Can parents spank their children

It should not be able to beat, but some children are more underbeaten.

Playing is also a kind of education, which is relatively low-level but has a certain amount of education.

Hitting children should be moderate, for the purpose of education, and mainly for scare.

There are many ways to educate, and playing is not necessarily the best one, and other gentler ones can be taken. Usually, beating is the most helpless one, the most brutal one, depending on the degree of the child's mistakes, it is best not to take this kind of persuasion education.

Parents should not hit their children, but some children are very annoying, and parents may do it. Generally not very heavy.

Parents should be patient with their children's education, do not scold, persuade and educate their children to grow up healthily, is a matter of determining the quality of parents, pay attention to methods, and convince talents is the most important.

No, it should be done in an educational way.

How to effectively punish a child if it is not appropriate?

First, do not use harsh punishments such as corporal punishment.

Many parents equate punishment with corporal punishment of children, and the physical punishment of children is only one way to punish children, and parents should try to avoid using corporal punishment in the process of educating children, and cannot hit children. Maybe when the mood is calm, parents will feel that they will definitely not hit their children, but whenever parents are provoked by their children, they are often unable to rationally restrain their behavior.

Although some parents do not hit their children, they sometimes shake their children, which is actually a means of corporal punishment, which will cause harm to the child's body. Of course, slapping a child is never okay, and many news reports have mentioned that the child is permanently deaf because he was slapped by his parents.

Therefore, even if you want to punish your children, even if you want to educate them harshly, you can't beat and scold them, if parents feel that their children have no way to restrain them except for beating and scolding, then parents should first reflect on themselves and not on their children.

Second, pay attention to the timing of punishment.

Many children always start doing bad things when their parents are busiest, because they know that at this time their parents don't have time to punish them, so they are more at ease and bold, and this is true, and we often do such things when we are young.

When mom and dad don't have time, they just say "wait to come back and clean you up", and then leave, but in fact, when the parents come back, they completely forget what the child did wrong, and sometimes even if they remember, they just lightly reprimand the child, which has no effect of punishment at all. Therefore, in order for punishment to be effective for children, it is necessary to punish the behavior at the time of occurrence or immediately after it happens, so that the child can remember it more deeply and effectively prevent the same thing from happening again.

Third, pay attention to the consistency of punishment.

For example, if the child did not eat today and ate a snack, the parents reprimanded them, but on the second day, the child did it again, and the parents felt that it was okay for the child to eat a little, so they let him eat a snack. Obviously, the child was criticized by his mother for fighting with a child the day before, but today he was let go because his mother was in a good mood. Such inconsistent punishment will make the child feel that the seriousness of the matter will also make the child feel that the parent is a person who does not count.

There are still merits to this kind of education, and one or two uses can play an effective educational role, and it is not good to use it regularly.

What should parents do to educate their children properly?

1. Be friends with your children and don't take drastic behaviors.

To educate your child correctly is to let go of your posture and take the initiative to be friends with your child, rather than acting high all the time. Parents should often have in-depth and intimate conversations with their children to convey their love for their children.

In addition, when children make mistakes, parents should first calm down the emotions of self-defeat, and avoid taking radical behaviors towards children.

Treating children roughly will not only fail to make them realize their mistakes and correct them, but will also leave a shadow in their hearts and their personalities will become extreme.

2. Give your child more company.

No one can replace the love and companionship of parents, only under the careful teaching and companionship of parents can children receive better education and develop good habits.

But in real life, many parents are forced by the pressure of life to let their grandparents and grandparents come over to help watch the children or leave the children directly in their hometown.

In this case, parents are unable to provide enough time for their children, which will have a negative impact on his development.

Therefore, parents should treat their children more quickly and attentively, communicate with them more often, communicate with them or play more, keep abreast of their life and learning, and let them feel that even if their parents are not around, they are still caring and loving themselves.

Parents can not beat and scold their children, in the process of educating children, criticism and encouragement are corresponding, and the two are combined with each other to help children grow better. Excessive encouragement and praise may make the child become pompous and self-conscious; Excessive criticism and punishment can also make children introverted and have low self-esteem.

How to educate children is the right one.

1.Parents set an example for their children:

The power of example cannot be ignored, and it is an important way to influence and educate children with the good thoughts and good deeds of others. Whether it is a classmate, a neighbor, a teacher, or a heroic and exemplary figure, they should all be the objects of their children's learning and imitation. Whether a parent's words or deeds are wrong or correct, they have a profound impact on their children.

Therefore, parents should always check their words and deeds in their daily lives. Set a good example for educating your children.

2.Parents have a clear understanding of their identity and role:

We parents don't keep our own boundaries, and create an environment and opportunities for our children to make mistakes, but we blame two or three-year-old children for their lack of self-discipline, is it fair? It's the equivalent of throwing a sheep into a pack of wolves and telling the wolves that you can't eat the sheep, and whoever eats them is not a good wolf. Aren't we creating an environment where children can touch candy at their fingertips?

Isn't it that we are accustomed to entrusting our children to TV and computers, and rarely accompany and communicate with our children, resulting in our children being obsessed with cartoons or video games? Before complaining about our children's lack of self-discipline, we should first take responsibility for our own education, and we should not lose sight of our responsibility as parents.

3.Don't take a radical approach to education:

Some parents believe that "jade is not a weapon", and "children are not easy to become talents without beating and scolding". Therefore, whenever a child makes a mistake, he does not reason calmly, but indiscriminately scolds and beats him first. Such rough treatment of children not only does not make children truly realize their mistakes, but also is likely to leave a shadow in their hearts, and their personalities are easy to become extreme.

Not the right way to educate children.

4.Parents should help their children in the formation of their personality:

The most important task of family education is to build the Great Wall of Personality. In life, looking at people is often a handsome and ugly. With a high score, good grades are considered good children.

In fact, among the factors that affect lifelong development, scores are not the most important, and it is morality, character, happiness in life, popularity, respect, rather than knowledge, therefore, parents must establish a correct educational concept when educating their children, which will lay a solid foundation for the sound development of children's personality.

5.Encourage your child appropriately

Many of today's children have a rebellious mentality, and it may be difficult to achieve the desired effect by directly telling the truth, so parents can guide and encourage them more, and at the same time, they must often reflect on their words and deeds. If the child has done the right thing or has achieved good grades in school, appropriate encouragement should be given, mainly spiritual encouragement, and a small amount of material needs can also be met. Through affirmation and praise, children's enterprising spirit and sense of honor can be strengthened, and greater progress can be sought.

Of course, you can educate children, but you can't hurt children and cause minor injuries, the above is the key, I make a clever way for children to cause minor injuries and serious injuries, and I will also bear the corresponding responsibility of stupid Kuanchun, right? Belt resistant.

It is against the law not to hit a child. And it hurts feelings.

It is illegal for a parent to hit a child. According to the provisions of China's "Marriage Law", parents only have the obligation to raise and educate their children, and absolutely do not have the right to beat and scold their children at will. Every person becomes a citizen of the People's Republic of China from the moment of birth and enjoys the most basic personal rights, property rights, the right to dependency and the right to education, which are protected by national law.

Therefore, any infringement of their legitimate rights and interests is illegal. How to deal with parents who beat and scold their children? Generally speaking, most of the beating and scolding of children by fathers and mothers is improper discipline.

If the consequences are not serious, they can be urged to consciously correct their mistakes and adopt the correct method of educating their children by criticizing the methods of education. However, for those parents who often beat and scold their children, the circumstances are heinous, the consequences are serious, and they have already committed a crime, they should be sued and asked the judicial organs to investigate their criminal responsibility in accordance with the law.

Hit when it's time to fight, don't spoil your child, educate your child's behavior to be moderate, it's not good, it's not good, you have to know how to find a balance!

My personal opinion is that of course it is possible, and in the process of family education, the appropriate use of corporal punishment will help children establish a sense of boundaries and avoid serious consequences due to excessive spoiling.

But I don't advocate fighting at every turn, and even if you do, you need to be informed of the situation and be measured.

The purpose of punishing children is to provoke them to reflect on their own bad behavior, and in the hope that in this way, children can learn to use more correct or socially appropriate ways. As the saying goes, there are no rules.

When children move from the family to society, they will inevitably encounter many legal norms and interpersonal rules and etiquette. If you lack a sense of rules from an early age and think that you will not and should not be punished for whatever you do, you will have great difficulty adapting to school life and going out into society.

Spoiling children excessively, not only can not help children establish necessary and appropriate rules, but even continue to condone the development of bad behaviors, many parents find that their children are irretrievable before they regret it, such a tragedy is seen in reality. As the saying goes, parents don't educate, society will educate itself.

Therefore, the establishment of rules and the interpretation of rules are prerequisites for the use of disciplinary measures.

However, parents should also understand a truth, that is, simply hitting their children will not achieve the educational effect.

The only role that spanking can play is to stop their inappropriate behavior in the moment, and the child may show short-term "obedience" because of fear, but in the long run, it will not achieve the behavior management goals that parents want, and it will also have a negative impact on the parent-child relationship and the child's interpersonal relationship. Studies have found that frequent corporal punishment as a child is significantly associated with a series of serious psychological problems such as emotional disorders, substance dependence, and personality disorders in adulthood.

Of course not. Scolding education will do more harm than good to children's growth, especially adolescent children.

Parents should try not to hit their children, and should be more reasonable and communicate with their children.