How can a man become mature, stable, and idealistic?

Rich knowledge, successful experience, wonderful experience.

The experience of society, and the cultivation of a woman's patience.

Maturity takes time, not in three days or two. I look at what it means to be a mature man from a woman's perspective, and I hope it will help you.

1. Keep learning and increase your knowledge. Having a wealth of knowledge and being able to draw on people when talking to people will make people feel that you are very insightful, which will increase your sense of maturity.

2. Independent personality and assertiveness. Everyone has their own strengths, you can use your strengths more, and at the same time, be assertive and don't ask people how to do everything. If your girlfriend asks you where to go for dinner and you are still hesitant, it will definitely damage your image as a mature man.

3. Interact with people and master the measure. A mature man will not casually giggle and fight with people in public, and he must be more measured in his interactions with women.

4. Work steadfastly, with a beginning and an end. Doing things in society, Hanger Langdang is the most annoying. If you promise something, you will do it seriously, which is the basic principle of a mature man.

In my mind a mature man is.

Have a forgiving heart.

Calm yourself down in advance when you encounter difficulties.

Very thoughtful in doing things.

Be humble and follow the advice of others.

When you do something wrong, you have to have the courage to accept it and correct it, and this thing is not something that can be learned by others. Hard imitation can only be stiff and pretentious.

In short, a mature man should be able to pay attention to promises, not exaggerated, knowledgeable and subtle, broad-minded, not calculating, not self-centered, brave to admit mistakes, not chaotic, firm-willed, clean and tidy, respect for the old and love the young, responsible, witty, humorous and interesting.

Maturity and stability is to have strong independence in thought, feelings, actions, and economy, and have little dependence on others.

The performance of a mature and steady person:

1. Be able to talk to all kinds of people and be friends with all kinds of people.

Everyone is not born with their own thoughts and outlook on life, which requires them to meet all kinds of people and things in the long road of life, and slowly accumulate them. In a man's life, they will meet many different people, they may have friends with their next-door neighbors when they were children, classmates as friends when they study, and colleagues as friends when they go to social work.

It is this way to be friends with different people, so that they can also know what they can gain and lose in different friends, and it is not worth being friends themselves. This is a mature man who must have thoughts, and at the same time they are also good at talking to all kinds of people and being friends with all kinds of people.

2. Love to speculate on people's hearts, and there are no flaws in talking to people.

Mutual honesty is the most basic premise of talking between people, and if both of you are talking nonsense, then you don't recognize this friend at all in your mind. But many times between friends, you can't fully tell the truth, so it is very likely that you will invisibly hurt others.

A mature and steady man will do this very well when talking to people, they will speculate about this person from all aspects, and then based on their own analysis, they will come to a conclusion about how to talk to you. Talking to such a mature and steady man often makes people feel very comfortable.

3. Be a man with atmosphere.

A mature and steady man is more atmospheric, a mature man does not care, does not covet small gains, does not care about small losses, and will not chatter about this and that.

Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family. Men like this tend to have a wider circle of friends, because everyone likes to get along with such people, and if you meet them, don't miss them.

4. Pay attention to promises.

A mature and steady man will never go back on his word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and will carefully consider whether his words can really be fulfilled before making promises, and if he can't fulfill them, he will never say them, because his words must be fulfilled. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted. A man who runs a train with a mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and does not act for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity.