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Everyone has something they like, and they like it but don't necessarily have to get it. Many people eat in the bowl, thinking about the pot, and when their hearts are big, they want to occupy all of themselves. When you get it, you won't not cherish it.

Most people like each other very much at first, and then once they get married or confirm a relationship, they get tired of each other and dislike each other. Therefore, it is not necessarily a good thing to get it, and it is not a good thing to leave a good memory for yourself in the bottom of your heart and hide it in your heart forever.

Since we can't be together, then don't do any more useless struggles, and get out of this shadow as soon as possible, because being lingering in this relationship will only increase the sadness. And life is always full of all kinds of multiple-choice questions, what we have to do is to choose the right option that is beneficial to us, and let ourselves go on firmly.

Sometimes I feel that if I go into his heart as much as possible and listen to his heart, what is mine will always be mine, why force it if it is not mine, even if I only have his heart, it is enough. ‍‍

From the first time I saw her in high school, I liked it, probably this is the so-called one-sided love at first sight, at that time I didn't know which class she was in, but every time I went to the restaurant, I always pretended to meet inadvertently, just watched from a distance, when I knew that she was in the next class, I was thinking why I hadn't seen it before, it turned out to be a new transfer student, after I inquired through my classmates, I knew that she had a boyfriend, And I didn't want to get involved in this relationship, so I persuaded myself for a long time and finally gave up, saving me more trouble.

It's been five years since this happened, and at that time I fell in love with someone I shouldn't like, he was my best friend's boyfriend, although I have kept my distance from him, but I know how much I like him in my heart, every time I see him, I feel that a day is a good mood, but every time he is in a bad mood, I will comfort him, but I can't show it too obviously, I'm afraid my girlfriend will know, so I forbearance for two years, I can't stand it, I went to a different place alone, If you want to forget this love in your heart, you just want to be out of sight and out of mind, probably not to the point where you like it very much, so I gradually forgot it.

It was all a few years ago, although I liked that boy very much, a confession but I couldn't get a response from him, and in the end I was waiting for the news of his marriage, and at that moment I understood everything, and it was really not a good thing to force it.

Once I dreamed that I married him, and we lived our lives. I always felt that the dream was very real, probably because I subconsciously didn't believe it was a dream. No matter what, I'm so satisfied to have such a dream, and I'll think that in parallel time and space, we're together.

If you like someone who will never be together, please cherish every opportunity to be with him and talk to him, because this is likely to become a rare memory in your mind.

Liking her and not being together doesn't mean I can't like it, but I can only keep this like in my heart, don't deliberately pursue this unrealistic feeling, you must know that this kind of relationship is like two parallel lines, which can never coincide together.

I think that at this time, you should choose to let go in time, you can usually participate in more social activities to forget about him, so that you can distract yourself, and you can also participate in outdoor sports with friends to relax your mood, keep yourself busy, and help forget him.

In such a situation, you should communicate with the other party accordingly, explain the problems between the two of you, and put forward relevant guiding opinions, so as to effectively overcome the difficulties and work together.

In such a situation, you should let go of this relationship as soon as possible, so that you will not be hurt in any way, and you can also better accept your new life.

If it were me, I would tell the other person what I wanted, and then I would keep this feeling in my heart and continue to look forward.

Ask yourself in your heart if you really love this person, or if you have him or not. Strive to be with this person, no matter what the cost is, be brave enough to pursue this person.

Let go, bless, love is not the whole of life, there is no need to entangle and waste time because of a person you like but can't be together. Become good friends with each other, sometimes friendship lasts longer than love, don't disturb each other's life, go to a place without him and start over.

You know that if you simply like the other person, and the other person doesn't know, then it is naturally yourself who suffers, because you didn't confess.

First of all, I like the feeling of being alone, I think it's sweet and sour. I once liked a girl in junior high school, and the whole class knew about it, but she just didn't deal with me. I don't know why, but I like it for three years.

I haven't been together until I graduated from junior high school, and at the end of the graduation party, I had a serious chat and expressed my heart. Of course, the result is not together. But it's really happy when I like it, although I can't be together, there are times when it's uncomfortable.

But now that I think about it, it's nothing, and liking someone doesn't have to be with her to be liked. Later, I also had a lot of girlfriends, and after we got together, it was always those processes. From fresh to familiar, from familiar to love, and then from love to bland, and finally tired of getting bored, either she mentioned it first or I mentioned it first.

It wasn't until I met my current girlfriend who was four years younger than me. But sometimes she is more mature than me, with an attitude towards work and life. She can teach me a lot, we have been together for more than a year, cooking together, doing laundry together, taking pictures together, playing games together, and getting through conflicts together during the epidemic.

I don't know what the future holds, but I cherish it. Because she is right, people have to pursue. To get better and better, to learn a little bit and make yourself more fulfilling.

Even if you are separated in the future, don't hold grudges and organize your emotions and mentality. Welcome a better future, and the story in this time, let it become your warmest and strongest strength. Time will give us many answers, and my advice is.

Don't bother, enrich yourself and make yourself better. In this way, there will always be someone by your side, someone you like, who you care about, who will appear by your side.

She can't let go of him, you can't let go of her, it's stuck in a cycle, and it's best to get out of it as soon as possible.

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I think you can change one direction and then shift your mind to something else, because liking someone who can't possibly be together doesn't end well.

When you can't let go of someone you like, but you can't be together, the only thing you can do is to restrain your emotions. You can divert your attention to go out and participate in outdoor activities more, cultivate some interests, and make more other friends so that you don't think about this person as time fades, maybe your feelings for him will fade.

Stop-loss should be cut in time, not to waste time on impossible people, and it is better to get to know new people of the opposite sex.

Many times we are faced with a dilemma, and if we encounter such a situation, we can only learn to accept it.

It is impossible to be together no matter what proves that the two of you are destined, too much attachment has no meaning except to make each other miserable, bless each other, invest in other good things in life, and slowly forget.

At this time, you must come out of this state, and you must actively start a new life, and you must meet new people, and you must make yourself realize from your heart that it is impossible between two people.

Then go and like someone who might be together, don't waste time on useless people and things, and focus on more meaningful things.

You've fallen into the abyss, so why don't you try to climb out early to see how beautiful the blue sky is outside, why keep jumping down on the edge of a cliff?

Thank you for having me!

I know that I am not the one who should be loved, but I love it, and I know that we can't be together but I am reluctant to let go. The root of everything is in yourself. You don't want to let go of it, just remember the sweetness and beauty of your time together, you can never let it go.

If you really want to let go, you must make up your mind. Don't think about his good, just think about his bad, the fire in your heart, whether to let it go out by itself or pour cold water on yourself, it depends on your own choice.

Then it's about keeping yourself busy. You can increase your workload, or you can go to the gym, go out and see the outside world more often, and divert your attention. When your body and mind are attracted to other things, you will gradually forget about it.

What should not belong to you, never think about it, otherwise it will always be yourself who will be hurt.

On the road of true love, in the ocean of true love, it is normal to love someone to the point of losing direction; So when you can't have each other, and you can't stay with each other; The best way is to stay away from each other, so that you can feel out of sight and out of mind; If you don't leave each other, don't move away, then you can't start over; Only when you are far away, can you experience the happiness of life and the perfection of youth in your heart; Change your environment and state of mind, and you will naturally be happier.

Ask if it's really that hard to love someone.

The main reason for the question is that I am too dominant and sensitive, and sometimes I threaten him, I am afraid of losing him, so I did this, but I didn't expect to come or lose, I thought I loved him too much, so how do I do it now.

Ask if you read books about love.

High numbers are also OK.

Okay, the main reason is that I pay too much attention to my feelings, I'm afraid I won't forget it for a while, it's so difficult to live, do you want to hurt yourself, and end yourself, live to admit guilt.

There are still a lot of people who care about you.

You're still young, you're afraid of something, you've never experienced anything.

Question teacher I'm really difficult, the two of us have talked, there have been two years, he also has a depressed brother at home, every year is taking medicine to maintain the condition, at that time his father was afraid that I can't bear the burden, I promised him in person, I said yes, in I have been trying to persuade his father to finally promise me two engagement, in the engagement he let me come to the door, I also promised him, the key to the door to the door to 200,000 dowry, not ordered, not said, I am still together, but his father does not agree with me two, But I also tried to convince his father that this girlfriend is currently suffering from tuberculosis, so he is afraid that I will not be able to bear the burden, and my girlfriend is also bad, the headquarters gave me face to talk about me in front of others, I told him that he didn't listen, and there was a quarrel when he was talking, then I was too domineering and sensitive, and threatened him, I could bear his bad problems, why can't he bear it, teacher, then you said that it is necessary to retain, if it is necessary to retain, then how can I do it.

Okay, then I'll put it down slowly, thank you, teacher.

I've tried, at least I won't regret it.

If you are sure that you can't be together, then you must let go! If you can't let it go, you have to let it go, otherwise you must be the one who gets hurt in the end.

At this time, you have to be ruthless and tell yourself that you have to let go, although it may not be so easy at the time, because of inertia you will always think of your happy times together from time to time, and you are always reluctant to give up, and giving up is pain. But long pain is better than short pain, and if you don't give up, you won't get it in the end, so you will always live in pain.

Time is the best medicine, time can dilute everything, as long as you psychologically decide to give up, after a long time, you will not cling to this relationship, and you will really come out.

The biggest regret of falling in love with someone who is impossible is not that you can't get it, but that you can't give it up.

Some encounters are either too early or too late, and I want to cherish every encounter in my life, every scenery in my life, every heartbeat in my life, and every person who accompanies me in my life. However, one person and another may be an episode in life, not ruthless, nor lucky, but just predestined.

Susu's message: Sometimes forget someone. It's better not to bother.

Since you can't forget it, put it in your heart, love yourself, and then love and love the person who loves you. Habit is a good thing, when you love it, you don't care about it, and when it hurts, you let go of it. Only in feelings can people be reborn in life, although it hurts, but I don't regret having you.

Knowing that you can't fall in love with someone who can't be together, and you can't let go, you should keep your mind clear first, and then change to a new environment and learn to forget.