more complex and diverse.

I believe that each of us is very much looking forward to love, because for each of us, we all know that love is happy and very beautiful.

If we can meet someone we like, then many people want to be with the person they like, so they will care for each other very carefully and take care of each other. Because they believe that through their own care and care, they can be better together. In the end, it can also allow them to have a happier and better love.

Although love is happy and very sweet, we see that there are many young people now, they don't fall in love and don't get married, so some people want to know why there are so many young people who don't want to get married now.

First of all, because there are a lot of young people now. Especially some girls, they are very realistic in love. They will always have all kinds of very high demands on boys, and they will demand good jobs and good families.

Even when they are about to get married, girls will ask boys for a large bride price, which undoubtedly makes it even harder for boys to stop him. So we see that although there are many boys who want to be with girls, because they can't meet or can't meet the requirements and conditions of girls, they can only choose to be single.

Of course, for more young people, the reason why they are not married is because they are not so good yet. So they want to have more time and energy to work hard to improve themselves. Only if he is more serious about studying and working hard, will he be more excellent, and only in this way can he have a better love.

So we see that there are a lot of young people now, and they don't fall in love and they don't get married. We still hope that young people should return to the simplicity of love, especially for some girls.

Although material conditions are very important in love, what is more important is the relationship between two people only when we can better care for and love the person we like. In this way, we can get along with the person we like, and in the end, it is under the mutual care and love of two people that every young person can have a happy and beautiful marriage.

It's okay for women, it's not friendly to men, in recent years, we often see the topic that young people don't want to get married early and are afraid of getting married, and now young people really don't want to get married, or are afraid of getting married.

Most of the people who don't get married now are born in the 90s, they have just been able to stabilize from society, they have just stabilized their food, drink, housing and transportation, and if they get married, they need a bride price, a house, and a car. But now the general post-90s generation has not yet reached such a demand. The bride price has also become a stumbling block on the way to marriage for young people.

The sky-high bride price is formed by the style of extravagance and comparison in recent years, and the bride price has slowly changed under the influence of this. Regardless of whether the family can afford such a request, it must be done in a big way. A young person may own a small house of his own, a scooter, with the help of his parents.

But the bride price is a mountain that they can't reach. Let's do the math: A young man's average salary is 6,000 to 10,000, and aside from the monthly expenses that must be spent, there may be 1,000 to 2,000 left a month. 12 months a year is only a little more than 20,000.

It will take several years for young people to save up to 100,000 bride price. It is not a burden for young people nowadays, and after getting married, they are also responsible for a series of expenses such as children's school fees. So that's why young people don't want to get married and are afraid to get married.

In fact, now the state is also aware of this problem, and the issue of sky-high bride price has been involved in the newly revised Civil Code, and I believe that with the efforts of the state and the collective improvement of the quality of our people. Young people will no longer be afraid to get married.

On the one hand, they have not met the right person, and on the other hand, they cannot get married at all, which are the two most important reasons why many young people do not get married.

We are always wandering in the world, not knowing where to go in order to embrace happiness. But time never gives us a choice, and in the blink of an eye, we become older youths. At this time, we were already a little panicked, but we also didn't have much choice, everything could only cross the river by feeling the stones.

1. If you don't meet someone who is suitable for marriage, marriage is as unattainable as a mirage.

I once had a relationship for more than two years, but when I thought our relationship was good enough to go into marriage, the other person didn't think so. He waved his sleeves and simply left my life.

I was in pain, but then I was relieved. Marriage can never be forced, and we all need to go through a silent path in singleness until we meet that right person.

For older men and women, they may have a choice to settle, but if there is still hope for future love, we always want to meet the most suitable person.

Second, many people don't want to get married, but they can't afford to get married.

This is one of the most important reasons why older men do not get married, in this era, marriage brings boys not only filial piety and envy, but also pressure and despair.

Buying a house, buying a car and a high bride price have become the "three mountains" that every boy must carry if he wants to enter marriage.

This has made many boys a little desperate for marriage, although they have been working in that direction, but they already want to give up a little bit in their hearts.

Most of the development of the relationship between men and women needs to be paid by boys. But there is never easy money in life, and after being physically and mentally exhausted, no one knows how much to expect from marriage.

In fact, in real life, these two are the most important reasons why older young people don't get married. Either you haven't met the right person yet, or you have been hit by real life and no longer look forward to marriage.

Work hard to make money, when you meet the right person, marriage always needs material support.