What are the disadvantages and benefits of having an older sister, and what are the advantages of ha

I am lucky and blessed to have a biological sister.

My mother's era coincided with the strict grasp of family planning, and my mother only gave birth to two daughters, my sister and me.

My sister and I grew up in the countryside, but due to the poor living conditions at home and my grandmother's reluctance to take my sister, she dropped out of school after the first year of junior high school and went out to work with her parents.

When I was younger, my sister always bullied me and wouldn't let me do anything, and my sister and I often quarreled over grabbing things. Since she has been away for two years, my sister has become very sensible and will never rob me again, and she will buy me new clothes and shoes.

In order to reduce the burden on my parents, my sister made money for me to study. Every time the money runs out, I call **, and my sister immediately transfers the money.

I remember one weekend afternoon, because I missed my sister so I called ** to say hello, but I didn't expect her to tell me a news, she said she was going to get engaged, I felt very angry after hearing it, and hung up**.

When I returned to my dormitory, I asked my classmates, "Are you happy if your sister is getting engaged?"

The classmate smiled: "Of course I'm happy, we have to be happy for her, and we have to bless her." ”

Me: "But she is my only sister, she loves me very much, if she marries, won't no one love me?"

Classmate: "It is precisely because she loves you that you want to wish her a happy life!"

After listening to my classmates' words, I thought about it for a long time, and finally went to dial my sister's **, and I passed, at that time, my heart didn't know how much it hurt, I sorted out my thoughts, and told my sister that I was sorry, and blamed myself for being too impulsive to hang **. My sister said that she was not angry, and she said that she would not love me for any reason, so that I could rest assured.

After talking for a long time, we hung up **, but I cried sadly.

Later, my sister got married, but she was still good to me as always. All household items.

Help me prepare, as small as the elastic bands that tie my hair, if there is something delicious, keep it for myself, and I will hit ** as soon as possible to get it. When I see beautiful clothes, I always want to buy them for me.

The weather was a little darker, and I specially bought an umbrella and sent it to the place where I was working, for fear that I would be caught in the rain.

Every time before going out, I would be told to be careful when crossing the street. Although it was just a few simple words, I was very moved.

My sister's love for me has never faded. Even if I got married, she would still be considerate of my life difficulties and help me, take care of me, and even extend to my children.

We sometimes quarrel with each other, but no matter how much we quarrel, the relationship will not change, and she always says that I only have a sister like you. I feel sorry for her in many things, and I hope I can repay her well in the future and never lose my temper with her again.

May my sister live a happier and happier life in the future! I wish her good health and a safe day!

Disadvantage: Not found yet.

Benefits:1Give you her most tender side, always think about taking care of your sensitive and fragile heart, she will be very down-to-earth and comfortable 2

You can ask her what to do when she is confused, she will give you her opinions and advice, but not dogma, because she understands you 3When you encounter difficulties, she will give you the most selfless help as soon as possible and give you a sense of security 4If you are bigger than you, I will try to follow you and pamper you 5

will be very supportive of your dreams.

Benefits: 1. If there is a big age difference between my sister and you (more than 5 years apart), it is equivalent to one more mother.

2. If the age difference is small (1 5 years apart), you can tutor each other to learn.

3. If you encounter difficulties, your sister will give you selfless help, which is second only to your parents.

4. Will be very supportive of your dreams.

Bad was not found.

The advantage is that you can peek at her bathing, and the disadvantage is that the body will not be able to bear it.

My dear, I'm glad you asked, for what you said earlier, in fact, there are many benefits for my brother. First, he can be your little follower who accompanies you, and will listen to you very much, and you will do whatever you ask him to do. The second point is that after your brother grows up, he will also protect you, and it will also be your dependence in the future.

Third, your younger brother is the only relative you will have in the future. Don't be so lonely.

1. The beauty of independence.

This is the most dazzling dress for new women, not relying on recognition, not relying on coquettishness to win a rose (because it is a bit pediatric, a little pitiful, and even ridiculous), to be a woman who makes men unable to "grasp it with one hand", not to cater to Zhaopi, but to be an independent personality, to see what they have, not what to ask for from men. This is very popular with new men. The little cutie who is "up to you" with everything is a burden.

For a man, holding you for a quarter of an hour is enjoyment, and holding you for a day is hard labor. Becoming a ** sex, with her own peaks and careers, she doesn't rely on men to eat, then, her love is more chic.

2. Low pressure.

The sisters know more about life and have more experience in all aspects, men will not have a lot of pressure, and will put more energy on their careers, without having to spend time teaching a little girl to grow up, and they don't have to worry about their sister-type girlfriends making a big fuss and losing their temper at every turn.

3. Be considerate.

Girls are born with the ability to take care of others, and sister-type girls are better than Mingchai Tangerine. Ding Junhui said that his future girlfriend "must at least be able to cook and take care of people", does Xiao Ding like a "sister-type" girlfriend? This time he nodded unequivocally, "Hmm."

My sister is relatively mature, decent and generous, knows how to advance and retreat, not only takes care of her boyfriend very comfortably, but also sympathizes with the man's parents.

4. Cultivate the inside and win by temperament.

The heart is rich, the temperament wins, and it is very readable. Flowers are used to see, and the beauty of people is used to taste. The shallowness of those who can't see her excitement and beauty, and the happiness of those who read her charm, and this feeling lasts for a long time.

Penetration from the inside out will make a woman exude an indescribable charm, she is not pretentious, not packaged, the original permeate, and form an atmosphere that will attract you for a long time.

5. Gentle, considerate and tolerant.

She often plays the role of a sister, gentle, considerate, tolerant, and more concerned about others, and will naturally restrain her words and deeds, giving people a feeling that she can tolerate everything. Her broad-mindedness, positivity and warmth make her undoubtedly the most comfortable choice for men who have been under pressure for a long time.

6. Mother-lover complex.

Most men have a mother-love complex, while older sisters will be more considerate and gentle towards younger lovers. It's more secure to be with an older sister-type girlfriend. Men also need a warm harbor in many cases, so although men hold women in their arms, it is the woman's body temperature that warms men.

I feel down-to-earth in my heart, but it's not a feeling that any woman can bring.

What's so good about having a limb sister? My sister can take you to play, make you happy, give you money to spend, take care of you, ask you for warmth, be careful and considerate, and take care of you meticulously.

When I grew up, I rarely got together together, but my sister is still so good to me, my sister's good, irreplaceable, many people envy me for having a sister, I have a sister, I am proud of my pride, my sister is good to me, no one can replace me.

Sister, a word;

Sister, a caretaker;

Sister, a bosom;

Sister, the person I love the most;

Sister, best, hug, a sister, a sister for life!