Can distance really make two people in love farther and farther apart?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-17
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Dear landlord.

    Glad for your question.

    Forget. A heartache ...

    In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ... Isn't there a saying that says?

    You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss. Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ...

    Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of it again, your heart will no longer hurt, and it turns out that unconsciously, it has become"That person"。。。

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

    Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

    Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

    At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

    When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

    If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

    The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

    It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, if two people are too far apart, they will always feel tired, and breaking up is inevitable but not absolute

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Couples need to establish a healthy and stable pattern of getting along when they go far, and the following points are worth noting:

    1.Respect and trust: One of the most important factors in the mode of getting along is respect and trust. Respecting each other's opinions, values, and feelings, and maintaining sincere and frank communication can build a foundation of trust.

    2.Understanding and tolerance: Couples will inevitably have different perspectives and needs, and this is the time when mutual understanding and tolerance are needed. Learning to think from the other person's point of view and trying to understand the other person's thoughts and feelings can avoid too many conflicts and disputes.

    3.Common interests and hobbies: Shared interests and hobbies can increase interaction and common topics between couples, allowing them to get to know each other better and get closer to each other.

    4.Sharing and supporting: Couples need to share their lives and experiences with each other and support each other. Giving support and encouragement when the other person needs help can strengthen the bond and affection between couples.

    5.Independence and autonomy: Couples need to maintain personal independence and autonomy and not rely on each other.

    Everyone has their own life and career and needs to support and understand each other. At the same time, don't let love be the whole of life, keep your personal hobbies and life to make each other more diverse and interesting.

    In short, the model of getting along needs to be based on a fundamental world of respect, trust, understanding, tolerance, sharing and support, while maintaining independence and autonomy. This kind of getting along mode can make the relationship between couples more stable and healthy, and go further.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    We will naturally disguise ourselves as so elegant and polite in front of these people who don't know enough about us, and do our best to show the best side of Ye Kuan's self to each other.

    But when love gradually comes into our lives, when two people are used to each other's existence, they will present their truest side to each other little by little.

    There are always many people who say that the person who loves you the most hurts you the most, in fact, this is also the truth. In the face of the person we love the most, the person closest to us, we will always want to make any pretense in front of him.

    Unscrupulously become the original self, cry when you want to cry, laugh when you want to laugh, and don't hide any joys, sorrows and sorrows from him.

    Like the scum, all the dark sides of your life will also be presented in front of each other's eyes.

    We will always show the ugliest and truest self in front of the person we love the most, and we will hurt each other unintentionally, and we think it is the true feelings, but the end is to push them further and further.

    When two people really come together and start a new relationship, the boy will still be good to her as always, in Mint's opinion, there is no such gentle and tall man in the world except for his boyfriend. He always accepts everything about himself with a good temper, and even makes Mint feel inferior.

    But as the relationship gradually deepened, Mint gradually discovered the most authentic side of the other half.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think that if there is too much safe distance in life, that is, the sense of distance will make the relationship between two people more and more distant, the reason why I think this is mainly due to the following reasons.

    I don't know if you have heard of a sentence, the sense of distance produces beauty, the exchange between people should indeed grasp a proper distance, in the face of different exchanges, different people need to keep the distance from each other is also different, some people say that couples also need a sense of distance between each other, the sense of distance will produce beauty, this is a very famous sentence, it is also very suitable for love, if you know how to keep a certain distance in love, you will let each other's relationship retain a certain freshness, This will not cause the relationship to break down prematurely, or because the distance is too close, and the relationship will end up in a bad way. But the so-called wheel leakage distance is not a suitable distance, if the distance between two people has been maintained, it will make the relationship between the two people more and more distant.

    Because this distance is not said to be within a certain appropriate range, but two people are a bit similar to strangers to keep a certain distance, although it is said that we should pay attention to respecting each other and keeping each other's distance apart, but if we maintain a sense of distance for a long time, this will make the two people get along more and more badly, will make the relationship between the two people worse and worse, and will also make people feel whether they should not continue to maintain the relationship. The longer two people spend in a relationship, it will slowly become a habit, and if this habit suddenly does not exist one day, it will be a little uncomfortable. But if the relationship between two people is getting better and better, but they always maintain a certain distance, then this will make outsiders feel that something is slightly wrong.

    As time goes on, the distance gets farther and farther away, and both of them lose their initial enthusiasm, then the relationship will eventually break down. Therefore, the distance society in life makes the relationship between two people go farther and farther away, rather than the distance that some people think can keep the relationship fresh.

    The above views are personal opinions only, and we apologize for any errors.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it will, if the two people are separated from each other, the life track, work frequency, and work and rest time of the two are not in the same rotation channel, the longer the time, the faster everything about the other party Sun Shuxin will fade into his own life, and everything about him will be replaced by others, and the relationship will of course become more and more estranged.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it will get farther and farther away, because the farther the distance, the fewer opportunities for two people to meet, so there will be no more and more common topics for Zheng Xiaojian to shout and shout. The relationship will also become weaker and weaker.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think so, if two people are in a long-distance relationship, the two of them will definitely make their relationship very cold in less than a month.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because after two people have been together for a long time, let's say a couple, two people will have a run-in period, because you will get closer to each other, after all, people have shortcomings, and everyone has a different personality.

    Therefore, couples will be very affectionate at the beginning, but real life is not romantic, real life is boring and repetitive, so at this time there will be a run-in period, you must hold on, you can't always look at each other's shortcomings.

    However, if neither of them can tolerate each other during this run-in period, as the landlord said, the distance between the two will become farther and farther away, and then they will become strangers.

    So, what you have to think about is that it is because of her flaws that you can be with her, and if she is perfect, will she take a fancy to you

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe we know each other better. At the beginning, they didn't know much about each other, they only saw each other's advantages, but once they got along for a long time and understood each other deeply, each other's personalities and shortcomings were revealed, and they slowly found that the other party was not so perfect, so the distance was far away. But as long as you don't dislike each other, don't give up, and cherish it, it's still okay Hehe, come on

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be sure to stick to emollient soaps and cotton towels.

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