Who has read The Book of Fu Lei s Family ? Help write a reflection!

Christopher's mother was left alone at home.

My dear child, the day after you left, I wanted to write a letter, but I was afraid that you would be annoyed, so I just wanted to write a letter. But I don't think about you for a day, I wake up at six or seven o'clock every morning, I can't sleep over and over, and I can't say why. Just as Christopher's mother was alone at home, remembering the images of her child's childhood, your mother and I were always thinking about the little stories of you between the ages of two or three and six or seven.

Even if you are the master of the truth, don't be domineering, the more justified you are, the more easy-going your attitude is, this is the cultivation of people. Some people are unreasonable but also three points stronger, and if they are not satisfied, they will be angry and thunderous, and some people will not be able to live if they live, and some people will not be able to live if they speak, and others will not be able to speak, and these are all manifestations of poor cultivation. Reading this passage from "The Book of Fu Lei's Family" makes us understand that a cultivated person should be calm, calm, humble, easy-going, and generous.

Content: Everything in the world must be exchanged for pain.

There is no happiness in life that does not have a price" Walking on the path of perseverance, there will inevitably be failures, and they will even make you pay a painful price. However, "failure is the mother of success" is just like Fu Lei, others entrust their children to him, although they are tired, but they let him return to his long-lost fatherhood.

It's like'When you are sick in life, how can you get the comfort and joy of healing without going through the pain of the body and the bitterness of medicine? If you don't experience the pain of flesh and skin of acupuncture, how can you be lively after **?

In the journey of life, everything that is meaningful and accomplished, without your persistence and pain, how can it be sent to you? "Suffer hardship, only then can you become a master" Everything in the world must be exchanged for pain, and only in this way will there be joy after success.

For the family letter, Fu Lei said this: "Although I am not old and decrepit, I am physically and mentally exhausted, and I have the strength to work for eleven hours a day, but now I feel exhausted for five or six hours; However, the obsession of 'getting talented and educating them' has not changed. For the sake of Cong and Mila, I don't know how many words I wrote in Chinese, English, and French, and I always felt that my responsibility to my children could not be shirked when I was alive.

Indeed, after reading "Fu Lei's Family Book", Fu Lei's love for his son is awe-inspiring. The beacon fire lasted for three months, and the family letter was worth 10,000 dollars. I think that this letter to the family contains Fu Lei's sincere teachings and ardent hopes for his children before he put pen to paper, and contains strong family affection and love.

I am deeply touched by Mr. Fu Lei's seriousness in life and his dedication to his children. From the art of career and life in the family letters, to the small ones who accompany the people to eat and dress and spend money, everything is big and small, and everything is cared for. In addition to Fu Lei's artistic insights and teaching his son on how to behave and behave in every letter, the most memorable detail is that he told Fu Cong that when he entered the house and took off his coat, he should take off the silk scarf together, and when standing and talking to the elders, he should stand up straight and hang his hands down, if he copied his hands in his trouser pockets, it was very impolite, and it was even more impolite to put his hands in the pockets of his clothes.

When I saw these words, mine'Surprise is even greater than moving. Such a father can create such an excellent son! Even small trivial matters are not far away, and the bits and pieces of the feast are written in the letter!

Throughout the book, it is not difficult to see that Fu Lei's penetrating interpretation, unique cognition of Chinese culture, deep understanding of art works, and almost harsh requirements for life not only teach us as children a profound and long-term way of life, but also inspire many parents, teaching their children how to behave first, and then become a master in a certain field.

Only by reading this book and feeling the depth and warmth between the words can we truly appreciate that this book will teach thousands of readers how to be parents and children, and how to live elegantly and tastefully.

The content and perception of "Fu Lei's Family Letter" are: how to behave as a young person as a young person, how to deal with life if he is agitated; Be modest, be rigorous, and have proper etiquette; Don't be discouraged when you encounter difficulties, and don't be proud of winning awards. It is necessary to have a sense of honor and disgrace of the country and the nation, to have the dignity of art and personality, and to be an "artist with both virtue and art and outstanding personality."

At the same time, Fu Lei also gave useful guidance to his son's life, and put forward opinions and suggestions on how to combine work and rest in daily life, manage money correctly, and how to correctly deal with love and marriage. The heart of the fist and the son is overflowing.

Appreciation of Fu Lei's Family Letter:

Fu Lei's Family Book is a very special book. It is a refraction of Fu Lei's thoughts, and even Shenda can be said to be the most important work of Fu Lei's life, because "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a letter between him and his son, reflecting his painstaking devotion to his son as a father. The strong fatherly love reflected everywhere in the book "Fu Lei's Family Letter".

Perhaps every father loves his children very much, but while Fu Lei loves his children, he also does not forget to educate him in all aspects, such as art, philosophy, history, literature and even health.

1.The arrangement should be specific and detailed, and the operability should be strong.

2.Although the truth is understood, it still has to be verbose and play a beating role.

3.Parents are the starting point for their children.

4.Writing down your thoughts is very different from just thinking about it in your head. Writing it down requires correct and precise thoughts, so the self-examination written on paper is particularly profound and impressive to yourself.

5.Don't let something new feel float on the surface of feelings; Instead, you need to carefully analyze how the new feelings differ from your original concepts, emotions, and expressions.

6.Be sure to give feedback to others in a timely manner. For example, the information has been received, or the situation is reported: some of your own difficulties, some thoughts, or greetings.

7.When people say hello, you might as well say thank you and praise it. In the case of knowing each other, you can call ** or send a text message, and you can add a greeting to so-and-so. Reach out to someone important once a month.

8.The easy-going temper should be changed, and sometimes it is good for others and oneself. If you are always in the crowd, you will lack opportunities for introspection; Thoughts, feelings, and feelings cannot be properly organized and summarized.

9.When you ask someone for help, talk about it first, let others weigh whether they can help, whether they are free, and don't come up and ask others if they are free.

10.There are some important things, don't get by and be at the mercy of others. If you have any ideas or difficult questions, you can respond to others or the person in charge.

11.When you encounter something that needs to be chosen, you can write down the advantages and disadvantages of each, compare and weigh them before making a decision.

After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" again, you will have a different feeling, and every letter to the family is the heavy concern of looking forward to the return of the wanderer at home. From ancient times, "the beacon fire lasted for three months, and the family letter was worth 10,000 gold", and it is even more so to read today's "Fu Lei's Family Letter".

Fu Lei's Family Letter" is an excerpt of Fu Lei's letters to his son Fu Cong from 1955 to 1966. Fu Lei, like an ordinary father, used his own experience to teach his son to be humble, rigorous, not afraid of difficulties, not discouraged, and not slack or proud in the face of good times.

When I finished reading this book, I was filled with emotion, thinking of my father, who was very ordinary, not as famous as Fu Lei, but who poured all his love into me. My father was a taciturn man, he never talked to me endlessly, but whenever he had time, he would tell me all kinds of historical and military stories, sometimes take me to the square and the suburbs, and when I was in trouble, he would encourage me not to give up easily. When I got good grades, he generously invited me to one of my favorite meals, and he always had a proud smile on his face.

Whenever I had a heated argument with my mother, he never got along with him, but found the problem and solved it. He often said that when people encounter problems, don't be anxious, don't be impulsive, and find a way to solve it, which is the right way. It turns out that this is fatherly love.

Fu Lei's Family Letter" made me understand more that like mother's love, father's love is also a great love. Father's love is often quiet, but it is hidden in the bits and pieces of life; Fatherly love is deep, solid, and many times silent, and we need to discover and experience it. Father's love is like mountains and water!

I feel that my parents love our children, and they will plan far-reaching, and our parents will always love us, and we must also love our parents well.

We may feel that the father has good intentions for his son, and every letter to the family is the father's hope that the son can grow up well.