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I realistically advise you that sometimes love is not platonic eternal. We are no longer seventeen or eighteen years old, and there are so many things we need to face and endure.
First of all, I think the issue of academic qualifications is an extremely serious problem. I'm also a college student like you, and I once fell in love with a man who graduated from junior high school in a daze, and when I was really together, I felt that there were too many differences in each other's thoughts and hobbies, so there were too few common languages with each other, and there was even no opportunity to communicate.
Do you know how long a decade is? If you are united with him, it means that you will spend ten years slowly moving yourself to destruction. Ten years is not to be copied, not to tear up the calendar, all those chapters can be regarded as walking, that must be walked step by step with difficulty and constraints.
Ten years, what will happen in these ten years, can you **? You should think twice. Mortgage and supporting the elderly, as well as having children after marriage, etc., can you fully afford it, and can you be the head of the family again?
Sometimes, when you want love, you have to find bread to fill your stomach.
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You can list so many points that you are not stupid. Take control of your mindset. Only the person in question knows best what he wants. If the other party can give it to you, marry, if you can't, you will be divided.
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Reality is always cruel, and I've had this choice, asking you a question, when you're hungry, a loaf of bread, or a candy, what would you choose? The results are out, it is you who choose bread and you choose reality and do not want to starve to death, and it is you who choose candy You choose love, you would rather starve to death than taste sweetness.
In fact, you can find a better one, decide for yourself, and once you decide, don't regret it. Otherwise, you will die of torture like this for the rest of your life. Actually, if you choose bread, maybe you will regret it, so if you think about it from another angle, if you chose candy then, do you regret choosing bread now?
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I looked at your basic situation. I think you still have some doubts about this marriage. You'll have to think about it. Marriage is not child's play, it is a lifelong thing. If you get married like this, you won't be happy. Take my word for it.
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Why should a woman who is financially independent and has a stable career still get married?
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Do you regret marrying him? Choose him Do you regret it.
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There are no regrets, after getting married, the two people get along well, trust each other, take care of each other, can discuss many things, and can respect each other, such a marriage is still worth it.
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Nowadays, there is no ...... mentality towards marriage as the older generation
Those who marry or marry and regret it abound!
Although marriage is free, marriage is free, and divorce is also free, but in fact, marriage may be a few joys, but divorce is the opposite, therefore, remember to be cautious about divorce, so as not to hurt not only another partner, but your own family and another partner's family, the harm is often great!
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I regret marrying him.
At that time, I was young and ignorant, and I just thought he was good to me, and that's it. knew that his family conditions were not good, but, at that time, he pursued "love first", and was carried away by the so-called love, and he didn't know what it would be like after marriage.
To marry a person is to marry a life, and when referring to Jigao, he doesn't understand and doesn't want to understand.
I went to school, but because I married him, I went back to the countryside. I am the silver ring in the play. In my mind, I am a useful negative textbook for reading.
When I was studying, my own conditions were okay, tall, and good-looking. Although it's not pretty, it's also average, but it's just married to him.
may owe something to others in the previous life, so I will live in their family so wronged in this life.
There's a boy who goes to college, and we're very nice, buddies. My buddy is the easiest to turn into love, he liked me at that time, and I liked him. But because the fate is too shallow, the two of us have no result in the end.
He is now working in the court, his work and life are very stable, very happy, if he had been with him at the beginning, he should have lived a good life, at least much better than now.
There is also a boy who is now teaching at a university in Zhengzhou, and his future is also very good. At that time, I thought he was not good-looking, but now that I think about it, what can I do if I look good, don't you still have to face life? It's nothing if it's not good-looking, as long as it has connotation, appearance is not the most important thing at all.
is too naïve, but judging people by their appearance.
The elders often say that it is true that good looks cannot be eaten as food. When I grew up, I really understood it, but unfortunately I didn't understand it at the time.
These two boys, either of whom have better family conditions than their current husbands, one has a bachelor's degree and the other has a doctorate, I really regret it a little, why didn't I choose between them?
I was really confused.
There are some things that you will only look back at when you touch the south wall. Only when you have already experienced it and kowtowed to break the blood flow, can you understand the words of adults.
This year, life has been very difficult, and the most important thing is to quarrel with my husband, and I am really unhappy.
He didn't understand me at all, didn't support me, teased me, laughed at me, and I was really fed up.
Some people say that no matter what you want a man, don't try to make a man good to you, because one day, when he treats you badly, you will have nothing.
And I'm the stupidest and stupidest girl.
Now, both of them are living happily, and occasionally looking back, they really regret it.
However, I have two children, how can I bear to leave them without a father?
I used to persuade others that since I have children, I must still have feelings, and if I can get by, I will live it.
It's ridiculous to think about it now, how can it be so easy to get by?
There will definitely be feelings at that time, but the child is getting older day by day, and the two of them have nothing to talk about, and divorce is not a big deal.
I'm pretty much there.
I really can't get by, and it's a relief to leave.
It's a pity, I'm so sorry for my two children.
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There are two main types of marriage regrets: 1. The marriage was in a hurry, and the family urged the marriage. Because he was old and didn't find a suitable partner, the people in Lulali were more anxious, so they urged the blind date, in order to give an explanation to the family.
You can get married first and then fall in love, when there was no free love before, they were married on a blind date, and the two people didn't know each other, and they didn't have feelings, but after getting married for a long time, they slowly cultivated their feelings. So you can also try to cultivate a relationship with your husband. There are many women who regret it after marriage, and they have experienced the stage of adapting from falling in love to family life after meeting and falling in love.
When I got married, I found that my husband had a lot of bad habits, and I couldn't bear it, so I regretted getting married. If you can't stand it, you can let him change slowly, because if you love someone, you have to change for him, and if he loves you, he will be willing to change for you. But this bad habit can't be changed in a short period of time, so you have to give it time.
Since the two got married, they came together because they loved each other, so don't hurt your feelings because of small problems in life.
Regardless of whether the marriage is good or not, from the perspective of human nature, every couple has had countless times when they feel unsatisfactory in their marriage, when they feel that the other party is not satisfied, and even many people have regrets in their self-awareness.
So it's not very clear what point you regret in**? It can only be because marriage is not easy, and it can be done and cherished. Of course, if you feel that this marriage is really bad, you have encountered some problems of principle that you can't get over, or the character of the other party has completely affected your happiness experience and personal safety, then this dissatisfaction, this regret, can make a timely break.
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How long have you been pregnant? Is he still bad for you after pregnancy? If you don't treat you well when you're pregnant, then you won't have a good life in the future.
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Actually, most people regret it, or at least have some regrets.
If you and your husband are childhood sweethearts, or campus lovers, or colleagues and friends, and you are indeed married because of love, relatively speaking, it will be better, at least regret will come later. For when you are in love, you are sweet; In the first few years of your marriage, you also experienced the warmth and happiness of family.
Do you regret marrying your current husband?
But after getting along with each other for a long time, no matter whether the other party will change, it is difficult for you to guarantee that you will not change, and your preferences will also change because of the years, knowledge and the situation you are facing, and your husband will slowly not meet your requirements after all. And all kinds of frictions in life, sacrifices made for the sake of the family, will make you physically and mentally haggard, not to mention any love and romance, the last time we watched a movie together hand in hand, maybe I don't know when.
Do you regret marrying your current husband?
If you are married on a blind date, you are more improvised, there is no so-called knowing and loving each other, then regret will come faster. Especially when you meet the person who makes your heart flutter after marriage, the person you have longed for for a long time, but now you are powerless, and in the strong contrast with the wife you don't like, you will find it even more difficult to bear the current chicken marriage.
Do you regret marrying your current husband?
That's why there are so many divorced people now. Love is sweet, but it is difficult to maintain that sweetness. Because this sweetness needs your state of mind, your preferences and the way he is at that time, but time is cruel, and you will all become different you, even if it does not change, the feeling will change.
Of course, there are also a very small number of people who maintain sweet love for a lifetime, because they have a deep understanding of each other, and they tolerate each other without much sacrifice, or they can adjust each other's state and always maintain the appearance of the original love. But this requires both material support, good knowledge reserves, and strong enough personality charm and emotional intelligence.
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I don't regret marrying my current husband, because we are childhood sweethearts, the two families are world friends, they know each other, and the marriage is very happy, so there is nothing to regret.
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I don't regret marrying my current husband, because my current husband is very good, and he is also very handsome, financially capable, and good to me.
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I regret it, I didn't expect him to be such a selfish and irresponsible person, after getting married, I feel more tired than before marriage, and the quality of life has plummeted. People don't see that they don't have money, they don't care, they have to rely on themselves.
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Of course, I will not regret marrying my current husband, because my husband's career and family are also very stable, and I will know how to love myself, my wife and children are self-motivated in their careers, and they are also a small leader in the unit, so I still like this husband.
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Since I am married to my current husband, I have no regrets. There is no time in life when you have regrets. I know why I regret it in the first place.
So I decided for myself. Whether it's good or bad is your own business. As a human being, you can't be capricious, you can't look at this mountain and look at that mountain.
Only those who are content can be happy. Now that you have made your decision, you must respect your decision. Otherwise, you may not even be respected yourself.
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They are all married, there is nothing to regret, just live a good life, let the future life be happier, the family is happy together, healthy, happy is very important.
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No regrets. We have nothing at the beginning, now we have a house and a car, and now we have a pair of children, although life is not very good, but at least there is nothing to worry about, although our marriage has always been not easy, but I have never regretted marrying my husband.
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I don't regret marrying my current husband, because he gave me enough security in the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and I will not reject my mother-in-law from my heart at all. Because, I know, I am more important in my husband's heart than her, and I am the one who accompanies him all his life. For his mother-in-law, that is his real mother, he loves her very much, but he can figure out who he is living with.
And he knows how to be romantic, and he didn't quarrel with me about housework, but felt that those were his tasks, and that was what he should do. He can clearly shoulder the family responsibilities he has to bear, and he knows how to do housework, which is not a woman's patent.
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Do you regret marrying your current husband? Since I can marry him, I will definitely not regret it, although my life is very dull, but the happiness of the ordinary is also very good.
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If two people want to be happy in marriage, then they need to tolerate and understand each other, only in this way, both parties will not regret it, otherwise, both parties will always regret each other's shortcomings.
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Hello friends, everyone's happiness standard is different. , I don't regret marrying my current husband, and we also went through a lot of ups and downs and then got together, so we cherish it very much.
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Hello! I don't regret marrying your current husband after that, that's your own business, only you know, if you and your husband live a very happy and sweet life, they like each other, respect each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other, I think this is happy, and I won't regret it, but on the contrary, I regret it.
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