Will you forgive someone who has ever hurt you so badly?

I don't think I'll forgive anyone who has hurt me in the past. If one day I have a particularly normal communication with those people, it is not that I forgive them, but because I feel that these things are over, not forgive them.

In fact, everyone will encounter those things that they feel are particularly unforgivable when they are growing up, but others may find these things particularly indifferent.

Everyone has their own things to worry about, and some people like to joke about you about things that you care about, and then if you get angry, they will think that you are so stingy. I'm really annoying this kind of person, you don't know what other people's pain is, so don't mess around and talk about anything there.

I especially like a sentence sung in one of Wang Yuan's songs, there is no real empathy in the world. The world's best really empathize? What you have experienced, she has not experienced, what she has experienced, you have not experienced either, the two of you do not have the same pain at all, how can you empathize.

If you get angry, they will think that it is a small matter, why are you so angry, and it has not caused you much harm, they will persuade you to forgive that person. But I won't, I don't think he should forgive her since he did something unforgivable.

One day, if there is really no way to communicate with you as before, I think it's just a matter of forgetting, not forgiveness.

I will never forgive those who have hurt me, and it is possible that a joke from someone else will cause a psychological shadow for the rest of your life. So why should we forgive them, if we forgive them, how can we be worthy of the self who has suffered? If you forgive them so easily, are we worthy of yourself who once cried bitterly in the middle of the night?

I don't think there are people who shouldn't be forgiven, and I won't forgive.

It's not uncommon to hear someone say this.

To be born to be human must be kind".

I am often persuaded by others:

Forget it, patience is over, the people who have hurt you, they teach you to grow. ”

But!!! Kindness has a ruler and tolerance has a degree.

Hurt is hurt.

One day you become excellent Please embrace yourself.

Thank you for surviving so much damage.

Guo Degang said in a four-minute interview:

Actually, I hate the kind of person who doesn't understand anything and advises you to be generous, and this kind of person needs to stay away from him, and when he is struck by lightning, it will affect you. ”

People are always like this, and they don't care about themselves.

I advise you to be generous, and I advise you to be brave.

When it really comes to me, I realize that it is far from being able to solve it with courage and generosity.

Saying "no" out loud at the right time is a responsibility to yourself.

You can be kind, but never wronged yourself.

Mr. Lu Xun wrote in the [Collection].

The joys and sorrows of people are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Most people laugh out loud in someone else's story.

But he couldn't cry in his own story.

There is such a dialogue in "Love Apartment" Zhanbo asked Hu Yifei:

If someone has hurt you deeply, how long will it take for you to forgive them? ”

Hu Yifei immediately jumped up:

Forgive him? Forgiveness is God's thing, and my task is to send him to God ".

There are always people who are constantly testing our bottom line.

Go back without limits.

In the end, it stimulates the evil thoughts in human nature.

Sometimes you have to deal with the world.

The world suddenly became docile.

Only we ourselves have become incomparably harder.

The world will be gentle with us.

Raise rice to raise benefactors, fight rice to raise enemies.

The kind of aura you are will attract the kind of people.

People can smell the smell of "you are a bully" from a distance of three feet.

Therefore, it is enough to live a life that is neither humble nor arrogant.

Respect does not have to be humble.

Humility is servitude.

Be polite and courteous.

Thorny kindness is the loveliest.

I will forgive those who have hurt me. Because it's his injuries that make me so strong. So as time goes by, some people who have hurt me, often I choose to laugh it off and choose to forgive him.

Everyone will eventually forgive everyone who has hurt them. No matter how painful it is, how unbearable it is, when you live a better life, you will find that it is they who make your happiness at the moment thicker and more precious. When you think of them, there is no hatred, only some light memories, and the remaining beauty.

Each of them has become a meaning of your life, where it should have been, and it has made a difference in your future. It is not uncommon to hear people say, "I will not forgive those who have hurt me even if I die."

But have you ever thought about it, does anyone really make you hate it to the bone? You are so persistent and unwilling to let go, and you refuse to forgive, and in the end it is only you who is imprisoned.

Because, the person you hate will not live in your feelings, and the person who can't get happiness in it is yourself. So, why not forgive the person who has hurt you and set yourself free? The true meaning of love in the Bible is described as follows: "Love is long-suffering and kind.

Love is not envy, it is not boastful, it is not arrogant, it does not do anything shy, it does not seek its own good, it does not become quick to anger, it does not count the evil of men, it does not like unrighteousness, but it loves the truth. Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things. Love never ends.

Forgive those who have hurt you, and you will reap the rewards of a new life.

Therefore, let go of the hatred of others and let him go with the wind, not only for yourself, but also for others.

I will not forgive the person who has hurt himself very much, because since he has hurt you, he must have mastered your weaknesses, we can only continue to restore the weaknesses to a normal state, and will not let others hurt you again, the first time the person who hurt you may be unintentional, but after all, he has caused you a lot of damage, an irreparable mistake is not able to choose to forgive, and more importantly, others have hurt you, so you have to fight back with all your might.

Will or not, it depends on the situation of the other party.

This person used to hurt you severely, and now that the time has passed, his hurt has stopped, and there are even friendly signals. For such people, it can be forgiven.

If someone who has hurt you in the past and this hurt never stops, of course, you will not forgive such a person. I said, "If anyone does not offend me, I will not offend, but if anyone sins against me, I will offend." I think that applies to this as well.

Complain. Hate. Resentment. It's normal to hold grudges, so why force yourself to forgive?

I can't forgive, I don't hold grudges, it's just something important to you at a certain stage or a hurdle that you can't get over, and time slowly makes it unimportant.

Life is not a bookkeeping machine, every account is listed clearly, not to mention that the vast majority of logarithmic experiences cannot be quantitatively measured.

Many times it's just that you owe someone else, and others owe you again, and one day when you look back on your experience, you objectively and calmly think it's not your own business.

I'm sure I'll forgive you. If you can't forgive others, how can you forgive yourself, and you can't get along with yourself. The person who hurt you was once someone who had a deep relationship with you, and forgiving others was also a relief for yourself.

I think as I get older I will forgive the people who have hurt me. Because everybody has been young at one time or another. Maybe he did it on impulse when he was younger.

But as I get older and he gets older, the way I see these things will be different. Maybe after a while, she will be more ashamed of this, and I can forgive him graciously.

No blame. Not pursued.

But mind, and don't forgive.

I'm doing okay on my own.

I don't want to go to the trouble to retaliate.

But if one day he is alone on the edge of a cliff, and there is no law.

I'm definitely going to push it again.

It's a normal person.

Complain. Hate. Resentment. Vengeful.

It's all normal.

Why force yourself to forgive?

If it's a passerby.

Hate others when they should hate, and love if they want to love.

Which turn passers-by say what.

If it's the one who hurts someone else.

If you do such a thing yourself, it's normal for people not to forgive.

I also want to be forgiven.

What a big face.

There are always people in life who like to teach us generosity, Guo Degang once said that for those who are indiscriminate, they advise you to be generous, you must stay away from him. Otherwise, thunder from the sky will easily split you.

If the other party cares about you, he won't hurt you hard, he wants to ask for your forgiveness, just to be better off in his heart, you choose not to pursue it, just so that he can move forward, and it has nothing to do with forgiveness.

The world needs kindness and understanding, but tolerance is reserved for repentance, the abuser often forgives himself before you, some pain can never be made up for in a lifetime, you can choose to apologize to me, but I can also choose not to forgive, everyone says to repay grievances with virtue, but I don't know that there is a second half of the sentence behind repaying grievances with virtue, repaying grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue?

It has been said that over time, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us. Cai Kangyong told the truth: "That's not forgiveness, that's forget it." "Hurt and indebtedness will be deepened over time, without letting go, or even counting it.

Forgiveness is not talked about, but it will be forgotten. You will remember the wrong paths you have taken and the bits and pieces you have gained on the way to make mistakes. No one is stupid enough to be hurt and forgive each other, some people say that they will still forgive because of love, but that kind of love must have changed or readjusted.

You can nobly say thank you to those who have hurt you and made you better and better, but is it true that we can't be better and better without them hurting us? Who is not happy to live happily every day, who is willing to sigh indecisively every day. It's the first time to be a person, I don't know whether happiness is geometry or I am born looking for a sadistic type!

As a bruised body that has been hurt by friendship, I want to say: it is impossible to forgive, but I will forget her, and I will be cautious in every relationship in the future, do not owe others or wronged myself, and do everything to not suffer, instead of thinking that she will treat me like I did to her, and the reality tells me that I am still too naïve. Maybe every fritter in today's society doesn't want to be what it is today, but the world has become the most hated person in the past, but so what?

It's not like you're trying to figure it out and live quickly. Just like Sun Yue said, when the service industry was emerging, the old man at home said: It is better to serve people than to serve animals?

What a philosophical statement. So I'm not going to forgive. Maybe you should have a small belly and chicken intestines, after all, if you don't have thunder means, don't have a bodhisattva's heart!

Will you forgive someone who hurt you just because the other person apologizes?

If it were me, I wouldn't forgive him. Since it was said that it hurt me, it was not an unintentional act, nor was it a trivial matter.

How can we repay virtue with virtue?

Why forgive those who have hurt us? They always have their own reasons! If there is an excuse this time, then there will be next time it hurts! Why give the other person the next chance to hurt us?

Is it a sentence of "I'm sorry! Can you erase all the injuries of the parties? If an apology is useful, what else do you need the police for? Apologies are your remorse for your actions!

As for whether or not to forgive, it depends on what we really think in our own hearts!

Someone here may be saying, do you have to live in resentment against others all the time? The person who raised this question must have misunderstood forgiveness and letting go.

Forgiveness is accepting those who have hurt and betrayed us! But to let go is to let those people and things that have hurt and betrayed us be eliminated from our hearts.

Those who have hurt us, I can do not retaliate against the other party, not to return a tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye, which is already considered benevolent and righteous. As for forgiving the other party, isn't that just a choice, hurting yourself again!

In daily life, many people are constantly testing our bottom line. It is a test of how much we can bear.

Why should we forgive such people!

It's the first time to be a human being, why do you have to let others go, can't you think about yourself?

No, we can't easily forgive those who have hurt us, and we don't persuade others to be kind without others suffering. We have never experienced what the other person has experienced, and we have never known how they survived the countless tossing and turning after experiencing the darkness, and the countless fears and fears.

They have survived all the sufferings themselves, and in the end, we stand on the moral high ground and go to morality to kidnap them and make them forgive those who have hurt them.

When you think about it, what is the difference between our actions and those demons?

No one knows how hard it is to get out of the mud, and no one knows how many times a person has come out of the darkness and experienced bruises all over his body.

We have not experienced any of this, so we have no right to evaluate, let alone the right to let others choose to forgive. If you forgive him again and again, others will think that no matter how many mistakes I make, she will forgive me, but she will hurt you again and again, don't give others a chance to hurt you again, and be kind to yourself.