Is it okay for parents to force their children to study interest classes?

Nowadays, it is popular in major cities to enroll children in interest classes, and many children basically have no free time to rest in addition to their usual classes.

This may be related to the increasingly fierce social competition, but more importantly, it is related to the educational philosophy of parents, who believe that as long as something useful to their children is a good thing, whether the child likes it or not, happy or not.

In fact, in foreign countries, foreign parents pay less attention to the education of knowledge, and pay more attention to the cultivation of aesthetic ability and behavioral morality, 41% of foreign parents choose to go to exhibition halls, museums, art galleries, etc., among which the most popular sports activities for foreign parents are sports. Only 6% of Chinese parents choose this option. Most parents in China think that their children are too young to appreciate it, so they prefer to send their children to interest classes.

Topics such as what interest classes to take and what talents to learn are talked about by Chinese parents. "Children are tired of participating in so many interest classes, and parents are also tired, but if they don't participate, they are afraid of losing at the starting line. One parent spoke his mind.

It is this kind of psychology that puts parents in a dilemma, knowing that going to so many interest classes may not have much effect, and they feel that their children are falling behind if they don't go up. In the interview, the reporter found that such a situation is very common, and almost every parent has encountered this choice, and almost all of them are "interested" willingly or unwillingly.

As for whether you should take an interest class or not? Some education experts say that this is tailored to the person's conditions, depending on the child's situation, and there is no fixed age limit. If the child's intelligence and all aspects are relatively mature, he can participate in the training of interest classes.

If the child cannot be separated from his parents in all aspects and does not have a certain degree of independence, it is not very suitable. Parents should be good at discovering and tapping their children's interests. For interest classes, it has no effect to report more or less, the key is to look at the child's interests, and the most important thing is to respect the child's wishes.

Many education experts have warned that education is the most important thing to avoid pulling out seedlings to help grow, and children's growth is a natural process, even if there is a "critical period", each child is different. However, many parents can't wait for their children's strengths to appear naturally in life, so they are in a hurry to dig out, which will only hit their children's enthusiasm for learning, which will not only make children feel depressed, but also make children lose their enthusiasm for learning new things.

I don't think parents should force their children; Because the child has his own ideas, even if the child is allowed to study in an interest class, the child will not be happy, and the child should be allowed to choose an interest class by himself, which can not only reduce his play time, but also enrich his cultural life.

No. If you force your child in life, it may make your child very unhappy in life, and may even cause some depression.

Parents should not force their children, but should respect their children's choices, so that children can have good development.

No, it won't. Interest classes can cultivate children's character and habits, so that children can fall in love with learning and school life. At the age of three, it is the time for children's intellectual development, and parents must let their children develop their intelligence as early as possible.

It is advocated that qualified families should help their children receive various knowledge and information when their children are young, especially in art, such as the enlightenment of dance, painting, and drama, and develop their children's perception of natural shapes, colors, and textures.

For example, when kindergarten children don't understand anything, parents can enroll their children in interest classes, so that children can have a learning mentality. It is better to know what interest classes are better for 4-year-old babies to learn, so that parents can better choose the interests that suit their children. Parents must listen to their children's opinions when choosing interest classes for their children.

At the age of 3-5, it is best to let the child listen to the good ** first, appreciate the good **, generally 4-5 years old to receive technical guidance on piano and other musical instruments, learning piano is more appropriate. Of course, depending on your child's situation, you can make it earlier or later.

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Voices have feelings and life. Babies who are too young should not learn the piano, because learning the piano requires the baby to have certain abilities, including the baby's cognitive ability.

At a certain level, at least you can understand simple staves.

It also includes a certain degree of hearing differentiation and the ability to feel the **, such as distinguishing the treble, timbre, monotony, etc., as well as the development of fine hand movements, a certain degree of hand-eye coordination, the strength of the fingers and the size of the hand development.

It is still useful for children to attend interest classes, but don't force children to go to them, and be sure to cultivate children's interests.

Whether it is useful for children to go to interest classes depends on whether the child is really interested in the interest class given by the parents, if it is a parent's whim or follow the trend and the child is not interested at all, so that the child does not like to learn and even has a rebellious mentality, it will not be useful, and there will even be ***. Therefore, when applying for an interest class, we should comprehensively consider the child's strengths and hobbies, and only the suitable one is the best!

Legal analysis: without power, children have the right to personal freedom, if the obligation to education is mentioned, then this is also a right, and if you give up the additional right to education, you do not have to fulfill the additional obligation to educate.

Legal basis: Article 19 of the Education Law of the People's Republic of China: The State implements a nine-year compulsory education system.

The people at all levels have adopted various measures to ensure that school-age children and young people attend school.

Parents or other guardians of school-age children and youths, as well as relevant social organizations and individuals, have the obligation to ensure that school-age children and youths receive and complete compulsory education for a specified number of years.

I don't force my children to attend hobby classes. As the name suggests, the hobby is a hobby that children should be interested in. If your child is resistant to the rough fight, don't force him. Let him choose what he wants to be interested in.

When enrolling the child in the interest class, first ask the child if he is willing to go, if he is not willing to go, it means that the child is not interested in this interest class, at this time should not be forced to inform the child to go on, especially for example, such as the Shuhu Duan Law Class, the Dance Cong Do Ming Class and so on, although parents want the child to master a skill, but it is not good to pull out the seedlings to help grow.

It will not be forced to change the conglomerate, the most important thing in the interest class is to be interested, if the child is not interested, he can be persuaded to return appropriately, but if he really doesn't want to, there is no need to force it.

Definitely not compulsory, even if the child is forced to send to some interest classes, the child will not study seriously, so I will not do this.

It's not that you want to let your child go to the interest class you like, but you have to ask the child what interest he likes, and you can't impose your will on the child, otherwise the child will definitely not want to go.

I don't force my child to go to school, because it will have a certain impact on the child's development, and the child will not want to.

I think it's best to match your child's interests so that he can learn it.

No, because it depends on personal wishes, if the child is not willing to go, then there is no need, because the twisted melon is not sweet.

Shouldn't you force your child to attend an interest class that you don't like?

Arouse the child's resistance.

Although the children are not very old, there are some children who have a very clear understanding of their interests and hobbies, and the children are not willing to spend time on learning things that they are not interested in, but if parents and friends blindly force their children to dislike interest classes, it will lead to strong resistance to children, and even get bored with related subjects.

The learning effect is not good.

When it comes to interest classes, of course, it is best to meet the child's Jinghong interests, hobbies are the best, if parents and friends are interested, children are not interested, and children are not interested, it will have the opposite effect. Not only do children fail to learn useful knowledge, but they also waste money, which is simply a lose-lose situation.

Which interest classes are not necessary for children to attend?

The publicity effect is too exaggerated interest class.

The reason why parents and friends will enroll their children in interest classes, of course, is to hope that their children can be versatile, but some unscrupulous businesses take advantage of parents' anxiety and expectation to launch some interest classes with very exaggerated publicity effects, such as "learn within ten days", etc., and most of the interest classes with exaggerated publicity effects are to cheat tuition fees, so parents and friends must keep their eyes open.

Interest classes with unknown teacher qualifications.

Basically, there will be a variety of interest classes around the school, and the tuition fee is even higher or lower, parents and friends should first understand the qualifications of the teacher when they enroll in the interest class for their children, if they think that the teacher's qualifications are not enough, then try not to report, so as not to waste the child's time and waste money.

Interest classes taught in large classes.

Many interest classes will recruit as many students as possible, and even only one teacher will be arranged in an interest class, but there are dozens or even hundreds of such interest classes for students, so it is best not to register for children. Because it is impossible for a teacher not to see every child, such interest classes are both a waste of money and ineffective.

Kiss. It is not recommended to force children to go to interest classes, as this will cause children to lose interest and their hobbies. What's more, there will be resistance.

The child's reluctance to attend interest classes is due to the child's inner lack of interest in what he or she is learning. Therefore, parents should find out their children's interests, and should not force their children to participate in learning, communicate with their children in a timely manner, and understand their children's ideas.

1. This is a mistake that many parents will make, always thinking about spending money to buy results, thinking that the child should have a good result after spending money, or they will think that the child is not doing well. In short, the focus of parents is always on the outcome itself. But do you see the sparkle in the child?

When a child is learning to dance, he falls down over and over again, and gets up again and again, isn't this spirit better than the dancing itself? However, some parents just can't see it, but it is these spirits that can affect their children's future more.

2. Some parents always want to use their children as a tool to realize their dreams, even if they are a shining pianist, their childhood life is miserable, and then they are forced by their father to practice the piano angrily smashing the wall with their hands, and shouting: "I hate you, I hate myself, I hate my hands." I wonder if you want to see your child like this?

The child is an individual, an independent personality, we can't treat the child as a thoughtless tool, but some parents never understand.

3. Some things can not be learned by sitting in the classroom, even college students who are out of the society will feel that there is still a lot to learn, but after reporting a lot of classes in a decent manner, they find that they don't know the knowledge in life at all. Therefore, when dealing with children's interest in Yunhe tutoring classes, we must not be blind and forced, and it is enough to choose 1 or 2 newspapers that children are most interested in.