I m so sad, sincere friend, please give me some advice 10

You are a me-type person, to put it simply, a self-centered person. That mm is a person with a wee-shaped personality, and she doesn't like people with your personality, so she doesn't want to associate with you.

She doesn't think you're so good, and it's just a tactful way of refusing to say how good you are.

But from your description, I feel that the tone of your voice has a sense of superiority, and I feel that I am more than enough to match that woman, which makes people feel uncomfortable.

Let me help you analyze a sentence: "I think we still have fate." Everyone is uncomfortable listening to this, because you speak beyond the line, that is, you use "we", you feel that there is fate, but others do not think.

You are disrespectful to others by acting wisely for others. So you should express this as follows: "I think I have a lot of fate with you, what do you say?"

You express yourself first, then ask what people think, and then look for common ground. So I think you have to soak this mm, and learn the basic communication principles first.

You have a mistake in your opinion that has led you to take a crooked path. First of all, just because he broke up with his boyfriend doesn't mean you have a chance, and just because he's with his boyfriend doesn't mean you don't have a chance! Especially for a beautiful woman, he needs a lot of confidants.

But he chooses a lover less often! From the words you say, he doesn't seem to be interested in you. Just a little touched by your goodness.

It shows that he is very kind. But he is kind, and if he doesn't love you, he will hurt you in the end. You said you just wanted a result, well!

You follow what I said! Find a suitable opportunity to create a romantic environment. Then express all the love and thoughts in your heart!

Tell him you're in a hurry! Whether it's success or failure, I hope he will give you a result! Maybe he's going to reject you and hurt you.

But you've done it! It's impossible that what you like must like you! And then you've proven that you're the best in the world and loves him the best, it's just that you don't have fate!

Then it's over! You've done it, although you didn't succeed, but although you failed, even if one day he really was with someone else again! There is no one who can compare to your brilliance!

I'll tell you straight that she's a four-walled person, and you still like this kind of pretending person, go away, or you'll regret it.

You can be friends, but you are not suitable to be lovers.

As long as you keep persisting, you will succeed! She is also a kind-hearted person!

In fact, as long as you want, you can keep touching her, but it may take some time, are you willing? Sincere dedication will be exchanged for love, but if you love him, you must also want her to be happy, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

In fact, fate is so inexplicable. Maybe it's just that you know her for a while.,It's completely different.。。 Dude, dare to love and hate, dare to let go. Real men too!!

These are the most sincere suggestions I don't want to hit you The truth hurts I hope you will listen to it

Sincerity, tolerance, peace of mind, love needs these, and they are very important!

I'm so touched by your story!!

Feelings are like this, you can't get what you want, and you don't want a lot of things.

There are many kinds of friends, as long as you treat each other sincerely, compare your heart to your heart, empathize, and do what you can, friends should be by your side.

If you can't meet fate, people are different. will come across.

People are like this, and there is nothing sad about it.

As long as you are sincere to others, others will be sincere to you, and friends are made with heart, not used.

You can think about why they are not sincere with you.

I'm the same way, I feel like I'm happy

First of all, are you sincere yourself?

What are your specific requirements for a true friend?

This is the problem of love and bread, everyone has a different distribution ratio of love and bread, so you don't compare yourself with others, this is not right, the key is to look at yourself. A man who is responsible and self-motivated is a good man, and such a man will definitely make his woman happy. If you can't share the hardships with him, do you think you are qualified to share the blessings with him?

Because others are not labeled, everyone's mentality, environment, and thinking are different. Everyone has their own difficult scriptures, but they just seem to be happy on the outside.

Girl, do you know, I feel so lucky, because you have met a good man, and you will be happy with him for the rest of your life, cherish, cherish, try to convince your parents, you must wait for him, at this time, the two of you must stand in the same position, for a long time, you persevere, and in the end, you will be happy. Let's see (who calls the shots in my youth).

After reading these words you wrote, I really feel that you are in the same situation as me, and so am I, in the face of love and family affection, I dare not imagine what I should do, "He said I was cowardly, said that I was cowardly, because the girlfriends of his friends around him could give up their families for the people they loved, but they didn't have jobs, I have a job, and I have to think about the future" is the same as what my boyfriend said about me, I really don't know what to do, hey! It's helpless.

There really is no right or wrong in love.

Although you don't have to worry about eating, it is difficult to go abroad for beauty, travel, and sending children abroad.

There are thousands of sons and daughters in China, and if we can't do it, we will change it every day.

I envy you because you know what you want, be strong, we will all bless you, the sun is always after the storm!

If your boyfriend is self-motivated, you can tell your parents that you can start a business together and create happiness with your own hands It is important to communicate with your parents.

I totally understand your feelings, your parents are like this for us. Have you ever watched the TV series "Million Roses", where Rou Zhen broke her mother's heart very much in order to marry Hemin, but in the end it was her daughter who won, we must firmly believe that our parents can understand us in the end, after all, that is the person you cherish, so one day your parents will cherish him and love him as much as you do.

No one is right or wrong, your elders think they have more experience than you, of course there are some who don't, and they tell you what to do with their experience to some extent. And tell you to do it.

I think you have to communicate with them more calmly, tell them that your thoughts are very important and that your family is also good for you, but in a different way than you think is good for you, they are more practical.

Don't be in a hurry, time will change everything, let time prove you.

If you persevere, don't give up

You work together, wait for the hardware conditions to be good, and then take it to see your mother, and at the same time, talk more about him in front of your mother, let your mother know more about him, let your mother know that what really makes you happy is not his money, but the love he gives you.

You can use this method.

Don't take this man home to show his parents just yet.

You can first introduce the man to a few of your good relatives, and then introduce it to other relatives In the current traditional environment, the views of relatives have a great influence on your parents, if your relatives say that the man is good, help you say something good, there will be unexpected benefits

Of course, you also have to encourage your boyfriend to be respectful to his elders, and sometimes he needs to be a little restrained; Secondly, encourage your boyfriend to achieve some results, so that your parents know that although his hardware is poor, he has good potential and good character

The most important thing in marriage is that two people truly love each other

Lovers are right, now the only thing you can do is to make your boyfriend's hardware better, so that he can shine in front of your family when conditions permit, and it was the same when I soaked my wife, and her father also looked at me with worldly eyes, but I don't do things that I regret.

It's up to your boyfriend at this time, his thoughts determine your happiness! Hehe! Is your boyfriend confident?

Upstairs is right! Mom's idea is not wrong I think that if two people love each other, they should let the two people go wider and wider in the future, help each other, love each other, so that your emotional foundation will be strong (it will not fade over time, and it will not be impossible to withstand the blow because of something).

Let your mom see the successful side of you and his career, and see him taking care of you. Your happy side. I don't think she's going to object.

I wish you all happiness

Work together, hehe, people with good hardware would not have today's hard work without their own hard work. You also strive to move in a good direction, and your efforts will be rewarded.

True love is invincible.

Praise him more in front of your family.

As long as he is really good to you, your family will accept him.

I wish you happiness! Hehe!

Although there are some unrealistic tendencies, I think it is two aspects, while exhorting your mother to accept your boyfriend, he himself should also try to meet your mother's standards, as long as your mother sees his efforts, I believe your mother will like him

Just make that man stronger!

I feel like you should think about it rationally, sometimes the process of liking someone is beautiful, but when you actually experience it, it's different. It can be seen that you like her, but the difference in cultural knowledge level will bring great inconvenience to your future communication, except for the city girls you said, but there are educated and cultivated rural girls, there are still some, maybe your eyes lack to find. It's not that I deliberately think that education is important, it's just that I feel about it from my own personal experience in love.

I feel that as one of your netizens, I can understand your thoughts!

As you said, sometimes the girls in the city.

I think no matter how much I say, it's just a cliché!

Friend, I believe that you will be able to truly love and dare to act!

Wishing you happiness!

If you broke up with him, then you are also a person who has been through it. At this time, if you find a boyfriend who has no experience, then the other party will face the same situation as you are now, and you have to coax him every day; If you look for a man who has had an experience......So why are you breaking up now?

At least, he's good to you now, how many chances do you think you have to find a man who is as good as you?

It is only when you are afraid that difficulties become difficulties. And the more worried and sad you are, the more difficult it will become.

And throughout the story, 90% of the pain comes from your own speculation, that is, you have been torturing yourself ......

Man's present is built up by man's past. So, no matter what kind of experience, don't regret it, and don't feel sad, because it is these experiences that make you who you are. In the same way, I think you should thank his ex-girlfriend for giving such a good husband to you.

Are you going to give him up to someone else?

Being at home by yourself and having a lot to do. You have to understand that it's not just your husband's home, the home is made up of the two of you. The house is not a home, the real heart of a home is the two of you.

You have to understand your important position in his heart (you have been coaxing you all the time, this kind of affection is not something that can be pretended), and you must understand your position at home.

Don't be sad, tidy up your nest every day, go to the vegetable market, prepare a simple and delicious dinner for him, run it carefully, and you will gradually fall in love with your home. When you truly own your home, it's time for you to be sensible. :

When you are sensible, you will understand that you have a home, and when you are not sensible, you may always be just a combination of people + house.

Say so much and don't be sad. :

Age is not a problem, it is because of his previous fault, (in fact, it is not his fault, it is the fault of which woman, which woman is greedy for wealth and abandons the relationship for several years,) everyone will have his past, don't deny the future because of his past, men want to save face, especially in front of friends, isn't there a saying like this? You can give him enough face outside, and you can not give him face at home, how short is life. Friends are very important, if he has no friends for you alone, what kind of life is meaningless, he should be free to give him freedom, he should be in charge, you should be relatively small, I don't understand it yet.

His pain is only known to him, the relationship that has been divided for a few years is very painful, and this is a betrayal, it is a person who loves you, why do you want to block it, he makes you, can't you let him, men's hearts are also very fragile, and they also need love. Think about it. Bless you all.

It is not difficult to see from your words that you are indeed very uncomfortable, but I advise you not to break up with him, since he can let you do everything to show that he loves you, love is a kind of spiritual, not material or so on, in fact, I personally feel that it is not that he has not come out, but that you have not forgiven other people's past, in fact, who do I think has not passed? I think you should enrich yourself and consider more from his standpoint, he is a man, he hopes that you can support him very much, there is no man who does not love face, of course, he also has to accompany you a lot, if you are always at home, you are also crazy, in fact, I feel that he is a potential stock, but you need to be cautious.