Will my love last long? Why doesn t my love last long?

First of all, ML is also a form of love, and you shouldn't be so disgusted! But on the other hand, ml is certainly not the whole of love Your life is too monotonous To enrich your life Two people together talk about studying seems to be a bit fake, but you can also go to the gym together, climb the mountain and do something meaningful At least it's good for yourself! Also, are you thinking about getting married?

I agreed before college that falling in love and getting married are two different things, and then when I was studying the etiquette of college students, I knew that any love that is not married for the purpose is irresponsible, I remember a cross talk that all the objects of the marriage for the purpose are hooligans, I thought it was ridiculous at the time, but now I think about it, but it is educational! Think about it yourself! Are you serious or playing!

When you meet, don't get old and go to a hidden space for two people.,Go shopping together.。。 That makes more sense. Otherwise, in the future, all you have memories of these is not meaningful memories.

When we meet, we walk around and ask about the latest studies, life, work, etc. Communicate more feelings. As for that, it's understandable. But don't be the only one.

Men and women love are adults, this is normal, as long as you use a normal mindset to face normal things, you will be balanced, don't bother yourself.

1.It is impossible for people to have no emotional needs from the experience of the family, for example: from an insecure family, they want to find security in their spouse.

2.When we choose a mate, we hope to emotionally get the needs that we do not get in our original family, such as the affirmation of our parents, the need to feel unique, etc.

3.We all carry these unfinished emotional baggage with us that we hope to be resolved in a new marriage or family.

4.If we can't get the satisfaction of the family in our original family, we will only care about what we want, and we will not be able to pay for the choice of mate. Although this view is quietly a bit pessimistic, if we have the courage to face the problems of our original family, we will have a new motivation to love again. Stalking.

5.Relationship problems are mostly due to unresolved knots in the family of origin and more to a lack of commitment, care and love.

In the process of men and women confessing to each other, we must try to take the initiative to understand each other, what the other party is thinking and what they need. Only in this way will the relationship between the two people be more stable. The reason why you have such doubts is because you don't really know your boyfriend, you can consider the following points that may help you.

First: Is he in need of your comfort.

When a friend's family died, he must have felt very sad. At this time, what may be most needed is your comfort and warmth. Not all boys are that strong.

Many times boys' hearts are more fragile than girls' and need more warmth and care. Faced with the news of your boyfriend's death in the family, it may be that you ignore it and make him angry.

Second: How did you get along before your boyfriend's family died.

If your relationship was particularly good before your boyfriend's family died. It could be that your boyfriend is angry with you and doesn't care about him. If your relationship was tepid before, the relationship was not particularly good.

Then, there is a good chance that your boyfriend will be separated from you because of the death of a family member.

Third: What kind of person is your boyfriend?

If your boyfriend is usually proactive towards you, it's especially nice to you. Now the 180-degree turn is ignored by you, and there must be a special reason. I think you can figure out the situation, no matter what, the two of them have been together for a while, even if this relationship is going to end, it must end clearly, and know why.