I don t like my boyfriend and I don t know how to break up, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are two methods, the first is to continue like this without breaking up, and the second is to force him to break up.

    The subject doesn't know what to do to propose to break up, maybe it's because he's better to you, or you've just been talking for a long time, but no matter what the reason makes you not know to take the initiative to speak, it's better to talk about it first, since the boy has found his girlfriend, then he will definitely treat you well.

    Since you decided to be with him, since you knew you didn't like him or agreed to date him, it is better to try dating first, maybe he is the kind of person who is gentle and considerate to his girlfriend, or he loves you very much and is willing to change for you to like you.

    Although falling in love is a troublesome thing, since there is someone to rely on, it is better to rely on it first, isn't it good for girls, maybe after a long time, you will slowly like this person, or you are used to having his company, and when you look back, you find that you are not used to the days without him.

    Anything is possible, if you don't want him to be sad, it's better to get to know him a little bit, maybe it will end up being wishful thinking.

    If the subject really doesn't like him and wants to break up, then you can have an affair with another boy in front of him, or deliberately do something he hates, I used unreasonable trouble to force the boy I didn't like to break up with me.

    Boys generally don't like girls to be too willful, the subject can do something very willful, or through the cold war to show him that you don't like him, although you are dating, but every day the subject deliberately alienates him, or more directly ignores him every day, sooner or later he will feel tired, and then take the initiative to break up with you.

    Personally, I still suggest that the subject may wish to socialize for a while longer, after all, it is not a bad thing to have someone to accompany you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think what you should think about now is not that you don't dare to propose that after the breakup, there is any other way to resolve the crisis for you, what you should think about now is how to explain your thoughts to him.

    If you don't like a person, don't force yourself together, because this is a very nerve-wracking thing, so when you break it, you break it, and if you keep it, you will be chaotic. I suggest that you make it clear to him directly, don't drag the mud and water, and be afraid of wolves and tigers, after all, it is also a responsible performance for him to make decisions as soon as possible.

    You can say something like:

    I want to have a good chat with you, before I finish it, I want you to reserve your opinion, can you listen to me?

    I know that what I am going to say may make you very sad, but I feel it is necessary for me to tell you right away, because if I don't say it, I will have a bad conscience, and although you sound hurtful, it will hurt you even more if I don't say it.

    I'm here to say sorry! And say thank you! Thank you for being with me during this time, crying, laughing, and making trouble with me, I am really happy, and I also try to go into your heart and try to give you all my love.

    But I found that I had tried hard for a long time and got nothing, it was completely different from what I wanted, and I kept convincing myself, but it was only today that I realized that we really didn't fit in because I couldn't make myself fall in love with you.

    I've really worked hard, tried my best, I believe you are also willing to find a girlfriend who loves you to talk about a vigorous love, after all, the purpose of falling in love is to go to marriage, I can't find the feeling now, let alone marriage?

    So I don't want to delay you, I hope you can find the person who really likes you as soon as possible. If I were you, I would be heartbroken when I heard this, but I really don't want to delay you, just because I am afraid that this will drag you down, and I will be even more sorry for your kindness to me.

    So after much deliberation, I decided to tell you what was in my heart. ”

    I don't know you, and I don't know your boyfriend, so I don't know if this kind of rhetoric will solve your problem, but after all, you only know when you try, right?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't like it, if I can't get by, let's end it as soon as possible, otherwise the deeper he falls, the more he will be hurt if he ends up in the future. There are many reasons to break up, and since you don't like him, be ruthless.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be direct, don't waste other people's feelings, and feel that we are not suitable after getting along.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you can tell your boyfriend that after this period of time together, I don't think the two of you are particularly suitable, so it's better to separate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can say to your boyfriend like this, I don't feel like we have anything in common anymore, I'm not very happy with you, let's break up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The best way to break up with a boyfriend who no longer loves him is to tell the other person directly that he is not the type of person he likes, and that being together is a bad decision that tortures both parties, and tell the other person that he does not love him at all.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Deleting can delete everything about him, enrich your life, you don't have free time to think of him, wait for a long time, slowly he only has memories, no longer your heartache memories, then look for a man who loves you, slowly open your heart, and talk about a love that will turn out. So he's just reminiscing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The other person doesn't love you anymore, you don't have to explain, you don't have to say hello, just leave the environment and start anew.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Depending on the situation you described, break up with a boyfriend who has already ruined you. You just tell him directly, you don't like him anymore, it's over, don't be embarrassed to save face. It's not interesting to not like it together? I wish you happiness and good health.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Break up with a boyfriend who no longer loves you, then you just tell him that the two are not suitable, and it is better to break up. Since he doesn't love you anymore, he won't be sad no matter what you say.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since you already know that the other party doesn't love you anymore, then such a boyfriend, as long as you propose to break up, he will gladly agree and ask for it, but he is unwilling to bring it up, he is waiting for you to say it to him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course, to put it bluntly, I don't recommend procrastination in this kind of thing, because your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, and you can't get the happiness you want in him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Now that you know that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, you can just propose to break up. Because the other party doesn't love you anymore, and you propose to break up, the other party won't be too entangled.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The cut is continuous, and the rationalization is still messy.

    When it is broken, it is broken, and if it is continuous, it is chaotic.

    If you don't push yourself, no one knows what you're getting.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since he doesn't love you anymore, then you don't need to be nostalgic anymore, you should turn around and leave in style, remember that you are also a princess in the eyes of others, a fairy, he doesn't know how to cherish you, and someone will like you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't love your boyfriend anymore, you can explain it directly, so that it won't hurt him, just pick it out.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When a boyfriend who no longer loves himself breaks up, we can just pick it out.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's easy to break up if you want to, but I'm afraid you don't want to break up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You still need to have a sense of ceremony, or you still have to divide all kinds of money clearly! It's not that tangled. Just say that the breakup is over, right?

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