What do you think about the behavior of parents of students giving gifts to teachers?

I think this kind of behavior is very bad, the profession of a teacher is to improve children's academic performance, teach children knowledge and the truth of how to behave in the world, and the hometown gift will wear out the teacher's original intention.

Personally, I think that the school is a pure land, and the teachers who teach and educate people are such a noble group, if the children are instilled with this kind of corrupt ideas such as going through the back door to do things and getting more care with money, then how can children establish correct values and outlook on life? How to let him slowly learn to be respected and welcomed by others through his down-to-earth efforts?

I am a teacher, and I am very opposed to parents giving gifts to teachers, which has a very bad impact on the teacher's own image. If you don't accept it, parents are worried that you will not be good for their children, and if you accept it, your own character will be greatly reduced.

I don't think there's anything wrong with giving gifts, it's mainly about what kind of gifts, like the souvenirs that students give to thank their teachers, and so on.

I don't think it's appropriate for parents to give gifts, no matter how light or heavy the gift is, it will have a derogatory connotation in the eyes of outsiders.

Personally, I think it's better to have more contact with teachers than to give gifts. Because teachers are also ordinary people, although real life now makes people more and more demanding of material things, sometimes not everyone is interested in material things.

Parents also hope that teachers can take more care of their children, such parents must love their children.

I think it's better for parents to let their children choose gifts and give them to the teacher in person if they want to express their gratitude.

If you just give some simple gifts, it can be understood, after all, it is the teacher's holiday, and gifts as the best way to express themselves are still okay.

The students I used to teach often sent me small gifts, postcards, books, and I was very happy.

I think that in general, the purpose of giving gifts to teachers is different for everyone.

1.Most gifts to teachers may be due to the desire for teachers to take care of their children. But the teacher won't be particularly impressed with you just because you give a gift.

The teacher is also a human being, and he also has seven emotions and six desires, and he also needs firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you give a gift, he may say "don't, don't", and his heart is still happy.

After that, on the road, I met you and the child with a pleasant face, and asked questions once or twice in class, and that was also the case. Human nature is understandable.

But most of the time, that's the end of it. I will definitely not ignore the other thirty or forty children because of this, and focus on taking care of one of your family's only seedlings.

The teachers like and are most willing to get along with those children who have good conduct, do not cause trouble, and are motivated.

Teachers, the most trusted, are still those parents who communicate happily, can seriously cooperate with the teacher's work, and actively supervise their children's learning.

2.Some parents give gifts to teachers for many different purposes, Teacher's Day parents give gifts to teachers to thank teachers for taking care of their children, and on the other hand, they hope that teachers can pay more attention to their children in the future. Some people just want to thank the teacher, while others just want to please the teacher.

Everyone's purpose is different, and the gifts he gives are different.

3.In fact, most people give gifts to their teachers, and they are really grateful to the teachers for taking care of their children over the years or for so long. Your own children will definitely be more or less naughty at school, or when they need help from teachers.

Then it is a good time to use this Teacher's Day to express gratitude. Thank you to him for taking care of his children for so long. Many parents don't have this opportunity in normal times, so they are in a hurry to express their gratitude to teachers through a variety of gifts on Teacher's Day.

Standing in the teacher's position, it is definitely not accepted, this is the principle and the bottom line.

First of all, from the legal point of view, the salary and bonus of teachers are issued by the state finance department, and the funds are earmarked, which is a reasonable and legal income. The school hires teachers and gives them a job-dependent treatment, which is the same as the salary paid by the company. If the teacher receives a red envelope from the student's parents, what is this part of the income?

Isn't it the same as the benefit of an employee privately receiving a partner? This is unreasonable and illegal income. Some people say that it is normal for employees to get kickbacks, and they can't do anything if they don't take them, so is the teacher unable to teach students without red envelopes?

It must be an act that does not conform to the bottom line of professional ethics, but the nature of this must not be taken.

Secondly, in terms of work assessment, the teacher's work assessment is assessed by the school and relevant education departmentsThere are also corresponding criteria, such as the promotion rate, the pass rate, the attendance rate, and so on. Some colleagues can say, "If you don't take it, they will think that you will not do your best for their children".

This is not a matter of whether parents give red envelopes or not, and whether teachers accept them or not can be clearly determined. If a teacher's job is judged by the feelings of parents, then the work cannot be done. Red envelopes are a psychological placebo for parents in order to allow their children to get special care, if the teacher accepts it, it will be difficult to manage such students in the future.

Finally, in terms of emotion, the teacher does not treat students by not receiving red envelopes。If giving or not giving red envelopes is the criterion for considering whether you are attentive or not, then the children of parents who do not give red envelopes, can the teacher not teach and not be careful. I believe that no, it is the teacher's duty to educate the children themselves, and it is not a red envelope that can be decided.

If you receive a red envelope, it will make the atmosphere of the whole class become a miasma, parents will compare the size of the gift with each other, and the problem can not be solved objectively, all in the form of gifting, so what kind of example does it play for the child?

I believe that there must be many teachers who accept red envelopes in private, but this does not mean that it is a reasonable and legal behavior, teachers still have to have their own bottom line of principles, otherwise they will be greedy for a small gain, and finally ruin not only the children but also their own career prospects.

Teachers should not take it, because as a teacher, they should treat their students equally, and they should not be impressed by a student's parents just because they give them gifts.

I think that when parents give gifts, teachers should not accept them, because this kind of behavior tarnishes the profession of teachers, and teachers should be selfless and dedicated.

When a student's parents give gifts, the teacher should definitely not accept them, because as a teacher, he should have the responsibility and obligation to teach the students.

In fact, some parents give gifts to teachers, mainly because they want teachers to take more care of their children, which is also a very normal behavior.

Asking him to give gifts to the teacher is actually not right, because this phenomenon is a very bad phenomenon, which not only disrespects the teacher, but also does not respect his own children, and should be eliminated.

Parents should not give gifts to teachers, such words seem too materialistic, and they feel that it is not a simple teacher-student relationship, but will make the relationship between students and teachers very complicated.

Parents should not give gifts to teachers. Children can give their teachers some special meaningful and innovative gifts. But if it is given by a parent, it will change its nature.

Parents should not give gifts to teachers, because this will tarnish the pure work of teachers. Moreover, it is their vocation for teachers to teach and educate people.

During the New Year's holidays, it is also okay to give some meaningful gifts to thank the teachers for their dedication and hard work. But it can't be too expensive, otherwise there will be a suspicion of bribery.

If you show respect for the teacher and teach your child, you can give small gifts to show your appreciation, but not for a purpose.

This kind of behavior should not be, because you have encouraged the teacher to accept gifts in disguise, and this behavior is particularly bad.

Parents should give small gifts to teachers so that teachers can take more care of their children.

This is as it should be, the teacher is really hard, and the child is so naughty.

This social phenomenon. Children's education. We also have a great responsibility.

I don't think so, shouldn't parents give gifts to teachers also be considered bribes?

From the perspective of parents, it is estimated that it can be divided into several kinds, the first is a real local tyrant, who has too much money, is used to spending a lot of money, or is used to showing off his wealth, and he doesn't think much about it, buying a bag of 20,000 yuan feels similar to buying two boxes of pastries. Second, they want to bribe teachers, thinking that teachers will definitely be better for their children if they have a soft mouth and short hands. Third, under pressure, other parents gave heavy gifts and did not give them themselves, for fear that their children would suffer at school.

The first kind of local tyrant is not a big problem, but he does not think about things, only cares about himself, and does not care about the feelings and influences of others. The second kind of parental thinking has a problem, how bad is the morality of a teacher who treats students differently after receiving gifts, such a teacher who has no virtue, do you expect him to teach your child well? The third type of parent, like the second, is pinning hopes on a teacher without virtue.

There are always many people who usually denounce society, scold corruption, think that they are righteous and good, and turn around and even think that their children go to school to bribe teachers, this kind of person is really pitiful and hateful.

If parents don't give gifts, some bad teachers won't want to stay in the teaching team anymore, and children can really get a better education. In order to make the good teacher feel comfortable, in order to make the bad teacher feel uncomfortable, don't give gifts in the future.

I gave some gifts, but I didn't give too expensive ones. I think it's okay to send some commemorative items on some traditional festivals such as Teacher's Day. Nowadays, many parents of students will choose to give some holiday gifts and birthday gifts to teachers during some important Changli holidays, but I think this is not necessary at all.

Teachers have an obligation to teach students, and if they give gifts often, it will seem a bit deliberate. After all, many teachers have a lot of opportunities for receiving gifts, and at the same time, the teaching rules and regulations also do not allow teachers to receive gifts by themselves. There's no need to give expensive dust shouting gifts.

If parents want to give some gifts to the teacher, it is okay, but the gift should be made by the child himself. Don't give expensive gifts to your child's teacher, give some expensive gifts to your child's teacher, and maybe make the teacher habitually receive gifts. In the future, when we don't give gifts to teachers, teachers may not take children seriously.

Moreover, my education department does not allow teachers to accept gifts, and if teachers accept expensive gifts, they will be expelled. Under this question, the words of a parent also resonated with many parents. One of the parents mentioned that he was not aware of the gift giving when his child was in kindergarten, but after comparison, he also found a problem.

There is a group of kindergarten parents, and parents usually consult some things in the group, but she recently found that she also asks the teacher questions, and the teacher often gives priority to replying to another parent, but automatically ignores her own news. And now that my child is in elementary school, I happened to see the parents of my child's classmates giving gifts to the teacher. I was also very confused about whether I should send it or not, and later gave the teacher a necklace, but the teacher refused to accept it.

For young teachers, even if parents don't give gifts to teachers, teachers won't say anything, because teachers want parents to cooperate with their work, so it's very good. If parents do not cooperate with the teacher's work, it will also lead to great difficulties in the teacher's education. After all, the child is listening to the teacher's arrangement, and parents are also worried that the child will be treated unfairly, so they should naturally pay special attention to the teacher's feelings.

However, I ignore the annoyance that sometimes giving gifts to teachers may bring to teachers, in fact, the purpose of teachers and parents is to improve children's academic performance, and I think it is time for both parties to strengthen communication.