Tangled breakups? Tie the knot? Is it to get married or to break up?

I can understand your feelings, when you are about to get married, you start to hesitate whether you should get married, because marriage is a lifelong thing, and you really have to be cautious.

What I want to say is:

1. Marriage is not child's play, you have to think clearly about whether you are in such a hurry to marry him? Are you clear about his character, his ability to survive, his home, his family, etc.? Do you understand his strengths and weaknesses and accept them all?

Think about it.

2. It is not exactly love that determines marriage. Hehe, you can enter marriage without love, just like many of our grandparents and grandparents, they are living well, but what you have to think clearly about is whether he has a clear understanding of marriage, and can he take care of you and protect you? Are you both tolerant of each other?

3. If you are thinking about divorce if it is not suitable, I advise you not to rush to get married first, think clearly, because it is difficult for a woman to get married once and then find it.

Good luck.

You didn't make it clear what your purpose was when you got married? Stress is no reason at all.

There are 2 types of people who get married, either for love or for money.

From what you say, you don't love him, so what about his wealth? Are you satisfied?

If he can give you the spiritual life or economic life you want, as long as there is one thing, it is actually enough.

If you don't have love and money, what's the point of living together like that? It's not as comfortable as the freedom to come alone.

Obviously, you don't like her, and you are forced to get married for some reason (such as age). However, I don't think it's easy to find a man who loves you, so you have to slowly discover his strengths and start cultivating that feeling, and I think over time, you will feel it, unless your man is very bad.

It's so fast! 1 It's better to think clearly

I have encountered such a situation, and it is recommended that you do not rush to get married during this time. Because marriage is not the final result.

Many people say that they are married to love, but they ignore a problem, when they are about to get married, one party makes unreasonable demands, the other party can't meet them, and finally part ways.

My mind is still in turmoil right now, and I can't accept this result at all. I can't figure it out at all, we said before that we were going to get married, but why was she about to get married, but she changed her mind temporarily? I really don't understand her anymore, she's not the same person who loved me anymore.

She and I have been in a relationship since we first started working after graduating from college, and we have been in love for four years now. In the past four years, we have experienced the hardships of working together, the joy of life slowly getting better, crying together, laughing together, although we are only in love, we can be regarded as a "couple in distress". I have always believed that there is no one or nothing to break up in the relationship between us, I have long regarded her as a family, and she has also said that I will not marry in this life.

We agreed to get married, and we agreed to buy a house at my house after we got engaged, and then we went home to work and live a life that belonged to just the two of us.

Getting married is our common goal and the motivation for my work. I will always put her at the center of everything I do, and think about her first. It is precisely because I think of having her by my side in the future that I always feel very happy.

We discussed marriage while working, and originally said to get engaged during the May Day holiday, but then she changed it and said that it was better to get engaged during the Dragon Boat Festival! She said she wanted to go on another trip with her before she got engaged. I already regard her as a wife, and of course I will agree to such a simple request.

Time flies quickly, and it's May Day in the blink of an eye. Because we made a travel plan in advance, we went to Hangzhou together to play during the holidays. On the way to play, we still have a good relationship, and we are still talking about things together after marriage.

However, since returning from her trip, she has begun to change her mind.

It was almost time for us to get engaged, and I couldn't understand that she had suddenly done something like this. I asked her she wouldn't say anything, and I didn't know why. She said she would consider it, and I was sure she would respect my opinion, after all, we agreed at the beginning.

If she was sure that she was what she said at the beginning, then I would respect her too. However, instead of respecting my opinion, she changed her mind again, so it was really uncomfortable, and I didn't know whether I should get married. In the end, we chose to calm down for a while.

I don't really understand what it means, are these two choices now, if you ask this kind of thing, are you thinking about breaking up, two people must have a fate to walk together, if you don't think it's suitable, there's nothing to break up, it's better than all kinds of problems after marriage, but if there is no principled problem, I think it is a very, very romantic thing to be able to be together, to be able to grow old together.

If you are in the case of these two options, it is not recommended that you choose. Now that it's easy to get married like this, there is no turning back or leaving lifelong regrets, so it's better to be steady, think about it, communicate well, and then choose what you should go. What kind of decision to make?

The question of whether to get married or break up should be carefully considered, and not to make the wrong choice on impulse.

Summary. Dear Hello I can especially understand your current mood, through your description you can see that your relationship is very good, so it has come to the point of talking about marriage, it must be because of a misunderstanding to break up, so it is recommended that you have a good talk with him, the most important thing for two people is communication and exchange.

Dear, you are good to start the chaos especially able to understand your current mood training, through your description can be seen that your relationship is very good, so it has come to the point of talking about marriage, it must be because of a misunderstanding will break up, so it is recommended that you have a good talk with him, the most important thing for two people is communication and exchange.

Kiss, don't care about face, Lu Gaoxian loves a person, you have to learn to be tolerant and understanding, there is a man who has a strong personality, and the macho is early imitation, then we have to take the initiative at this time.

I was pregnant, and then I got him back for a long time and he said it was not necessary.

Now he's deleted me.

Kissing, deleting also shows that you care, and if you don't care, you should treat you calmly.

Dear, what happened to you about this misunderstanding?

Kiss, delete also shows that you care, if you don't care, he should treat you calmly.

Dear, does his family know about being pregnant now?

Dear, if it's convenient, you can talk to the teacher, I will help you find a way, I am really distressed to hear that you are pregnant, <>