My ex boyfriend still likes me and asks to get back together...

1. Want to understand why you and your ex-boyfriend broke up in the first place? If the original breakup is not cherished, then even if he gets back together, he may not cherish it again. If it was a forced separation, then there is still a possibility worth considering.

2. How long have you liked the boy you like now, and how much do you like it? Does he know that you like him and how hopeful are you?

If you've sorted it out, make your choice. Hope you can be happy!

No matter how long they have been apart, girls will have more or less feelings for their ex-boyfriends, because after all, they have loved each other. But it's not necessarily still in love.

Also, if you make a choice, you have to give up on the other person, no matter how painful. Because it's a sign of respect for the three of you.

Don't look back on the road you've traveled.

I can't pick my favorite

Just find one with good conditions

It's not bad to be realistic

Despite being scolded, be kind to yourself

Think carefully about which one to focus on your current feelings.

And think about why you broke up with your ex-boyfriend and whether this will happen in the future.

Think it through, and you'll know your answer.

After breaking up for a while, you finally found someone you like, don't destroy this relationship anymore, maybe you didn't know how to cherish it before, so now you have to cherish the current relationship, after all, the previous feeling has passed.

Besides, after breaking up for so long, there is already a gap between the two people, and no one can make up for the vacancy, and the relationship between the two people is no longer as deep as before. (The vase is broken, no matter how well it is repaired, there will be cracks).

Since you like someone now, it means that you have come out of breaking up with him, so cherish everything you have now.

Good horses don't eat back grass, do you think that if people find a better one outside, they will come back to you? People who easily say that they break up are not worth relying on, let alone getting back together after breaking up, do you say that the broken heart is so easy to repair?

Figure out what you like by yourself, you can't go all the way, then you will be very tired.

You don't want to step on 2 boats, or be single-minded, you like another guy but he likes you, you asked, if you confess successfully, then you like him exclusively (of course, this relationship must be told to him, why you will know later) If it doesn't work out, you apologize to him and reconcile, then hehe

Summary. Although a person can deceive people in his mouth, his body and behavior are honest, and it is difficult to redeem a sincere person.

Hello, how long have you been talking to your ex-boyfriend, how long have you been separated and how long have you been carrying Cong Ruler, is it because of Zheng Jiao why they separated, can you gather soil and talk about it? Here's how to help you analyze.

A few days later, he confessed to me that he liked a girl (who was a bit green) and promised me that he would forget about her, but the next day he saw the girl and broke up.

His behavior shows that he really loves this woman, and he gives her his true heart, and he only talks to you for a short time.

But when the two of us are together, he is sincere, and he can feel that this girl's conditions are not better than mine, and there is no way to redeem them.

Although a person can deceive people in his mouth, his body and behavior are honest, and it is difficult to redeem a sincere person.

The general content is that he is not a scumbag, but how to get back together.

Hello, can you divide the development**? It's not very clear.

You can keep giving her warmth and let him slowly give up on that girl.

Is this girl his ex-girlfriend? Can you elaborate on that?

Schoolmate. If they are classmates, the relationship foundation is relatively good and stable, so they are distracted when they see her. If you really like him, you can be patient, keep in touch with him, and give him a gentle side, always caring, if only Chang you can insist, you can save him.

Hard work pays off.

Feelings should be emphasized.

As a girl, since this person is your ex-boyfriend, then, you should still miss the old love, after all, two people have been together, you must know how to respect each other, don't be blunt or even cold to his return, don't hurt each other's hearts.

Save face for the other party. As a girl, if the boy has come back to you and offered to get back together with you, this is also a gesture, and it also takes courage to return to you, which shows that he loves you very much, and you must save face for the other party.

Give yourself a step down.

If the breakup of two people was an impulsive thing, then, we should not be emotional, the other party comes back, it is to give ourselves a step, we don't want to die to save face, if we think it is appropriate, continue to be together.

Comprehensive analysis and judgment.

We should comprehensively analyze how likely it is that two people can be used if they reconcile, and make a judgment in a timely manner, especially the assessment of the situation of two people, including the current state of the two people, should be fully analyzed and judged.

Don't be ambiguous.

We should pay attention to one thing, don't drag our feet on emotional matters, we can't help but show our attitude, if we express our ambiguity, it is easy for the other party to think that there is a chance, and we feel that we may agree to get back together, which may cause greater misunderstanding to the other party.

Do not care about previous suspicions.

We should do it regardless of past suspicions, and since we choose to reconcile, we should continue to love each other with our hearts. You must take love seriously, treat him with generosity, don't dwell on it, and try to keep it in good condition.

If it's not suitable, say no.

If we don't want to get back together with the other party, we should refuse politely and politely, we must be graceful, and since we have decided not to accept the other party, we should make it clear and give the other party a clear answer on the premise of trying not to hurt the other party.

Why did you separate at that time, this is the problem, now that you have a boyfriend, you should treat this kind of thing correctly, you can't be soft-hearted, you can't be because he said something that makes your heart move, this kind of thing can't be forced, you can't hesitate.

The interaction between people is either a discord in personality or a discord in habits, but character will determine habits, so the prerequisite for deciding whether you want to get back together is to consider whether your living habits can be compatible after reuniting, because as long as your living habits are compatible, your personality should be similar, as long as your character is compatible, then you should be happy after reuniting.

Your previous breakup with your boyfriend won't be for no reason, right? Now your ex-boyfriend wants to get back together with you, so what should you do?

If the reason for the previous breakup was purely because of personality discord, then it is obvious that there was a problem with your previous living habits, and the key problem now is that your ex-boyfriend wants to take the initiative to get back together with you, which means that he should be able to accept your previous living habits. If you can also accept his previous habits, then you can get back together, because after all, your ex-boyfriend has gone down a level, and it was just a gamble between you before.

Of course, it is not excluded that your ex-boyfriend's living habits make you look very unpleasant, so this is the best time for you to communicate harmoniously. For example, you can say: I don't like dogs, and you used to like dogs, can you not have dogs in the future?

If he agrees immediately, then you can get back together, because he has the will to get back together, so he should follow your habits in the future.

The best way is to let him go to your house to get a broom to sweep the floor for a day, whether the ground in your house is very clean, if he is willing to do this, after a day you ask him how he feels, if he corrects the mentality that he has never taken a broom before, then you can reunite, otherwise if you don't even want to take a broom, then don't go back together.

You don't think it's very harsh to do this, because you have to know that life is originally trivial, trivial is originally life, if you don't even want to take a broom, then he may be the same in all other aspects of life, this is to have a strong sense of dependence, and then your life may be a trivial thing in the future, and often very happy couples are also very good at dealing with the trivial things in life.

Summary: If your ex-boyfriend wants to get back together with you, no matter what kind of reasons led to the breakup, whether it is the incompatibility of personality and habits, or the involvement of a third party, you have to examine these two factors, the first is to see if your ex-boyfriend has a sense of repentance, and the second is to see if you have a heart of tolerance.

Look at what you think, what was the reason for the breakup in the first place, two people are together because they like each other, I don't know your situation, I don't know how to tell you.

You should still like him, he should like you when he comes to you, but because the problem is not solved well, it leads to a breakup, reunion is not the most important, think about how to solve the problem, whether it will appear again in the future is the most important thing, otherwise it is always a hurdle, there are knots in each other's hearts, and it is best for two people to work together to solve the problem.

If you can't provoke it, you can hide, and if you can't resist it, tell your current boyfriend that if you choose one side clearly, the other party will fail.

If you give your ex-boyfriend a chance, it's for nothing.

Thinking about it too much, it depends on your own thoughts that your ex-boyfriend wants to get back together, why did you separate at the beginning, what is the reason for getting back together now, and why do you want to get back together.

I feel like you should turn him down. If he wanted to get back together for so many years, he would have been back together a long time ago, there are too many variables in three years, and he may not be the same as before, cherishing the talent in front of him is the best!

If your ex-boyfriend wants to get back together, he must have some feelings for you, so he wants you to get back together. Did he regret it after the breakup? He feels that he misses you very much, likes you, so he wants to get back together, if you have feelings for him, you can give him a chance, but if he doesn't want to be responsible, that person feels that there is no need.

In fact, if a good horse doesn't eat back grass, he can leave you for three years, which is enough to show that he is unkind to you, and if you get back together, there will be something before.

If there is an idea.

You can test your boyfriend's thoughts on you.

But you have to be honest about it.

Of course, the struggle is not necessarily successful.

But I won't regret it later.

Think more about how you broke up in the first place. Think more about how your current boyfriend treats you. Think about it more and have been breaking up for three years, why didn't he come to you earlier, if he didn't look for you for three years, he wanted to get back together if he found you, who would suffer if you didn't suffer in the future?

If you say a few words, you want to get back together, and from your description, you don't directly tell you that you want to get back together, which means that you yourself want to get back together. I think you're either immature, or you're not hurt enough, and you're a bit of a foul.

What if you say your ex-boyfriend wants to get back together? I think you should think about it, should you give him a reunion, why did the two of you break up, why did he get back together with you? This is certainly a question worth considering, and if it is a minor issue, then it is okay to say, but if it is a matter of principle, it must not be met.

I don't think since you've been breaking up for three years and you have a boyfriend now, don't get back together with him.

What is the reason for the breakup, and who mentioned it, I am not against a reunion with feelings, but don't repeat the mistakes of the past.

He wants to get back together, it's just that he wants to, the key is to see what you think! Is it a memorial and not afraid that the rift of feelings will be difficult to heal? If you have any troubles, you can tell me about them.

I already have a boyfriend, and it's been three years since we broke up, so what's there to think about.

He couldn't find a suitable one, and of course he had to turn back!

You should decide for yourself! No one else can help!