My first love, just like that, ended cruelly? Knowing the result, why can t I put it down? 50

Updated on psychology 2024-03-15
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you encounter this kind of problem, the most important thing is not to see things that remind you of her, you can do something you like when you are fine, or keep yourself busy, and forget about those unhappy things.

    In fact, loving someone does not have to be a result, and it depends on whether you have really loved each other, this is enough, even if there is no her, life still has to go on, and you still have your own life to go on. So try to make her life better, maybe that's what she wants.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I really don't know how to say it, I hope you will be relieved soon. I can feel your feelings, maybe because you are so young, you will forget to let go of your heart in the future, and play well with yourself. I hope you have fun every day!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's better to want to open some... If a girl is asked to like a guy and marry him in just a few days, I don't think it's realistic... Maybe he has something to do with ...

    If you really love him, try to forgive him ... If things really can't be changed ... It's to try to turn this relationship into a memory, a memory that will be sweet when you think about it...

    Cheer up, get ready to start a new life, accept the next relationship... Because there are many things that we can't change.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Pay attention to divert your attention and don't let such things affect your life

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I've found my favorite, or a desperate sy

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've had my experience too, so let it go, and you'll find someone with whom you're destined. I bless you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think first love is just about the first person you like.

    Many people think that the first love is unforgettable, not that the other party is good, and how young we were at that time. Sometimes, the simpler the purer.

    Because when the first relationship appears, we want very little, that is, to get the love of the other party, which is the rarest.

    In the subsequent love, more or less as you get older, the change of experience will be mixed with other things.

    The purer the better, what do you think? Actually, it's not that you can't let go of him, but you can't let go of the obsession in your heart. Why we couldn't be together in the end has become a regret that you often miss.

    People are always like this, and only after losing do they understand the value of possession. First love means to you not only the former lover, but also the lost youth.

    When you miss him, you are nostalgic for the past, nostalgic for you who liked him, and nostalgic for that youthful youth. He is beautiful, and you who like him are even more beautiful, and all this is that time will never be turned back again.

    The cruelest thing in life is that there is only one time, and there is no rehearsal. So first love is like a passing landscape, and it can only be reproduced in the mind. And that ephemeral scenery will be like a frozen picture, forever sealed in the bottom of my heart, becoming a precious memory specimen.

    Life would be as good as it was when it first saw it, but people often wake up when they regret it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I believe that everyone has a person who can't love in their hearts, that person occupies your entire youth and teaches you what love is.

    Especially my first love, I believe it is difficult for everyone to forget.

    The reason why the first love is blind or can make such a deep impression on yourself is because he is the first person to enter your relationship and the first person to make your heart move.

    For him, you can give everything or give it all. The original impulse was just to be with him, regardless of the opposition of his parents.

    But because you are still young, your parents will not agree to you being together. So, this relationship is over.

    Even so, after many years, you still think of him and still haven't forgotten him.

    There is an example of this in my case, two people met at the age of seventeen or eighteen, and after a year or two together, the woman's parents still did not approve of them being together.

    The two had to separate, but now, five or six years later, they meet again, and they are together again.

    This time, they didn't listen to their parents, and they didn't object to them being together.

    If their parents hadn't objected at the time, maybe they would still be together and live happily ever after.

    So, a lot of things, it's not that you can do what you want to do, but that you have to go against your will and have to give in to reality.

    In fact, there are many reasons why two people can't be together, and it's not just the parents. In the end, the two people are still emotionally incompatible, or not suitable.

    Feelings still have to go through many tribulations before they can achieve positive results. But for people who are in love for the first time, maybe it is really hard to forget.

    There is such a person in everyone's heart, which cannot be said, but can only be hidden in the heart. Even after all these years, he still hides it in his heart.

    But this is just a kind of memory of the past, after all, life still has to look forward.

    For some people, first love is a pity. Since when you are young, you can't be together, so two people still have to be together when they are old.

    They had met by a lake, and even after decades, he still remembered her. He still wants to rekindle his old relationship with her, and the most important thing is that both of their wives have died.

    Naturally, the two of them are naturally together. At the same time, it also makes up for the regrets of their youth, so that the two of them will not leave regrets in their old age.

    Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, the first person to break into his life may be the one he will never forget in this life.

    For him, her existence has a special meaning.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sister Yunlu, although I don't know why I broke up, but I think I still like that should have been together in the first place, and you can't talk about it like this if you want to forget about him, this will not only hurt you, but also hurt what you have talked about, and if you can't forget his words, hurry up and find him to get back together, don't paralyze yourself.

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