The master s degree graduate left 18 diaries and was martyred, why did he find a short term view whe

Now that I've learned the whole story, here's a brief description of it. In June 2020, when he had just graduated with a master's degree, he jumped into the Pearl River and drowned. And when his family was sorting through the relics, they found 18 of his diaries and learned the cause of his death.

First of all, it's not martyrdom。Martyrdom means that one party dies and the other follows. The man's actual situation was that he chose to commit suicide because the blow of the breakup was too great.

He is already 29 years old, successful in school, and his psychological tolerance is too poor, and suicide is his choice. You should not be angry with her because of his death.

Secondly, I think that students from poor families are prone to psychological problems。First of all, he has always relied on the financial support of caring people to study, and has borne the expectations of many people, which has also added more financial pressure to the family's already poor conditions. I think that the fact that he is still receiving funding at the age of 29 is a sign of his inner immaturity.

He can work and study part-time, or look for a job first, accumulate a certain amount of funds and then take the postgraduate examination, and continue to develop his studies.

In addition, I believe that reading is the first thing to educate people. His personality is extreme. His death was not only the loss of his own life, but also the harm he brought to his family, disappointed the caring people who funded him, and also caused a certain psychological shadow to his ex-girlfriend.

If there is any problem, the two of them should communicate well, and if they really can't save the relationship, they should also maintain an optimistic attitude instead of committing suicide.

Finally, I don't think the melon-eating masses should be harsh on his girlfriend. His suicide should be a wake-up call for many extreme people, and they will be forced to die if they are a little unsatisfactory in love, which is a manifestation of extreme psychology. It is also very dangerous to fall in love with such a person.

Love is not a necessity, pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

Because his girlfriend proposed to break up with him after graduation, the boy couldn't accept it, so he committed suicide after writing a diary.

Feelings are the backbone of a person's soul, the master's student's lover is gone, his heart is also dead, mourning is greater than heart death, and the whole person collapses.

Because of emotional frustration. His girlfriend broke up with him, and the newly graduated master's student couldn't stand this fact, so he looked for a short time.

I can't accept the fact that I broke up with my girlfriend. Because this master is a young man who has just come out of society, his mood is relatively simple, and his ability to resist frustration is insufficient.

The diary is full of feelings after falling out of love. Originally, it was not easy to provide for a student in the countryside, and the parents were counting on a good job, but now it is good, the family should be so sad, the psychology is too fragile, and it is too irrational.

The diary of the graduate of the Jumping River Martyrdom before his death recorded his life and emotional experience with his girlfriend, and also indicated the reason for the suicide.

is a record of his painful feelings after breaking up with his girlfriend, unable to accept the fact of breaking up, the last straw that crushed him was love, the love that he couldn't cry for.

The diary is full of bits and pieces of breaking up with his girlfriend, claiming that all his passion is poured into this girl, but he doesn't get any response.

The graduate student's diary before his death recorded his life and emotional experience with his girlfriend before his death, from missing his girlfriend every day to wanting to do something for his ex-girlfriend, to comforting his ex-girlfriend's job search mood, and finally confessing that when one of his ex-girlfriends gave up this relationship, he chose to jump into the river and die to solve his life.

The diary of the master of the martyrdom of Jumping River records the changes in his mood after breaking up with his girlfriend, the situation of his girlfriend every day, what he helped his girlfriend do, and how he felt after doing things every day, expressing that he couldn't do without his girlfriend.

The main content of the diary of a martyred boy tells about his feelings for the girl he likes, how much he loves each other, and expresses his feelings.

Because in the eyes of master's graduates, love is everything, and if love is lost, then there is no point in living. Even if the master's degree graduates have remorse at the moment of death, there is no regret medicine in the world, so even if the master's graduates do not want to die at the moment of death, they still can't change the outcome in the end.

For master's graduates, it should be a person who values love more seriously, and it is also very good to the woman, when the woman proposed to break up, the master's degree graduate was too sad for a while, so he felt that he was not interesting to live in this world. Therefore, there was the idea of suicide later, but when the master's graduate was sad because of the loss of love, all he thought about at that time was how sad he was, and he did not let his emotions be regulated.

In fact, for many people who have fallen out of love, it may be painful when they have just fallen out of love, and they will also feel that they are not interested in anything because of this. However, what you need to do at this time is not to immerse yourself in sad emotions all the time, but to get yourself out of this painful lovelorn and try to divert your attention.

And the reason why master's graduates have the idea of suicide in the end is actually because they can't think about it. Let yourself be immersed in this broken love all the time, and also think that it is your own fault. In fact, in a person's life, there are many things to cherish in addition to love, such as family affection.

For family members, maybe when they are at their hardest, they don't want their family to know, but you must always remember that no matter what happens, there will be a home waiting for you behind it. And if you are miserable and sad because of the loss of love, then try to divert your attention, such as studying and working hard.

People will meet a lot of people in their lives, if you fall out of love, it can only mean that this person is not the person who will accompany you to the end. After all, people don't fall in love only once, and even if they get married, they will get divorced. And this behavior of master's graduates can only show that his psychological tolerance is relatively weak.

Because after breaking up with his girlfriend, he was desperate and irreparable, so he insisted on dying.

On the one hand, it may be because of the high academic pressure, on the other hand, it may be because he has just experienced a broken love, and he really doesn't want to break up with his girlfriend, which is too much of a psychological blow to him, plus some other unsatisfactory little things in life, it will make him unable to think about it.

Because he takes love too seriously and lacks a sense of responsibility and responsibility, he can't bear it once he is emotionally traumatized.