What if the other person s lover s parents don t like themselves?

Go and impress her family.

1.Family conflicts and conflicts.

In some families, parents may have conflicts and contradictions with the interests of the family and family relationships about their children's romantic relationships. For example, parents may want their children to choose a specific love partner for the sake of family interests and inheritance, while children may prefer to choose someone they like. In this case, the parent's disapproval may have an impact on the child's romantic relationship.

2.Cultural differences and traditional beliefs.

In some families with more conservative cultural traditions and concepts, parents may disapprove of Ran Jian as a love object, religious beliefs, premarital sex, etc., which will affect their children's romantic relationship.

3.Parents' perceptions and expectations.

Parents have their own ideas and expectations about their children's love partners, such as hoping that their children will find someone with the same background, education level, financial status, etc. If the child's love partner does not match the parents' expectations, it may trigger parental disapproval.

4.Parental concerns and protections.

In some cases, parents do not approve of their children's romantic relationships, perhaps out of concern and protection for their children. Parents may think that the romantic partner is not mature and stable enough to be in a romantic relationship with their children, or that the romantic partner has bad habits and behaviors that will have a negative impact on the child's life and health.

5.For people who are affected by these outrageous reasons for breaking up, they should strive to be confident and positive about their new relationship. You can find supporters to vent your emotions in leather pants, adjust your mentality and way of thinking, gradually regain your confidence and courage, and start a new love life.

We can find that many people will consider whether the other person meets their expectations as an important factor in whether or not to choose to break up. Getting the other person to accept their own shortcomings and uniqueness is an important factor in maintaining a healthy and rewarding relationship.

I think that falling in love is a complex and very sensitive affair, and sometimes we will encounter some unfavorable factors, such as the relationship is not recognized by the other party or the other party's family and friends oppose it. At this point, we are often caught in a dilemma: do we keep going, or do we let it go?

In this article, I will briefly ** this issue.

Number one: take your emotions seriously. As a dignified person, you must first figure out how you feel and seriously consider whether the relationship is worth continuing.

If you feel that this person is worth waiting for, guarding, and pursuing, then keep trying; If you find it increasingly difficult to hold on, you should be honest with the other person and your heart and end the relationship in time.

Number two: understand why. When you are perceived as the "wrong choice" to be with someone, you need to ask yourself why you think so.

Is it the other person's injustice to you or the other person's behavior that makes you feel embarrassed or hurt? Or did you make the wrong decision on the spur of the moment? In either case, you have to dig deep and find the cause in order to make the right decision.

Number 3: Ask for help. Sometimes we feel like we're struggling anymore, but we don't know how to make a choice.

At this point, friends and family become your treasurers. Please find people who listen and support you in the spiritual world, and think about problems and solutions with them. If necessary, you can also seek the help of a professional, such as a psychologist or relationship counselor.

Fourth: Honesty and communication. Long-term addiction and secret bad relationships We must communicate deeply and be honest to solve the dilemma, even if you love each other very much, you must also be clear about your happy and unhappy position, don't just feel sorry for the other person's happiness, even if you really can't be together, there are many subtle but relatively objective ways to deal with it.

Communication can make issues clearer, expand your horizons of mutual understanding in future relationships, and ultimately help you and the other person make the right decisions.

In general, when you encounter a relationship that is not favored, you must dare to face your emotions and problems and make the right judgment. As mentioned above, we can take our feelings seriously, understand the causes, ask for help and communicate openly, and constantly improve and adjust our mindset in the process of solving problems. Only if the brother loses the model in this way, can he get through the difficulties smoothly and move towards a healthier and happier relationship.

1. If the other party's parents are dissatisfied with your character, then there is a high probability that you should find the reason from yourself.

Is it that your speech and demeanor are not appropriate enough? Be more mature and generous, I don't think there is anything wrong with contemporary young people in this regard.

2. If the other party's parents are dissatisfied with your hard conditions, such as: appearance, height, education, job, savings, RV, bride price, etc., it depends on the attitude of the lover and your own attitude.

Take a common example of Oak Destroyer: the maid's mother asks for a bride price of 180,000 yuan, your money and the family's money are used to pay the down payment on the house, and the remaining money is only enough to get married, and there is no money to give the bride price (or can give very little). At this time, if your fiancée says, "I listen to my mother", or "I'm married to you, isn't it normal for my family to ask for a bride price", then I will persuade you;

If your fiancée says, "Honey, I'll go and talk to my mom, don't pay a bride price, my mom doesn't agree that I'm going to marry you too", think carefully about this advice. The rest is your attitude, whether you can bear the white eyes of the other party's parents in the future, generally speaking, you will be blinded at first, but after a long time, your little couple will live happily, and they will not care.