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As for the bias of trust, it is actually a question of confusion, especially in the context of China's cultural background with many traditions and chronic diseases.
The rich people of the Song Kingdom believed in their sons and were suspicious of their neighbors, out of a traditional concept of blood relatives, believing that their sons who were related by blood would definitely not deceive themselves. At Huizi's grave, Zhuangzi talks about one thing that seems to subvert this notion of blood kinship: there was a plasterer who had a little white ash on the tip of his nose, which was as thin as a fly's wings.
Although such a little white ash on the tip of the nose does not hinder anything, it is not very elegant. The plasterer asked the carpenter next to him to shave off the ashes for him. The carpenter's master lifted the axe and swung it vigorously, and the plasterer stood motionless with a gust of wind, and the blade of the axe passed, and the white ash on the tip of the plasterer's nose was all shaved off, but his nose was intact.
The plasterer and the master carpenter are not related by blood, and there may be a close relationship between them. But to be able to put your life in the hands of a stranger, what kind of trust is such a calm and generous. What if, then, the carpenter misses?
Or was the plasterer suspicious and shaken at the moment when the axe was swung? Trust is on the edge of the knife.
The opposite of trust is suspicion. In modern society, no matter what field it is, doubt is like an unstoppable plague, and it has its traces everywhere. Like Bert.
Randt said in "The Truth of Shaving My Face": "When the razor touches my face, I can't help but have this fear: what if the barber suddenly goes crazy."
Bert. Rand's skepticism is becoming more and more contagious among modern people, and the more developed the material civilization and the more fierce the social competition, this skepticism will be more serious. Therefore, it is not without reason that some people include the crisis of trust in the scope of a series of crises in the 21 st century.
Doubting everything has raised the level of practice, which is the only criterion for testing truth, to an awkward level, and has made the truth, which could have been in the open and bright, have to take a detour.
The crisis of trust is most distinctly seen between blood relatives, and is reflected in the increasingly dramatic "paternity test". Since the opening of the paternity test specialty in Zhongshan Hospital in Guangdong, the Chinese people have done "paternity testing" from the initial helplessness, secretiveness, to commonplace. The "paternity test", which was originally used to resolve certain legal disputes, has become a means for husband and wife to turn against each other, brothers to fight against each other, love rivals, and so on.
It also completely exposed the potential crisis of mistrust in the traditional Chinese concept that blood is thicker than water. Genghis Khan, a generation of Tianjiao, treated his eldest son Jochi as the other three sons on the surface, but what is recorded in the history books is: the fourth son Tuolei is his favorite, and the third son Wokotai inherited the Khan throne.
The Mongol Empire is the only Eastern empire in Chinese history that has shocked Europe, and the iron cavalry of Kublai Khan, the son of Tuolei, who swept half of Europe, has been buried deep in the soil of the steppe, but those crises of trust have wandered in the wind of eternity - Jochi was not born by Genghis Khan. The Mongols, who are so careless in their thinking and behavior, also have a traditional trust problem, and this crisis of trust has long been lurking in the back of human history.
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Facing setbacks.
Setbacks make life a compulsory course, is the only way to live, is the wealth of life. After the tempering of setbacks, people have strong wings and a brilliant future.
The English poet Shelley once said; If you cherish your feathers so much that they don't get damaged in the slightest, you will lose both wings and will never be able to fly in the air again.
When you find that the frustration that makes you angry and frustrated is just an inconvenience, it will be easier for you to adopt a positive attitude towards it.
Almost every successful person has experienced countless setbacks and blows. Setbacks and setbacks are the only way to success. If you're experiencing setbacks, you're on the path to success.
From the French journalist Bodi, who could only blink his left eye to express right and wrong after his life was paralyzed, he overcame difficulties with the transcriptionist, blinked more than 200,000 times, and completed the book "The Diver and the Butterfly", which cannot but show that one does not demand harsh conditions, but tries his best to create conditions, in front of such a spirit, even if there is only one eye left, it still cannot stop people from succeeding, and still cannot defeat a life with a strong spirit. Therefore, when you are not recognized by others and encounter setbacks everywhere in your life, don't complain that others are Bole, don't know your Maxima, and don't sigh that you don't have to meet your talents, but encourage yourself to become a real crown pearl, of course, someone will appreciate you.
Do you let setbacks scare you from doing what you want to do, or do you let setbacks become the motivation to push you forward? The choice is yours. Again and again, it is inevitable that you will have to give up.
But the more you want to give up, the more you have to grit your teeth and persevere. From McGee's three fatal blows, he was still able to never give up, cherish his life, and strive to succeed. And what are the small setbacks in our lives?
When we don't have the strength to change the situation, move the obstacles. Instead of feeling frustrated and frustrated, choose to look at the obstacle or dilemma from a different perspective, and you will find the value that the obstacle or dilemma brings to you.
Those who are in an unfavorable situation will have more and more profound experience of life. In the face of great setbacks and blows, life seems to be shrouded in clouds. But as long as there is hope, the future life will definitely be full of sunshine again.
There are some setbacks and difficulties that people can change, don't complain at this time, accept it, and use it to sharpen your mind. These setbacks and difficulties will make your life different.
Setbacks are a necessary lesson in life, and this lesson allows us to learn lessons. Being denied the right to take this course means never graduating.
In the face of setbacks, should we keep our spirits up and keep working hard, or avoid the situation of setbacks and find a more suitable path for ourselves? As the wise man has said, both are true in their respective contexts. However, you can't just stick to it, and don't change it often.
You need to have both and find the best balance.
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As far as the bias of trust is concerned, it is actually a problem that is not clear. Especially in the context of China's long-standing traditional culture, there is no consensus between believing in those who are close to you or believing in those who are estranged from you.
The wealthy people of the Song Kingdom believed in their sons and were suspicious of their neighbors, out of a traditional concept of blood kinship, believing that their sons who were related by blood would definitely not deceive themselves. At Huizi's tomb, Zhuangzi subverted this notion of kinship by saying, "There was a plasterer who had a little white ash on the tip of his nose, which was as thin as a fly's wings.
Although this bit of white ash on the nose does not hinder anything, it is not very elegant. The plasterer asked the carpenter next to him to shave off the ashes for him. The carpenter's master lifted the axe, swung it vigorously, and there was a sound of wind on the ground, and the plasterer stood motionless on the ground, and the blade of the axe passed, and the plasterer stood motionless on the ground, and the blade of the axe passed, and the white ash on the tip of the plasterer's nose was shaved off.
The nose is intact. The plasterer and the master carpenter are not related by blood, and there may be a close relationship between them. But to be able to put one's life in the hands of a stranger, what kind of trust is such a calm and generous.
What if, then, the carpenter misses? Or was the plasterer suspicious and shaken at the moment when the axe was swung? Trust is on the edge of a knife!
The opposite of trust is suspicion. In modern society, no matter what the field, doubt is like an unstoppable plague, and it has its traces everywhere. As Bertrand said in "The Truth About Shaving Your Face":
When the razor touches my face. I couldn't help but have this fear: What if the barber suddenly went crazy?
Bertrant's skepticism is a growing contagion among the modern human community, and the more developed the material civilization becomes, the more fierce the social competition becomes, and this skepticism brings practice to an awkward level as the only criterion for testing truth.
The crisis of trust between blood relatives, the most vivid phenomenon has appeared, which is reflected in the increasingly fierce "paternity test", since Guangdong Zhongshan Hospital opened a paternity test specialty, from the initial helplessness, cover-up, to parents to eat.
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