Let s talk about it, when everyone is in love, will EQ become lower?

Personally, I think it will, anyway, I have a classmate who is such a person, and when they are together, my classmate's IQ is really zero. The boy had a very sweet mouth and always coaxed my classmate to be happy, and even we could see that he was lying, but my classmate didn't realize it. I remember that one time, we saw him and another girl, and we told her that she thought we were jealous that she had a very handsome boyfriend.

Even if someone told her that this boy was very attentive, she would say that it was before, she believed that she could change him, and said a lot about the boy's goodness. Later, when we found out that it was like this, we stopped reminding her because we felt that it was useless to say it. Sure enough, in the end, this boy told my classmate that he liked other girls and hoped to get together and disperse.

Oh my God, I'm just ruined. ‍‍

Personally, I think that both men and women can have it, but not all of them, it has to do with personality and emotional experience, because they will worry about the outcome and fear of losing. Therefore, it will be overly cautious, lack of self-confidence, and the so-called low IQ is the result of unconditional trust. This kind of trust is usually manifested as a lack of roots, such as wanting to take out the heart to him, liking a person, will be humbled to the dust, and then bloom, when falling in love, I care too much about him, and the whole person's whole heart is on him, no thinking, no self.

It's true, a friend of mine, since falling in love, every time I eat with her, talk, three sentences without leaving my boyfriend, at first, it's acceptable, and later, it's always like this, to be honest, it's quite disgusting, I just said, can you change the topic when you talk, don't talk about your boyfriend. Let's talk about ourselves. But if she says anything else, she always gets her boyfriend.

She can clearly remember what her boyfriend said to him, his habits. Have patience when talking to her. In short, a very important part of her life!

It can't be said that all girls are like this after falling in love, but most of them are about the same.

Yes, because I have such an experience, before I fell in love, I would have my own requirements, and when I really fell in love, I would not be able to lower my requirements again and again.

Yes, if you are silent in the sweetness of love, you will be easily carried away, and sometimes you will become stupid.

My aunt and niece are eighteen years old this year, graduated from junior high school at the age of fifteen, I took her out to work, and now I work in an electrical company, with a salary of about 4,000 a month, which is okay for a girl in her teens. When I first came out, I didn't understand anything, I worked for three years and had a good social relationship, I knew how to behave and how to deal with things, but there were unforeseen clouds, and my aunt and niece actually played a boyfriend. My boyfriend and my niece work in a factory department.

The boyfriend is from Guangxi, the character is average, the family conditions are not good, the aunt's parents do not agree with her and her boyfriend to play friends, in a word, it is far away from our Sichuan, although we have stopped it many times to no avail, in the end she actually secretly met with someone, too helpless. ‍‍

Yes, I'm like this too, many people can't help but be fully engaged when they fall in love, and they can change their life routines, big and small habits for the other party. In other words, the sweetness of love makes all the hardships and hardships in life seem insignificant, especially for people who have just fallen in love, they can experience it even if they are surrounded by relatives and friends.

It will definitely get lower, because I will think that someone has cushioned my back, and I can take a break like a little woman, and my brain will not work if I don't move. ‍‍

A girlfriend from my hometown, found a boy nine years older than herself, her parents just said that they didn't want anything, even if the boy knelt down to the girl's parents, they couldn't change the parents' minds, and in the end the girl still chose to elope with the boy, and didn't care about the parents, and then eased the relationship.

If you can feel that your emotional intelligence is lowering, it means that you are not fully in a relationship.

People with high emotional intelligence are always more popular, and it is understandable that some companies want employees with high emotional intelligence when recruiting, but it is not very accurate to look at the level of emotional intelligence through love experience. Does the more you fall in love, the higher your emotional intelligence? Is there a relationship between the number of relationships and the level of emotional intelligence?

Does the more you fall in love, the higher your emotional intelligence?

Of course not, falling in love is mostly just to increase experience, not to increase emotional intelligence, and people with high emotional intelligence may not have been in love.

Love is the adulthood between men and women, and there are differences in personality between the opposite sex, and the mutual attraction is born, which is innate, and the attraction is personality, beauty, etc. Emotional intelligence is the social interaction between people.

Therefore, it makes sense to say that emotional intelligence determines people's fate, but emotional intelligence is not lethal in the face of love, and a person will not like you because of your high emotional intelligence.

There are more love, the bad part is, it can also show that this person, not single-minded, easy to rhetoric, I personally feel that EQ also has genetic factors, people with high EQ are more outstanding, but boys and girls with too high EQ are also easy to suffer, I personally feel that no matter whether the boy's EQ is high or not, it doesn't matter if there is a lot of love to talk about, the main thing is that they are happy, and people with high EQ may not have been in love.

However, people with high emotional intelligence are indeed more suitable for falling in love and have high emotional intelligence.

Whether it is making friends, working or in love, they can always get praise from others, and the people around them like to stay with them.

The more you fall in love, the higher the emotional intelligence, the reason is very simple, because he can't maintain the relationship between the two, how can he talk about high emotional intelligence? It's understandable that employees can expect high emotional intelligence in their soft requirements. You can see whether the other party has high emotional intelligence through communication, and there is no need to make such nonsense.

That's generally the case. Because there is a good saying that practice is the only way to test the truth, so to speak, people who have been in love generally have more emotional intelligence in terms of feelings.

Because you imagine that if a person's emotional intelligence is not so high, then the relationship must not be going well. No matter how much money you have, no matter how high your status is, you can't be happy.

Because we often need verbal and behavioral performance in our lives and work, these can be referred to as emotional intelligence. Just like some people joke about other people's pain points, thinking that it is humor, but in fact it has been deeply hurt, the main thing is to say, how can such a person get the favor of others? Or how can you get someone else's like?

And how do you fall in love? So high EQ must mean higher EQ.

Maybe you've been in love, maybe you've failed. But they've experienced what they know is important, what isn't, what should be constrained? Where should I be tempered?

What should we experience together? So people with high emotional intelligence must have been in love. But people who have been in love are not necessarily emotionally intelligent.

It is very likely that it has been talked about, because people with high emotional intelligence are more popular and easier to get off the list.

In general, being in love does not directly lead to a decrease in IQ and EQ. However, being in love may have an impact on a person's emotions and thinking, which indirectly affects the performance of IQ and emotional intelligence.

On the one hand, being in love makes people feel excited and happy, and this emotion releases a lot of dopamine and endorphins and other substances in the brain, making people feel happy and satisfied. This emotional state can distract people from distracting and make it difficult to concentrate, which can affect IQ performance.

On the other hand, being in a relationship may make people become emotional and impulsive, because there are many emotional and psychological factors involved in falling in love, such as intimacy, trust, loss, jealousy, and so on. If not handled properly, these emotions can affect people's emotional intelligence, making them perform poorly when communicating and associating with their lovers.

Of course, this is not to say that falling in love will necessarily make people's IQ and EQ lower, but that love will have an impact on people's emotions and thinking, and you need to pay attention to your emotions and behaviors, maintain a good psychological state and communication skills, in order to better maintain the relationship.

Falling in love will make people grow, and they will understand many things and many truths.

1.Most people don't have love. They have a good impression because of their appearance, talent, money, and even character, but in fact, they love and love themselves.

They love the vanity when they are loved, the sense of existence when they are tormented, and even the inferiority complex that comes from not being loved. In the end, love is the emotions that arise from oneself, but it has nothing to do with love itself.

2.In many people's love relationships, it is either an exchange or a request, and the exchange of this kind of thing must be smart and understandable to the other party, and cannot be said directly, once it is said, it breaks the balance and feeling in the fantasy, and the feeling is a fig leaf, as for the taking, it is necessary to use this fig leaf to confuse the merits and demerits.

3.In the relationship, the most we can do is to like each other, basically we can't talk about love, it's easy to like, the other party has a little nonsense to love, there are some hobbies, and even the other party's little quirks, this kind of like, in fact, the most fundamental is to please yourself, once the other party's nose hair leaks out, put a stinky fart, burp when eating, will be a horse. The nasty emotions are born, and the feeling of liking disappears.

of couples died on communication. Communication is very important, and it is very important to admit mistakes, but the three views do not agree with the feelings, just like the "92 consensus Q.""As for peaceful diplomacy, it is a matter of principle. Two people who can't reach an agreement, no matter how they can communicate, their pants are useless.

5.In addition to love, the foundation of love also requires respect and trust, and all three are equally important. If you love you, you will respect you, that's a certainty.

6.No matter how loud the feminist rhetoric is, most girls still have a natural sense of vulnerability, they want to be protected by the other party, and they want to get a sense of security from the other party. Equality between men and women is always relative equality, not absolute equality.

7.When you quarrel and get back together, you think that your relationship will slowly heal like a wound. But that's not the case, of course your relationship will heat up again, but some things will never heal.

It is like the meniscus of our knee, and the damage is irreversible. Those cruel words that have been uttered by Gao Leak have been engraved in the hearts of the other party, and they will never be forgotten.

8.The sense of security is not that he will never leave his self-confidence, but that he can live well after he leaves. May a lover eventually become married!!

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