How to pursue the person you like

Don't be in a hurry, try to understand each other, and figure out whether the other party has a heart (this is really important, otherwise after working hard for a long time, I will be in a fog, and I don't know what's going on!!)

It's really necessary to find out whether he has a heart first, and then think about how to chase, create some chance encounters, and create more opportunities for you to be together, as the saying goes, the best thing is to let him see your sincerity, as long as he does not have a heart, sincerity, sincerity can move people the most, and the important thing is to show your charm and self-confidence. I wish you all together.

It doesn't matter if it's male or female, 1Do what he pleases and give him what he needs. Here's an example:

Give a birthday gift to someone you like, and if he is a real person, give him a daily necessities that he needs; If it's romantic, send flowers or something to make him happy. 2.Be brave, take the initiative, don't be afraid of failure, chasing is also a manifestation of self-worth.

Be sincere, be courageous, but not be in a hurry. Start with friends, keep in touch and don't be afraid to be cheeky. If it's a man, he should take the initiative.

1. Maintain self-confidence. A person's temperament and self-confidence can be seen through his face, a confident person gives people a very attractive feeling, don't think that the person who pursues first is inferior, you must have your own posture and attitude.

3. Don't ask the other party to give you a response, give the other party enough space, and don't be too anxious. Don't talk about what you did for her all day long just because you have paid so much, which will make the other person think that it is very uncomfortable and stressful.

4. It is best to find out the preferences of the other party and often send her some small gifts, which do not need to be particularly valuable, but to see your intentions. The surprises in ordinary life, as well as being treated with the other party's heart, are the places that can impress each other the most.

1. Find out whether the other party is single.

No matter how much you like someone, don't destroy other people's feelings for your own happiness, this is morally impermissible, and learn to give up when you learn that someone else has a partner, so that it is good for yourself and good for others.

2. Try to communicate with her and try to be friends with each other.

Start with the small things around you, stand up when the other party is in need, and you can usually make a ** joke from time to time, of course, if you are already acquainted, don't do it in an unfamiliar situation, because this will scare the other party away.

Give each other enough warmth, which refers to the warmth of the soul, listen quietly to each other when the other party is in a bad mood, and send some meaningful gifts as a friend when encountering some festivals.

3. Behavioral skills.

In the early stage, you have to care for her as a friend. Remember to bring an umbrella when you go out, if you happen to encounter a rainy day can come in handy, for boys generally do not bring umbrellas, if suddenly a boy gives another girl an umbrella, this girl will definitely be very moved.

In addition to sending an umbrella, there are actually many things that can make girls feel your love, and the most important thing is to warm your heart, such as sending flowers or chocolates on Valentine's Day, you can also confess at this time, creating a romantic environment will improve the success rate of the pursuit.

4. Thick skin.

Thick-skinned is also a very important trick, love can't be smooth sailing, and it won't always come naturally, so it's important to be thick-skinned.

When a woman doesn't like you and says a few words about you, if you are not thick-skinned, she may choose to leave directly, so you miss a lot of opportunities. When your relationship is good to a certain extent, you have to hold her hand boldly and naturally, and you can't refuse because of the eyes of others or the embarrassment of the other party, you don't dare.

It is normal for a woman to refuse and welcome, you must not only understand the meaning of her words, but also be cheeky to do it.

It should be easy for a girl to chase a boy, as long as the boy has no partner. Since you are already planning to chase a guy, you have to pay attention to your image from now on.

A good image can not only make you feel good, but also make a great impression on others. Makeup is a function that every girl should have, so from now on you have to dress up well, after all, boys like beautiful girls.

Secondly, if the boy really doesn't have a partner, then you take the initiative to talk to him. At first, don't be in a hurry to confess that you like him. If you say it directly, he may not accept it for a while, and he may even ignore you in the future, so you have to slowly make a good impression on him.

You can also find something else, in short, as long as you can talk about it and have the same topic, then you can talk to him often, and he may gradually like you.

I think there are two cases of scoring, one.

The one is the person you like, he likes you, and the other is the person you like, he doesn't like you, and the two different situations correspond to different methods.

It's a good thing to have someone you like, to pursue it according to the situation, recently I have worked so hard to move her and pursue her, I think many people as long as they pay sincerely, others will see it, no matter whether the result is good or bad, he will make it clear to you, in this way, at least he will not regret it.

If you want to pursue someone you like, we need to do the following.

Define your goals. First of all, you must determine the goal, that is, you have to know what type of opposite sex you like, and then in this type of opposite sex you need to find him you like, remember not to be half-hearted, don't pursue a person too casually, and don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, and pursue several people at the same time, and your own distraction will also make the person being chased sad, and when the time comes, none of them will succeed, and you will regret it.

Know his likes and dislikes.

Once you've decided on your goals, get to know him, what he likes, and what are his hobbies? What he hates, this step is very important, if you don't know him, if you do something that he hates, then you are out of play. Only by knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent can one not be defeated.

Do what you like and express yourself.

After understanding his likes and dislikes, you can do what he likes according to his likes and dislikes, for example, if he likes to have a pet, you can help him raise a pet he likes, and if he likes your pet, he will let you take it out to play more, so it will increase your chances of getting along, and for example, what he likes to eat, or what to eat without adding, pay more attention to details, and every bit of detail will make him very moved.

Be sure how he feels about you.

No one is perfect, although he has shown himself, but he may inadvertently find some shortcomings in you, then you need to jokingly ask him, "If I were to be my boyfriend and girlfriend, what shortcomings would I need to change?" Or if he inadvertently says something about you that you're not good enough, then remember it.

Finally, choose the right time to confess.

The timing of confession should also be well chosen, not arbitrary, if others have something on their minds, you go to confess, doesn't that make people more troubled? Whoever is in the mood to accept you at this time, so it is best when he is happy, when you are alone.

Everyone has their favorite object, but it is not so easy to make others like themselves, in the face of the person they like, sometimes they are so excited that they can't do anything, but love to say it loudly, don't be afraid, be bold. I hope you find the above points helpful.

Home, 1. The starting point of the initiative is to please yourself, not to please others;

2. Don't be affected by boys' emotions;

3. Take the initiative as a punch-in experience;

4. Know how to control the frequency, retract and release freely;

5. Love words can be spoken, and the meeting can be opened;

6. Active but high-profile.

7. Don't be too impatient and give her more time.

8. Pay attention to the sense of proportion and keep a proper distance.

9. Don't stalk the finch grip belt.

10, first get acquainted with him, and then talk about liking, the reason why many men fail to chase girls is not that they are not good enough, but that he did not let the other party understand him at all, did not fully show his charm and advantages, and confessed prematurely.

11. Please get her girlfriends, friends, and roommates around.

12. Prepare gifts for holidays and surprise her.

13. You have to make good use of your "eyes" and "limbs".

14. It's best to be strong when you ask a girl to come out.

15. Have a good mentality, it is normal to take the initiative not to respond or even be rejected in the early stage, so don't be discouraged by this mentality.

16. Pay attention to details and show your considerate gentlemanly side.

17. Even if you are chasing a goddess, don't be timid, be confident.

18. Pay attention to your appearance, even if you are not handsome.

<> love is beautiful, but it is actually not easy to find a lover who is good to you, and this has to be realized slowly. I once had a crush on a guy for three years, and I always felt that I was not good enough, and I confessed to him when I was better, and then I started to get better little by little. I waited a long time, until I felt that I was now ready to have the courage to stand in front of him, but before I could act, he stood in front of me.

He said that the way I worked hard made his heart move, he said that he liked me for a long time, and he said that he saw me working hard, and he wanted to work hard, otherwise he would not be worthy of me working so hard. At that moment, my mind directly became blank, and I was stunned for a long time, without speaking. He saw that I was stupid and didn't react, and thought I didn't like him, so he turned around and planned to leave after saying a word of interruption, but I didn't think about hugging him directly.

He was stupid, and he was stiffly held by me until I was embarrassed to let go of him. He looked at me, smiled, and then reached out and hugged me. His face was like a gray **, and suddenly it was dyed with color, and it was bright in an instant, and I think mine probably did too.

At that moment I really heard the sound of flowers blooming, it was my spring arrival.

There needs to be a process for pursuing the person you like:

1.First of all, before the most, you must first understand whether the other party is single? Do you have a partner or someone you like?

2.It is best to have mutual friends, so that you can get to know each other through mutual friends, which is very helpful for future development.

3.Choose a fixed time to contact during the day, everyone is busy with work and school, and you can choose to contact in the morning or evening.

4.Pay attention to the content of the chat, talk less about sensitive topics, and talk more about the hot topics that everyone is concerned about and the topics that the other party is interested in.

5.When you are cooked, you can make an invitation to come out for a meal together, watch movies, talk about life, and so on.

6.Be patient, and don't give up lightly because of some trivial things, which seems immature.

7.When the relationship between two people develops to a certain extent, you can choose to confess, and the success rate of confession depends on the degree of development of your relationship.

8.After a period of hard work, if the other party does not accept it, but refuses, at this time you must know how to let go and not hang yourself from a tree.

9.Since you have decided to let go, you might as well ask yourself directly what shortcomings led to the rejection, so that it can be changed in the future.

Pursue the person you like.

It also needs to be understood with heart.

For those who like it.

Have a topic and an understanding.

With your own inner thoughts.

Find ways to strengthen your relationship.

The love trilogy teaches you to chase love step by step.

First, keep improving yourself and let him notice your excellence.

If you bloom, butterflies will come. If you succeed and excel, you will naturally attract more people of the same kind and more excellent. There is no reason for a perfect person to refuse, and only if he is strong enough and good enough can he have the courage and qualification to love others.

On the one hand, we must constantly improve ourselves on the way, improve our ability step by step, become a perfect person, constantly break through ourselves, surpass ourselves, and realize the impossible. On the other hand, let the person you like notice your existence and know your affection and love for him, only then can you get his attention and make him fall in love with you slowly. If you like a person, you have to take the initiative first, how can we have a story if you don't take the initiative.

You have enough ability and strength, you have a wealth and knowledge, and you also have a strong enough heart and courage that it is actually easy for him to fall in love with you.

Second, do what they like and get to know each other.

Only by fully understanding each other's hobbies and interests can we find a lot of common ground, resonate and sympathize with each other. Doing what they like is not about being courteous and sophisticated, but about strategically considering the needs of the other party. Use the fastest method and shortcut to achieve your desired result.

It's okay to do what you like, but you can't deliberately please them. You deliberately try to please him will only put you in a passive position, any relationship or friend heterosexual relationship is equal, will not deliberately please him, even if you love each other again, you must let yourself have a bottom line and principles, so as not to lose the courage to continue.

Third, be patient and balanced.

No matter what kind of person you are, if you lose patience, it is like losing your soul. The most indispensable thing to pursue a person is patience, what is too easy to get is often not cherished enough, only those things that have experienced a lot of setbacks and tribulations can make you impressed enough to value and cherish. This principle also applies to love, love a don't be afraid to consume your patience, stay until the end is good, wait slowly, slowly use your sincerity and your own practical actions to influence him, the effect may be twice the result with half the effort.

In the process of your pursuit of true love, you may encounter setbacks and difficulties, don't give up, keep a good attitude, put your mind in balance, and good luck will come to you.

Love is mutual, you love him, let him know that he is worthy of his heart, he is moved by your actions or fall in love with you at first sight is natural and lucky. We spend our whole lives searching for love and the meaning of love, but we don't know that love is all around us and at our feet.