As for the truth about marriage, is it true that no matter who you marry, you will regret it?

Yes, for marriage, no matter who you marry, you will regret it, because life after marriage is not a matter of two recognitions, it is a matter of two families, and we must learn to adapt, not regret.

No matter who you marry, you will find out the shortcomings of the other person, and then you will regret it. Therefore, it is necessary to choose the right person and be financially independent. For us, marriage is for love and happiness, but the reality is cruel.

Because whoever you marry will regret it in the future, and love can easily cover people's eyes. When you fall in love, you feel like you've found the perfect person. He loves you and is willing to protect you.

He treats you as the treasure of his heart, and you can give everything for him.

After getting married, you will find that he is just an ordinary person, and he is not as perfect as you think. You start to hate his laziness, he starts to hate your willfulness, and finally the romantic love is gone, and you start to regret it, why did you choose such a person in the first place? No matter how much you love someone, they are not perfect.

When you run to him with fantasies, wake yourself up first, there is no perfect marriage, and neither is he. To accept a person is to accept his shortcomings first, and then discover the bright spots, otherwise you will regret it sooner or later. The person is still the same person, but it doesn't feel the same as before.

You begin to regret your choice, you regret being with this person, you regret that you entered the wrong marriage. Whoever you are with, you will regret it in the end because you thought of your marriage too perfectly. Marriage will never be perfect, and after entering the marriage, the love will be slowly consumed by time, and then turn the world upside down, and finally return to peace.

If you want to make yourself not regretful, you have to choose a marriage that is right and unbridled, there are great differences between the two, and there will inevitably be contradictions after marriage, and these problems cannot be solved at all.

The reality is very cruel, financial independence is necessary, economic independence is not qualified, there is no qualification to pursue love. Both parties to the marriage are built on an economic foundation.

If there is a conflict of interest between the parties, the breakdown of the marriage is inevitable. If there is not enough money to support a family's expenses, women often have conflicts. Poor couples fail at all and have no money for married life.

There may be regrets but no regrets, and maybe marrying someone you like will end up with chicken feathers. People are responsible for their own choices, and if they have already made a choice, they should not think about it and not regret it, but should take care of their current feelings and relationships. Besides, the person you love is not necessarily the right person to marry you.

Love is much simpler than marriage, as long as each other's world has each other, but marriage is much more complicated. In marriage, there is not only love, but also the righteousness of treating each other with sincerity, the tacit understanding and unforgettable kindness. Love is not something that everyone can have, but marriage has become a necessary state of life for everyone.

Maybe we will never enter the palace of marriage with the person we love deeply in this life, become a family, and never be separated together for the rest of our lives. It is precisely because of such regrets that we can remember the taste of love.

Many years later, we found that after walking hand in hand with an unloving empty quietly for half a lifetime, we have endured each other's tempers, tempered each other's personalities, and formed a consistent concept of life, and you will find that marriage is life. The person you love dearly is not fit to get married. Love is to fall in love with a person's merits, and marriage is to live with a person's merits.

When the years destroy the appearance of love, it is inevitable that there will be a gap in your heart, and it is not only the person in front of you who makes you lose, but also your love.

Many people who enter married life, most of them have a loved one in their hearts, and how lucky it is if you can be with the person you love for a lifetime! In your married life, you will find that your lover is very good to you, but you are not the one you love the most. Such a state is not uncommon in life, and the tolerance, smile, care, and concern of the love and scumbag can not be out of love, but also out of responsibility and role responsibility.

Maybe one day you will suddenly have an epiphany that marriage is to avoid loneliness and loneliness and resist unknown risks.

1. Will regret: Some people think that they don't hold a banquet when they get married, and they can't come back with gifts over the years. Of course, this idea is understandable, but in some places, the gift itself is relatively small, so it doesn't make much sense, and now there are some places that don't accept the gift, or according to the region.

2. Will regret: Another reason for regret is that for many people, they still don't understand that they don't hold a banquet when they get married, and they will inevitably be pointed at.

3. No regrets: The wedding banquet is a huge expense, and there are many more expenses for the newlyweds to form a new small family after getting married, so if you don't hold a banquet, the money saved can be used elsewhere.

4. No regrets: Nowadays, young people are busy with work, and it is difficult to find time to prepare for weddings and hold weddings.

Of course I don't regret it, I should take responsibility for the choices I made, and my married life is also very happy now, there is nothing to regret, on the other hand, marriage is also an inevitable thing for me, and I will certainly not regret it.

The choice you make, you should take responsibility, and now your married life is also very happy, there is nothing to regret, on the other hand, marriage is also an inevitable thing for yourself, and of course you will not regret it.

Most people want to get married if they are not married, and those who are married regret getting married, but the knot is over, so they can only go on.

There must be many people who regret getting married, but they will definitely regret it more after not getting married than getting married, but there are very few people who don't get married.

After getting married, if you regret it, there are probably two kinds of regrets.

One is the choice of life, because choosing a marriage is also equivalent to choosing a different life, and after experiencing it, I begin to regret that this kind of life is not what I want.

Or regret it because this orange life is not as beautiful as I imagined, fantasized and longed for.

If you regret the latter, then what I want to tell you is that in this world, no kind of life is absolutely beautiful, don't believe in fairy tales so much, and don't bring ideals into reality, another life, maybe the experience and experience will be different, but the meaning is the same.

If it is regretting the former, Milan Kundera said:

One can never know what one wants, because one can only live once, and one cannot compare it with a previous life or revise it in a future life. There is no way to test which choice is good, because there is no comparison. Everything is experienced at once, only once, and cannot be prepared.

I think so. There are hundreds, thousands, and thousands of kinds of life, and you can't go through them all, and then after comparing and judging, you can know which one is the best, and you can only take the path you have chosen.

As for the other type of regret, it is regretting the choice of the partner, either because the partner was chosen wrong, or because the partner was not so ideal.

So I thought, maybe it would be nice to change someone.

Unless your partner's character is problematic or has a principled harm to you, you must not think so, in this world, there is no absolutely happy marriage, and there is no absolutely ideal partner.

The main thing is whether the husband and wife can support each other and influence each other, and after the run-in, it becomes more and more suitable, and then refers to the old group because of each other, they are getting better and better.

That run-in process is, of course, painful, but in fact, every couple is unavoidable, and there will be a period of the most difficult years.

You should correct your attitude, discover more of your partner's strengths, and live with each other's strengths.

A friend who has been married for seven years happened to talk about this issue during the chat, and what I didn't expect at first was that he replied with three words so firmly: no regrets. A very striking sentence, the essence of many things in life, can not escape a "exchange, giving" law, there is a gain, there is a loss, there is a loss, for what you want, you have to exchange what you have.

In other words, there is no gain or loss in life, and all that is lost will eventually return in another form and continue to have it in disguise. "Sometimes I also think about what kind of chic and free happy life I would have lived if I hadn't gotten married, but when I thought about it, if I hadn't gotten married, I wouldn't have been able to live the happy life of my wife and children who are hot on the kang head, who are sick and have someone to take care of, who is sad to talk to, and who is surrounded by children every day. There is also the sense of joy and accomplishment that watching children grow up day by day.

If the marriage is happy, then you will be simple about the decisions you have made before, and the choice of your partner is a lifelong happiness and the right decision, and if the current life is a mess, then you will regret the original choice. Judging grinding.

I don't regret it, but occasionally I think that if I do it again, I might not tie it or end it late.

I really regret it, I shouldn't have rushed into marriage because of my parents' urging to marry, I didn't love each other at all, and I didn't have a common language to live together, which was really uncomfortable.