How to choose to determine the fate of life?

It is often said that man's destiny is destined. This statement is more idealistic, and it is estimated that few people think this way now. I saw the signatures of many young people: My life is up to me.

However, Yu Minhong said everywhere: choice determines fate. More people have criticized us that your current life is what you chose many years ago, and what your future life will do depends on your current choice.

The problem is that any choice we make, whether it was or is, is justified. Even if someone said that they bought a house back then, changed jobs back then, and chose a major back then, it was all based on intuition. I also think that there must be a standard in his subconscious, which is the basis for his judgment of things, and this standard is his underlying values.

Choice determines fate, and it is values that determine choice; Therefore, what really determines a person's fate is a person's values. In the process of cultivating values, there is only one trap that should be carefully avoided: generalization.

So what are values? Values are all about knowing in your own mind what is good, what is better, and what is best? Correspondingly, we also know what is bad, what is worse, and what is worst.

When we think back to the process of our choice, it is generally a struggle between good and better. Generally, there is no big problem with the choice between good and bad, just choose the good one!

I once saw a little boy in the second grade standing in front of the cold drink cabinet for half an hour, just not sure what he wanted to drink. Even better, he told me that he had difficulty making choices.

Children have limited life experience and cannot judge what kind of drink they like. I suggested that he choose a try that he had not drunk before, because there was an additional experience, and even a basis for judgment, and if there were enough samples, he would know what he really liked!

Our values are actually built by our life experiences, experiences and thoughts. Of course, it is common for many people to rely on experience and experience and lack thinking.

However, a person's living environment is relatively fixed and his experience is limited, which will inevitably lead to a situation of self-righteousness based on partial generalizations.

I've been busy with things I've been doing before, and I always think that I can do it according to the previous routine. For example, the setting of the route, the arrangement of the site and so on. Fortunately, I met a more experienced leader than me, and after he led us to the scene again to coordinate and arrange, it directly broke my original perception of this kind of thing, and directly rose to more than one level.

Why can he have such a level or ability? Of course, it has something to do with his experience, and it also has something to do with his habits.

It made me realize once again that if I just stay at the level of my own past experience, there will always be the problem of self-righteousness and generalization. Heaven beyond heaven is more than just a kind word.

Choose according to the true thoughts of your heart, don't take the path you don't like because of the advice of others, and focus on your own considerations.

Be sure to be clear about what you want and work in that direction, only then can you make a good choice.

When we are faced with a choice, we must think carefully, and we must carefully consider it before drawing conclusions, so that such a choice will make our life smoother.

There is no regret medicine in this world, so the choice is very important, and you should listen to the ideas of some seniors, as well as the advice of parents and relatives.