The state determines life, and the state of mind determines life

The state of life is determined by the temperature of one's own heart".

A gray-haired old professor said in the last class of the students' graduation: This is the last lesson I will give you, this is a simple experimental lesson, but also a profound experimental lesson, I hope you will always remember this last lesson in the future. 」

As he spoke, the professor took out a glass container and filled it with half a container of water.

The professor put the container of water in the freezer next to him and said, "Now we're going to refrigerate it." 」

After a while, the container was taken out, and the water inside condensed into crystal clear ice.

The professor said: 0 Below, this water becomes ice, and ice is another form of water, but water becomes ice, and it cannot flow. 」

Now, let's look at the third form of water. 」

As he spoke, the professor placed the glass container containing ice on the alcohol stove and lit it.

After a while, the ice gradually melted into water, and then the water was boiled, and wisps of milky white water vapor were churning and filling the laboratory quietly.

After a short time, the water in the container evaporated and dried up.

The professor turned off the alcohol stove and asked the students to examine the glass containers one by one, and said, "Who can tell where the water goes?" The students stared at the professor, and they didn't understand why the knowledgeable professor had given them this simplest experiment in this last lesson.

The professor looked at the students who didn't want to ask this question and said, "Where did the water go?" They evaporate into the air and melt into the vast blue sky. 」

The professor paused slightly and then said, "You may all think this experiment is too simple, but ......」

The professor changed his tone and said solemnly: It is not a simple experiment! 」

The professor glanced at the bewildered students and said, "There are three states of water, and there are three states of life."

The state of water is determined by the temperature, and the state of life is determined by the temperature of one's own mind. 」

The professor said, "If a person's temperature about life and life is below 0, then the person's state of life will be ice, and his whole life state will be no bigger than where his feet stand; If a person has a normal attitude towards life and life, then he is a handful of water under normal conditions, he can flow into the great river and the sea, but he can never leave the earth; If a person is 100 ardent about life and life, then he will become water vapor, he will become a cloud, he will fly, he will not only own the earth, but also the sky, and his world will be as big as the universe. 」

The professor smiled at his students and asked, "Do you understand this simplest lab lesson?" 」

No, it's not an easy lab lesson! The students spoke in unison.

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The temperature of water is heated by fire to reach 100, while the temperature of the human soul is warmed by positive thinking, optimistic heart, care from relatives and friends, gentle and considerate heart, curiosity about the world, hard work, etc.

Hellinger said, "When you pay attention only to the actions of a man, you do not see him; When you pay attention to the intent behind a person's actions, you begin to look at him; When you care about the needs and feelings behind a person's intentions, you see him. "The ultimate task of every human being is to see themselves completely, so that we can see others completely.

In family education, doing oneself well is the first priority. If you want your children or a loved one to help you build yourself, you will never have yourself. The self is the true self, and the establishment of the self is to present the true self and find the value of one's own independence and struggle.

Only two independent individuals can establish a relationship and achieve a link, which is the key to impact. Life is a state, life lies in exploration, we can not meet in an eternal certainty of the dry auspicious state, I and you are destined to meet in various states of staggered encounter, stay together, we can be remembered in the last time is a meeting in various states of a hand-holding, the sedan chair is our life together to compose the music. The same is true with children.

Therefore, holding hands in a state of love with children in the most beautiful state, no matter what state they are in, can meet them in the best state we expect.

Thank you son for helping his mother come down to pick up the courier! Thank you for my son's telling my mother that he would go out to ride a bike in the afternoon! Thank you son for helping his sister chat with dad**! Thank you for your son's foot soak at night! Thank you for folding the quilt after getting up!

Project your own energy to be stable and accept every experience of your child's growth!

Projecting the son to find the direction and persevere to the end! Project your son's schedule and rest on time, take care of your phone! Projecting that my son will understand the meaning of learning in life as soon as possible, overcome resistance, and go to school happily! Projection son gets along happily with teachers and classmates! Projecting my son to enhance his self-confidence and continue to grow!

Project noble people to help, bless energy, and help us fulfill our wishes! Project yourself and everything around you to get better!

Projecting that our whole family can meet the right people and things, be favored and loved by the universe, and everything will go well for our husband, son, and daughter!

Project yourself to be safe and healthy, family and work are correct, adhere to parent-child education and learning, overcome inner anxiety, adjust the energy state, give children a positive impact, and strive to create a warm, harmonious and happy home!

In real life, we can't control what happens to us, but we can control our mentality; We can't change others, but we can change ourselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people, the real difference is in the mentality. Therefore, whether a person is successful or not mainly depends on his mentality.

Mentality determines life, this is the truth, if a person always holds a positive attitude, his life will be full of vitality, if it is a passable mentality, it will be as plain as water, if it is a negative mentality, life will be full of hesitation and depression.

In life, a good attitude can make you optimistic and cautious; A good acre and mentality can enable you to overcome the hardships you face; A good attitude can make you indifferent to fame and fortune and live a truly happy life. The history of human civilization for thousands of years has taught us that a positive mindset can help us achieve health, happiness and wealth.

I remember a philosopher who said that your state of mind is your life.

Many times, we can't control what will happen to us, but what we can control is what kind of mentality we use to face things when we encounter them.

We can't change others, but we can change ourselves by changing our mentality.

The hallmark of a good attitude is: less extravagance, less care, less complaining.

No matter what your fate is, no matter what your luck is, with a good attitude, you will be the biggest winner in life.

Life is not bitter, what is bitter is too much desire; People's hearts are not tired, but they are tired of asking too much.

We should have less extravagant hopes, more rocky stools, and a little rough travel contentment, so that we can live happily.

There is such a sentence in Caigen Tan": "All come to the immediate affairs, those who are content are in the fairyland, and those who are not content are in the mortal realm." ”

The more you know how to be content, the more you can enjoy the happiness of the moment.

The better the mentality, the less troubles in life, and the more comfortable life will be.

Zhou Guoping said: "The human body is governed by the mind, and a good attitude is the best health. ”

A little less extravagance, a little more contentment, so that you can better enjoy the happy time of the moment.

Less care, more tolerance, let you feel the beauty of poetry and distance, always around.

Less complaining, more effort, in fact, the footsteps of success have quietly followed you.

Having a good mindset is the best way to maintain health.

If you don't have a good mentality, no matter how strong your ability is, you are a weak person in life.

In life, in fact, there is nothing that cannot be passed.

As long as you put your mentality right, face it bravely, and accept it sincerely, then you will find that in fact, taking a step back, the scenery of the sea and sky is more beautiful.

No matter what your life, no matter what your luck, I believe that having a good attitude is the biggest winner in life.