The blind date man suddenly stopped contacting, should he ask clearly

Updated on society 2024-03-10
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Depending on the situation, if the talk is good, you are still reluctant, then ask the reason, don't be unclear, if there is not much goodwill, it is still a little move, just separate, for this kind of sudden loss of contact does not tell you a man is estimated to be not too mature and generous, fate is destined, the twisted melon is not sweet, think twice.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I think you should choose not to contact, in fact, it depends on whether you have the intention of actually developing this blind date man, if you have the intention of continuing to develop, then you can try to contact him, but you have to think clearly, you have met after contact, if the boy is generally interested in you, he will definitely take the initiative to ask you out, and he has not contacted you for a long time, and it may also mean that he is not interested in you, the twisted melon is not sweet, and the girl should not be too active in a relationship, Otherwise, you will suffer in the future relationship. Of course, if you really think this guy is very good and don't want to miss it, you can ask him out again, let him know you a little more, and then see what the situation is. If you are not interesting to him and don't want to continue to develop at all, then you don't need to contact him at all, what do you do with him, this belongs to the default of both parties and no longer continue to develop, because it is definitely not good to say directly that I don't want to continue to contact you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Look at how long you haven't been in contact, one or two days, two or three days should be normal, if it grows to five or six days a week, you don't have to contact it, this means it's obvious, playing ** in the past is nothing more than self-deprecation, and it's boring to confirm that people are okay with themselves. Of course, if you don't have to meet, you can say it on the chat tool

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    According to the blind date you described, the man suddenly stopped contacting, do you want to ask clearly? I feel like the situation is likely to be blocked now. Dislike.

    If the other party doesn't like the woman, don't contact him. If he likes you, he'll contact you. I wish you good health and happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This matter is already obvious, he is just a scumbag, what else do you ask, whether the blind date is successful or not, you should tell the other party.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I always don't get the response I want, so I give up.

    It is normal for men to like women and pursue them, but everyone's enthusiasm and initiative need to be responded to, if you keep holding it and acting quite coldly, he will think that you don't feel for him, and often insist on it for a period of time, and it is natural not to contact you.

    When a woman is facing feelings, she can't be too active, but she can't be too cold, sometimes she is too rejecting people thousands of miles away, and it is often easy to end up in a state of no one's concern, because men are always constantly frustrated and hit too hard in the process of pursuing you, and finally give up contacting you when they are tired.

    If you find out that you are not the person he wants, he will treat it coldly.

    Men like you, often at first sight, your image in his mind and the actual image of you may be different, so in the process of getting along with you, men may gradually find that you are not what he thinks, nor is he the person he wants, so he will take a cold treatment.

    In fact, it's not that you're bad, it's just that you're not what he imagined, once this fantasy is shattered, the man will feel disheartened, there is no need to take the initiative anymore, and he is too lazy to waste everyone's time and energy.

    It's just using you as a spare tire.

    In this world, not all people take feelings seriously, some men are close to you, just out of temporary loneliness, or have not met the right person for the time being, and you happen to be around, all will be quite enthusiastic about you, to put it bluntly, just use you as a spare tire, just make a transition, and never treat you sincerely from the beginning.

    So it's normal for him to suddenly not contact you, maybe he has a better choice, or in the process of getting along with you, he finds that you are more difficult, so he naturally chooses to give up, such a person does not contact you, it is a good thing for you, don't bother yourself.

    I have changed my mind about you and want to force you to take the initiative to break up.

    Men and women think differently, for women may be able to accept a breakup, but really can't accept being broken up by cold violence, in fact, it's not a new thing to not love in a relationship, but after all, two people have loved each other, and it is necessary to explain if they don't love, so that everyone can get together and disperse and separate decently.

    But some men don't think like this, afraid of trouble, afraid of facing women's questions and questions, and don't want to take the main responsibility for breaking up, so when he changes his mind about you, he will take cold violence and be quite indifferent to you, so as to alienate you, just want you to take the initiative to break up, in the face of this situation, there is nothing to save, such a man does not love you, and has no sense of responsibility.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, maybe he has something urgent to do.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is there a need to ask?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no need for this. 1.The invitation is not active, the time is arbitrary, and most of them are temporary appointments (tonight about tomorrow, morning about evening).

    A date is all about having a meal and going home. I haven't seen the movie yet, and once he invited me to sing and I refused (just 2 alone), and the introducer said that he thought I hurt his self-esteem. He was inactive, talked little, and didn't interact much during the date, but on the whole, he took care of it, picking up vegetables, pouring water, and carrying things.

    However, he never offered to take me home, nor did he ask me if I was home.

    2.Never mentioned picking me up from work or anything like that. I mentioned working overtime, he said, "Then you should bring more things to eat", I said that I was in trouble, he would say "adaptive, this kind of person can be everywhere", I was sick with a severe cold and fever, he asked me a week later if I was well, and he didn't even drink more hot water.

    3.Contact a few times every few days, see that you are enthusiastic and cold for a few days, and take the initiative a few times when you want to give up, always giving you hope. It will spend a little money, will ask you about various hobbies and birthdays, give you all kinds of promises but do not fulfill them, will imagine the future with you, talk about the future but do not actually act.

    It seems that he is very sincere in marrying you, but he just doesn't discuss the substance with you.

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