The parents are deceased and do not have a house. Every year, the New Year and the festival are spen

If his parents are deceased, and then he doesn't have a house now, and he spends it alone outside every New Year's holiday, he really doesn't have a sense of belonging. The best thing to do now is to take out a loan to buy a house and then find your other half.

A person should have his own house and a house to have a home.

Alone outside, drifting alone and working hard.

It's like a fallen leaf that flutters in the wind and has nowhere to stay.

Of course, it can be said that without a sense of belonging, you can't experience the warmth of home.

Indeed, when the parents are there, the home is there, and when the parents are there, they feel that they belong, and during the New Year's holiday, no matter where they go or how far they go, they want to go home and be with their families, and have a happy reunion. However, parents will eventually leave, although there are too many reluctances, they must be strong, they must face it, work hard, live well, and have a happy family of their own.

Hello, I think according to your description, your parents are deceased, you don't have your own house, and you spend the holidays every year outside, so you really don't have a sense of belonging, and it will be good to wait until you meet your other half and start a family.

Hello, the sense of belonging is given by oneself, as long as.

Find the person you love, and the person who loves you.

With a sense of belonging comes a home!

So the sense of belonging can be created by yourself!

Specifically, I hope it can help you. Hope. Thank you!

If you wander alone outside, you will not have a sense of belonging; If you start a family outside the home, your home is where you belong.

There must be no sense of belonging, and everyone is like this outside.

When you get used to staying outside, your sense of belonging will gradually weaken, but you won't have a sense of belonging.

Parents have a way to go back Parents are not there and there is no house, so there is no sense of home, you should mature faster, let yourself have a home, make your life happier, more satisfied, more home.

When your parents are there, your home is there, and when your parents go, you're alone, so you have to find someone you love to be with, so that you have a home and a new sense of belonging.

In this case, there is really no sense of belonging, and you can choose to start a family.

It's a feeling of not belonging.

My parents passed away, and the family's house went to **? Your parents should have had a house when they were alive, right? Don't you have any siblings?

If you don't have the ability to buy a house yet, your siblings can help you out, and you can come back and discuss with them during the Chinese New Year. It is recommended that you rent a house first and wait for the economy to improve before buying a house.

It depends on whether you often go back to your hometown, if so, it really doesn't, and it depends on whether you are married, and even less if you are married.

I think that's sad. In this situation, I am like a duckweed, without parents and without a house. I'm going to share my work. Start a family and start a business, so that you have your own roots.

If you reach marriageable age, find a suitable marriage, and only when you have a family will you have a sense of belonging.

How old are you? If you reach the age of starting a family, you should think about what your career is like now, your small family. Thinking will never have an answer, doing will have an answer. Only by thinking less and doing more can you find what you like more, and it is very fulfilling when you have a goal and a direction.

If you are outside for a long time, you should not feel anything.

Not married yet?

Boys or girls?

How old are you, your parents don't have anything.

Only when you are really strong will you have a full sense of security A girl who is married is really If her husband doesn't hurt, she feels abandoned by the whole world and feels that her parents are not family Although this is not good, I always feel that I don't want to trouble my family more to make my family feel that they are living a good life, so it is the most fundamental solution for women to enrich themselves.

This is not a mental illness, it needs to be reflected on psychologically and sociologically. I don't know how old you are, it is probably a rebellious period of youth, and it is not pleasing to see anything, including your parents who think they don't understand you. In fact, you have to put yourself in the overall social norm and strive to be an obedient, motivated, and hard-working child.

This is the need for affection in your family, no matter how indifferent you are, but you will have an emotional need for your home and your parents, which is a blood relationship.

When a person is no longer needed, such thoughts arise. If you feel that you are dispensable in the family, you may have unexpected gains if you listen to your family's voice and express your desires at this time.

Children from families whose parents are divorced are always the biggest victims, and the pain they have to endure is difficult for outsiders to feel. Many people may think that even a single-parent family doesn't matter, as long as your parents are good to you. In fact, for children whose parents have been divorced since childhood, they are extremely insecure inside, but most of the time they pretend to be strong on the surface.

When their parents divorce and have a family again, they feel very lonely. Because my parents have a new family, and I don't know who to rely on, there seems to be an extra layer of barrier between them. At this time, in addition to the lack of security in the child's heart, there is no sense of belonging, and they will feel that they do not seem to be suitable in any family, because there are strangers in the present.

If you are in an extremely insecure situation, you can actually talk to your parents about your feelings. A responsible parent will not let the child have such worries, they will tell the child through their own behavior that they will always love him, even if the family is reorganized, there will be no lack of love for the child.

It's actually normal to have no sense of belonging, because your mind is not very mature, and it takes a while to grow to make yourself stronger. You can communicate with your parents, you don't need to do some extreme things to get their parents' attention, you have to believe that no parents don't love their children, and after communication, they know what to do to make you feel a sense of belonging and security.

Start your own family, and if you don't have time for the time being, then try to make your life better.

There is no way, since this is their choice, then respect them.

Then work hard, work hard to make money, and give yourself a belonging.

It's not necessary to find a way to live your own, and you always make yourself uncomfortable.

Then make yourself harder, become better, and find a partner who can give you a warm family.

How to be happy and how to live. It doesn't matter if you're taking drugs or playing with women. Find a way to be happy.

I don't exhort people to do good. Because I know that the divorced child is originally a bad child, a mongrel. It's just parental excrement.

But you are innocent, so everything they owe to you. You have to learn to fight the tiger. Because they are the most hypocritical people.

It will definitely be said that it is all for your good. Is life your own anyway? Remember, you were born with cholera.

It's normal, all you can do is take care of yourself.

I'm the same way, I mainly want to find some interest and happiness on my own, and I have to fight for everything by myself instead of relying on others.

Take the initiative to communicate with people more, there is no way, you can only take your time.

In fact, it depends on which aspect you have a conflict with your family, although I don't know, but the warmth of home is not its own, but to rely on mutual understanding, tolerance and take a step back, because we are family, so we are willing to calm down and think about whether there is something inappropriate about yourself, even if you don't understand, you are willing to take a step back. This is because we want the warmth of our home to exist, and we have to give something, but sometimes I feel that this kind of giving is also happy. Not only family, but also friends.

If the family does not understand, it is normal, the three-year generation gap, not to mention the parents and our two generations of growth environment is completely different, this I also experienced, at the time it really felt very bad, but I took a step back, found that even if there are some differences of opinion between us, we will never agree, but the feelings between each other are longing for harmony and warmth, this is a drive for us by deep emotions. It may not solve your specific problem, but I really hope that you can believe in the peace of mind of home and feel the belonging and warmth brought by home. I wish you happiness and happiness.

Either way, your parents are good for you, and you have to try not to worry them.

One day you will be considerate and guilty.

If you don't agree with one person, maybe it's the fault of others, and if you don't agree with everyone, you should find the reason in yourself.