It s good to give examples of frustration to use in debate tournaments

Then I ask you to give an example of frustration is a bad thing.

Setbacks are a good thing, and it can be said that every successful person has had setbacks. Just think of Lincoln in the United States, when he first became a **, everyone laughed at him because of his poor family, but through his own efforts, he replaced the ridicule of others with applause. Setbacks can make everyone's self-motivation stronger and harder.

I can only say so much, after all, I'm not a debater, and by then Nick has changed my words and others according to the words of the opponent's debater, I believe you will definitely be able to argue the other party, come on! ）

Failure is the mother of success.

Failure happens to everyone. Failure is not terrible, failure is the first step to success.

Celebrities will also fail, geniuses will also make mistakes, the great inventor Edison invented more than 1,000 kinds of inventions in his life, but failed tens of thousands of times, in the manufacture of electric lights, Edison failed 1,340 times, it is Edison's patience and confidence, can make electric lights shine dazzling;

Einstein made small benches and failed again and again;

The mathematically famous axiom of parallelism has been questioned since its inception. For thousands of years, countless mathematicians have tried to prove the axioms of parallelism, but they have failed. The mathematician Pourier spent his life on the proof of parallel axioms without success, and finally died in despair and agony.

Just as the problem was eating away at people's wisdom like a bottomless pit without giving anything in return, Lobachevsky found out the reason for the failure after seven years of fruitless research. After repeated failures, Lobachevsky summed up and analyzed the causes and consequences of the failures, understood the problem in essence, and thus achieved success.

Gou practice, lying on the salary to taste the gall.

In 1832, Lincoln was unemployed, which obviously saddened him, but he was determined to become a politician and a state legislature. Oops, he.

The election failed. Suffering two blows in one year, it was undoubtedly painful for him.

Lincoln then set out to start his own business, but within a year, the business went out of business. For the next 17 years, he had to for.

Running around to pay off the debts owed when the business went bankrupt and going through hardships.

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Encountering setbacks will require Fu Hui to double his time and energy, increase the cost of doing things, or change the direction of things.

It depends on the degree of setbacks, and if the setbacks transition will hit a person's self-confidence, and if they are not handled well, they may no longer be able to muster up the courage.

It depends on the person who has a setback, and if the person is vulnerable, it could be his end.

1. Now that the financial tsunami is raging in the world, the whole world has fallen into a huge financial setback, the United States, the United Kingdom, Japan, and even China have been hit by a huge impact, company layoffs, business closures, a depression, a large number of people have lost their jobs or even bankrupt, can you say that such a setback is a good thing for us and even the whole society?

2. There are still 10 years of catastrophe, which has caused the motherland and the people to suffer tremendous disasters and the country's economic and cultural undertakings have regressed in great strides.

The exam results were miserable, and they gave up on themselves. (loss of self-confidence).

4 If you lose in love, it is difficult to get out of grief. (Passion for new things).

If work is not reused, it makes people doubt their own abilities, and leads to inactive progress, do you want to experience it a second time? Sorry, that's all there is to it.

Some people do work hard because of setbacks, and eventually become top and even go down in history. However, these examples are rare. Although we see these success stories in the book, consider that there are only a few dozen people in the world with a population of five billion, and that none of us have ever encountered a setback in life, so setbacks are very common, and the proportion of people who are motivated by setbacks is very small.

Because if you want to work hard through setbacks, you must have good self-awareness, self-discipline, and a strong sense of self-esteem and an environment that can correspond to it, otherwise you will not succeed without any of them. This is the case, which shows that the vast majority of people are still or lose confidence after experiencing setbacks, and if they do not stand still, then setbacks are useless for them, and there is no good or bad for them. And more people choose to escape, is to lose confidence, then at this time setbacks are undeniably bad.

Ask the other debater, although your life experience is not long, there will be countless setbacks, in this setback, what did you choose, is it hard work? I guess it's more about escaping. In this case, why don't we start from reality and look for common examples around us, but instead recruit the reality of great people who are out of reach or even we don't know whether they are true or false.

The weak are relative, and the right guidance can also become the strong. Frustration is a temporary exercise over time, and success will be found in setbacks.

Frustration is good for growth. For example, the parents of Nobel Laureate in Physics Kamanlyn Annis were visionaries when it came to teaching their children. When he was a student, Kamanlin was very fond of sexual learning.

Once, I accidentally did an experiment and turned half of my house into ashes. As a teenager, he fled to the countryside and hid.

His parents searched for him all night and returned him from the field the next morning. Instead of beating and scolding him, his father hugged him in distress and said to him affectionately: "Don't be afraid, child!

For the sake of scientific research, you have demolished all our houses and destroyed all our fields, and I will never blame you. ”

Parents should understand and not complain when their children encounter setbacks, help not criticize, encourage not to blame, analyze the reasons for failure with their children, change negative to positive, and turn disadvantages into advantages, because setbacks can make children mature as soon as possible, and setbacks can enrich life experience from the negative side; Parents lose no time in carrying out scientific "frustration education" for their children, which is undoubtedly conducive to the healthy growth of children.

No matter how big a setback a bai person encounters, if du

Don't challenge it in your heart.

zhi, defeat it dao....Then it may become an eternal pain in your heart. Fear.

Rong was born from the heart, and when he looked back, he just thought that the harm was too great. It is necessary to remember that overcoming the difficulties and setbacks of the present is to accumulate experience in the future, and there will be fewer detours in the future.

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Failure can lead to psychological frustration.

The details are as follows: 1. Uneasiness. Such as loss of confidence and courage; emotional instability, suffering from gains and losses; Physiologically, palpitations, dizziness, cold sweats, chest tightness, etc.

2. Attack. Also known as aggression and confrontation. It is divided into direct attack and indirect attack.

A direct attack is one in which the target of the attack is a person or thing that constitutes a frustration. Indirect aggression is the transfer of anger after frustration to oneself, the person concerned, or unrelated people and things. Generally speaking, people with high self-esteem, higher talents, and greater frustration tend to vent their anger directly.

People who lack self-confidence, are introverted, have low self-esteem or are pessimistic and tend to point the finger at themselves. When the frustration** is unclear, or when it is perceived that the real person causing the frustration cannot be attacked directly, they will look for a scapegoat.

3. Solid execution. This includes: Apathy.

Expressionlessness, indifference to things, loss of joy, anger and sorrow and other normal psychological reactions; Repression. Subjectively denying the existence of frustration and excluding from consciousness the experience of frustration or the motivation that may cause it; Exception abandonment. After many setbacks, I feel dazed, worried, lose confidence in my work and life, give up some things that have not been frustrated, do nothing, and even give up my life.

Blindly rejecting innovation, not accepting the opinions and suggestions of others, resting on one's laurels, and repeating again and again knowing that the method is ineffective. Therefore, criticism and punishment should be used sparingly.

4. Regression. Also known as regression. When people are frustrated, they will show childish behaviors that are not commensurate with their age, such as being easily plotted by others, blindly believing in others, blindly following the instructions of others, believing rumors, unable to control their emotions, and even being unreasonable.