How to chat with girls to avoid awkward conversations?

Prepare the follow-up topic, don't fall in love, whether it's the opening statement or the question, it's best to think of a way out, so that when you get the answer to the defeat, you should also have some relevant and interesting work in your head that can be picked up immediately. For example, if you ask the person "Did you buy anything during the tour?" and if the person replies "It's okay", you can tell us about your experience of buying things indiscriminately. Even if you don't have relevant funny experience to talk about, you just don't have anything to say, the conversation is stuck, and there is no contact, in fact, you don't need to rescue hard, just open another topic. ‍‍

Girls are emotional, don't treat her with rational thoughts, guide in the chat, so that girls can feel that you are an assertive boy, increase some sense of humor, you will get the girl's like, treat it like a friend, create a chance topic, so that it will not be embarrassing, and then it is to meet more to attract girls to invest in you, here Fei Ge wishes single male compatriots to get women back as soon as possible.

How to avoid awkward conversations with girls.

The point is not in what you say, but how you say it. You must know that the same sentence is spoken by different people, different circumstances, and different tones and tones. For example, many movie lines may be sensational or funny in that movie, but when you take them out and watch them alone, they don't have those feelings, which is quite weird.

That's because you don't get into a mood that might be sad or happy, which is why many people have memorized some classic lines from movies, but it didn't work. You see a few girls chatting together for a day, chatting very happily, talking and laughing, you ask them what they talked about, in fact, they don't know what they talked about, but they are very happy.

Hello, are you there? Have you had breakfast? Is Chinese food delicious?

Eat less for dinner? "Don't just say it. A friend said to me, "He has been chatting with the last party we met recently, and we talked a lot at first, but slowly he replied to me less and less, sometimes only a few words, and now he doesn't reply to me."

What's going on? I asked him what he was talking about. Show me the chat history, but there is a straight man cancer in his heart, but he still has a pleasant face to help him analyze it.

Every day, I send "Hello, are you there?" to the girl I just met. Have you had breakfast? Is Chinese food delicious?

Eat less for dinner? Not only are other girls annoying, but even your long-term parents will be annoying to send you these every day! Students who are not annoyed raise their hands.

And repeating this all the time will only give the girl the impression that this person is boring and boring.

Learn to listen. Many people will only take care of themselves when they are chatting, and this way of chatting is also wrong. The point of conversation should be communication, communication means that both people have something to say, and such a conversation genius is pleasant.

If you only talk about yourself, it will only make people feel bored. Chatting is interactive, as long as two people are involved, they can feel the joy of chatting.

Remember not to directly reveal your sense of need when chatting! When chatting with strangers, without communication and exchange, you will directly expose your wolf nature, will the sheep easily run into the wolf's mouth? First of all, the communication is flat, the middle is interspersed with some humorous short words, and finally the emotional resonance.

It's like a friend for many years! When talking about common topics, the favorability gradually increases, and everything falls into place.

Praise tactics, when a girl is next to you and says: It's good to do it today, but I stayed up late last night, it's not good at all! At this time, most of the boys will say:

**Dry, apply a little**! As soon as you say that, you're shot! You should say:

Isn't that pretty! Your words will make the girl's heart bloom immediately!

You accompany her to buy lipstick, there are many types of lipsticks, and she will ask you which one looks good? Boys who get shot will say: It's all good-looking!

Girls will be unhappy in their hearts, you should: this is good-looking, and that pink, so girly! She'll happily buy it!!

If a girl is not disgusted that you don't chat with you, then you always have embarrassing conversations when chatting with girls, or spend some energy to study and study what girls like, and find female girlfriends to give advice, otherwise who can blame?

The other party throws out the question you want to be vivid and interesting for him.

Generally speaking, this is good-looking, this is also good-looking, buy and so on, and you won't feel embarrassed.

Find the right topic from girls: When chatting with girls, if you don't pay attention, it's really easy to talk to death.

The best way to do this is to get to know the girls.

When you know the preferences of girls and see the strengths of girls, it is easy to find suitable topics.

Talk about topics that can arouse curiosity: Everyone has a strong sense of curiosity, and so does a woman's curiosity.

Hello, let's talk about some topics of interest to the other party.

1Find out the reason for the awkward chatThe main reason for the awkward chat is still in your own life, if you feel embarrassed, then this chat will become embarrassing, because emotions are infectious, for example, sometimes you are very relaxed and happy, when chatting with girls, girls will unconsciously be affected by your mood to become better! If your emotions are negative and negative when chatting, you will not be able to stand it while chatting, stop your negative energy volatilization, and your mood will also be affected by you.

2. Changing the subject, or cutting off the chat, is of course the smartest thing to do. Rescuing the other person from an uncomfortable state in time is the fastest way to relieve embarrassment. For example:

If you talk to her about a very awkward chat, at this time, you can directly transfer it to the content that the other party is interested in, which can effectively resolve the atmosphere of the awkward chat. But if you really don't know what to talk about at the moment, you can also cut off the topic and do your homework on the chat in advance next time to understand that the girl is coming to chat.

3. Lower your own purpose.

Hee-hee] [hee-hee] [hee-hee].

Questions. What topics are the girls interested in.

Eat, drink and be merry.

Watching movies, eating: hot pot.

Milk tea, clothes, bags.

As the saying goes, it cures all diseases [left cover face] [left cover face].

It's really not good, send a red envelope [hee-hee] [hee-hee].

Questions. [hee-hee].

Do you think it will be successful?

Red envelopes are also a cure for all diseases.

Questions. Yes.

Girls like it, and I like [left face covered].

Questions. [funny].

The price is yours.

It's going to cost you to chase girls.

Either the other person is interested in the topic you are talking about, or the other person is interested in you as a person. You have to choose one of the two for the chat to be possible.

Generally speaking, awkward conversations are manifested as: you talk to the other person, the other party reacts badly, to put it bluntly, it is your own self-entertainment. To solve this problem, the most fundamental thing is to solve the problem of how to arouse the interest of girls through chatting.

It's best to make an appointment to climb the mountain or eat, and not two people, it's best to ask girls to bring their girlfriends or friends, so that there will be more people and more topics.

Chat was originally used to shorten the distance between people, but straight men turned chat into a large-scale rollover scene. Awkward chats not only can't help you get closer to the girl, but it wastes the original great opportunity. Today, I will teach you how to chat with girls without embarrassment, and it is enough to learn these tricks.

How to chat with girls without being embarrassed.

1. Avoid having nothing to say.

Some brothers want to chat with girls, but they don't have a topic, and the result is that they have nothing to say to tease, which makes the chat atmosphere extremely awkward. Girls don't necessarily dislike men who can't talk, but they must hate men who don't have anything to talk to.

The most common are speechless: where are you, have you eaten, have you slept, good morning and good night, happy holidays. This kind of cliché that doesn't have a match, once or twice a girl can bear it, and after a long time, she will inevitably lose interest in chatting with you.

If you really can't think of what you can talk about, you'd rather not talk than talk hard.

2. Avoid flaming tongues.

Some men like to talk to girls with flamboyant tongues, no shape, like to take advantage of girls verbally, and even open their mouths. Women do like humorous men, but that doesn't mean they like flam tongue and unorthodox comics.

A lot of straight men take humor too seriously! For example, if a clown can make a girl laugh, will a girl like a clown because of it? The answer is no. What can make girls like you is your own attraction, and your words and humor skills can only add appropriate points.

3. Don't sigh or show off.

If you don't understand something or an area you're not good at, don't hold it up, don't pretend to understand it. Some brothers, but they have to hit the muzzle of the gun. For example, you don't understand finance, but you have to talk to girls about it.

The other party happens to be a master in this area, which is equivalent to hitting the muzzle of the gun himself. Learn to avoid topics that you are not good at, rather than pretending to understand.

4. Don't judge girls.

Some straight men are very backward and conservative in their concept of love, and they like to point fingers at girls' behavior. You know, when you judge a girl, the girl's window to you will also close. For example, if you think that a woman should not be in love before marriage, then the other person will refuse to fall in love with you before marriage.

For example, if you think it's disrespectful to hold hands on a first date, then the other person won't let you hold hands when they date you.

5. Don't ask questions continuously.

Chat is a kind of socialization, and the emphasis is on going back and forth, rather than one-sided continuous questions, asking questions that can't make girls like you. Asking questions is tantamount to asking for value, and the human instinct is to like people who can provide value, and a series of questions will quickly wear out the girl's patience and lose interest in you.

The easiest way to solve continuous questioning is to learn to ask feedback. When the girl has replied to your question, you can share your feelings and opinions (provide value) and then ask the girl questions to make the conversation more and more widespread.

6. Talk less about logical topics.

Another reason for the awkwardness of the chat is that the content of the chat is too logical. For example, talk about academics, work, finance, and data. These topics are logical.

The other party throws out the question you want to be vivid and interesting for him.