My husband s ex girlfriend is getting married, and he seems to be very depressed, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-02
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you encounter this, you can have such thoughts and practices, and you are indeed a good wife. It's a blessing for your husband to have a wife like you.

    Your husband's ex-girlfriend is getting married, and it's normal to be depressed. It was something that I had put in my heart before, and I was touched again, human nature.

    You can be sure that your husband won't betray you anything, you don't need to do anything, just give him some time, and after some time, he will be able to recover.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your friend is right! It's time to pretend it's okay and let him calm down, and that's when men need to be calm. Don't poke him head-on, he'll be more upset. I believe it will be fine after a while.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This is a normal person's emotion, it's good to live a short life He should understand that the only one who can accompany him for a lifetime is you, and after all, he also likes people Just let him be like this for a few days and it'll be fine.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The best way is to calm him down, don't care about him, after a while, everything will be as usual, time is the best healing medicine for men. I hope you're happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe it will be better after this time, now find a way to divert his attention and find something that he is more interested in for him to do.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Give him some time.

    Give him some space.

    Wait for his mood to slowly improve.

    You at this time. There's really no need to say anything.

    Do more. Just need to be silently by his side.

    Take care of him on a daily basis.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You tell him to give him a chance, let him go to his ex-girlfriend, and if you succeed, you let them go, and you can't completely forget about your ex-girlfriend, you are the same as always.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hehe! Men are not bad, women are not loved!

    There seems to be some truth to this statement!

    Just seeming!

    Jigong let me understand:

    People do things, and the sky is watching.

    There are gods in the head!

    Things are man-made!

    Everyone feels like the best!

    The reason why your husband is annoying!

    It's totally for your sake!

    One person, one heart!

    Always can not do the perfection of the 2 hearts coincide!

    Let time test you two slowly!

    Happiness to both of you!

    Lovers eventually become married!

    I'm very optimistic about you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You still like your husband! You can care about how great he is when he does this!!

    I think your friend is right. Tell him that you will always be there for him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    。Originally.. Pretend to be stupid and pull it.

    You're thinking too much about yourself.

    There are a lot of things that come up with it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's just say that we will get married too.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Psychoanalysis: Hello subject.

    After reading your description, I can understand how you are feeling right now.

    I also had a dark time, because there are all the memories, the feelings are so painful, only the touch will cause a lot of heartache somatic reaction, and the other party is that I left a few days after the marriage of the other party, I think what makes me even more painful is that he did not say it directly, but chose to compare and choose first, despite this, I also respect his choice.

    In fact, we said that the pain of losing time and socks was unbearable at the time, but when we survived that torturous time, we could also see our own growth, and we could see that the other party was talking to me about inappropriate problems, and what was the reason, so we had to learn to let go of our bearishness.

    When recalling those painful experiences, when touching things about this person again, we will have some reactions, which is also normal to talk about bad encounters, after all, this person we have loved deeply, and there will be some good memories, think about this kind of feelings is actually beautiful, and it is the most appropriate to put it in the bottom of my heart, even if some feelings are deep, but there are many problems and contradictions that cannot be solved, and leaving is not necessarily a bad thing.

    If the subject feels very sad and sad, you can also accept such pain, but don't let yourself be immersed in the past, after all, people always have to look forward, through that difficult time, that is, we ushered in a bright moment, improve ourselves, make ourselves excellent, put the past things in our hearts, learn to let go, learn to love yourself, and make yourself happy.

    Hope mine is helpful to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your ex's husband is married, but you are in a bad mood, this is because you still think about your ex in your heart, you haven't forgotten him, and you still have feelings for her, so you feel lost.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Husband, your ex got married, and you're in a bad mood? It's probably thinking too much. Since you have broken up with your husband. It was also a good thing when she got married. You'll be able to be calmer.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ex-husband? Seeing you write, it shows that you didn't put it down! Still called her husband.

    If you let it go, it's your ex-husband! Now that everyone is getting married again, start your own life anew, and reflect on whether it was only the other person's fault in the previous marriage, or if you have something that needs to be changed. It's good to cherish your future life!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello subject. After reading your description, I can understand how you are feeling right now.

    I also had a dark time, because there are all the memories, the feelings are so painful, only the touch will cause a lot of heartache somatic reaction, and the other party is that I left a few days after the marriage of the other party, I think what makes me even more painful is that he did not say it directly, but chose to compare and choose first, despite this, I also respect his choice.

    In fact, we said that the pain of falling out of love was unbearable at the time, but when we survived that torturous time, we could also see our own growth, and we could see the problem that the other party was not suitable for me, and what the reason was, so we must learn to let go and look down.

    When recalling those painful experiences, when touching things about this person again, we will have some macro reactions, which is also normal, after all, this person we have loved deeply, and there will be some good memories, think about this kind of feelings is actually beautiful, and it is the most appropriate to put it in the bottom of my heart.

    If the subject feels very sad and sad, you can also accept such pain, but don't let yourself be immersed in the past, after all, people always have to look forward, through that difficult time, that is, we ushered in a bright moment, improve ourselves, make ourselves excellent, put the past things in our hearts, learn to let go, learn to love yourself, and make yourself happy.

    Hope mine is helpful to you.

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