Why is it so hard for me to forget the person I like?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Forgetting is harder than falling in love, let's be honest, it's impossible to forget, never forget, but time will dilute your pain, don't think too much, don't carve to think, let it be, there is no way to forget, the so-called method can only make you more painful, if you deliberately find a way to forget, it will really be more painful. Bury her in your heart. Let time forget everything, you are a thinking person, you have truly loved someone, it is impossible to forget it.

    It's like a girl asks her boyfriend, do you still miss your former girlfriend, if you say you think, you will be angry, if you say you don't want to, then you think, if one day, you also break up, and he also tells her girlfriend that he doesn't want to, what will you think. Loving someone is something you can never forget.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, because you want to forget, but you are thinking about him, so you study hard! Slowly a miracle will happen! ~

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There's no way to forget it so quickly.,I'm breaking up with my girlfriend now.,I know it's impossible to be together, but I still like her.,Time.。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Explain that you have paid for yourself, and it is his fault that he does not understand the cherishing. Don't force yourself to forget. After all, you're in a class, and it's impossible to forget so quickly take your time and tell yourself.

    He doesn't deserve your liking. Slowly. Let time work out everything, don't force yourself to forget, look at it lightly

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Use time to dilute memories, nothing will last forever!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Study hard. Restrain your emotions. It is manifested as coldness, and after a long time, it is forgotten.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not necessary, it's okay not to forget, fight for it. Maybe he doesn't love him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can't forget it, you don't have to forget it, just let it be.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can't easily forget someone you really like, trust in time!

    Really, you will meet real princes in the future.

    If you like him, bless him. Bless yourself at the same time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can do things that you wanted to do but didn't, spend more time with your friends, buy groceries, and go shopping. In spring, you can go on an outing and enjoy your life. Say to yourself:

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What is unforgettable is not the person you like, but the simple and innocent self that treated the feelings back then, it was when she appeared in your most true and innocent, the most warm, and the most sincere, that was the first time you loved someone purely without considering the pros and cons, and the first time you blushed and heartbeat to a person, and people couldn't help but miss it, that was your youth.

    She occupies your youth, the sun that illuminates your bleak years, and the misty moonlight when you are sad and cowardly, the only irreplaceable time, no matter how many years have passed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The solution to always think uncontrollably about a person is as follows:

    1. Think about that person's shortcomings.

    If you want to keep yourself from missing a person, the measure you can take in this case is to think about the shortcomings of the celery person, and at the same time constantly strengthen this shortcoming in your own mind, so that such shortcomings will continue to magnify, so that you will constantly give yourself psychological hints that he is not good, and after a long time, the frequency of missing this person will decrease a lot.

    If you want to keep yourself from missing someone, the measure you can take in this case is to inject more energy into the work, when you put most of your energy into work, at this time you will keep yourself busy, once the work occupies the brain, then you have no time to think about other things, and there is no extra space to miss someone.

    3. Let the miss go through time.

    If you want to keep yourself from missing someone, the measure you can take in this case is to let the miss go by over time, in the process, you don't have to care if you miss the person, just take some time and slowly dilute this kind of missing, the longer the time, the lighter this kind of missing will be, and slowly you will become less missful of someone.

    4. Find your next love.

    If you want to keep yourself from missing someone, in this case, first calm your heart for a while, after calming down, and then slowly try to find the next love, when you find a person you like again, slowly you will put more energy and more thoughts on another person, after a long time, you will no longer miss the previous person.

    5. Let your friends help you forget.

    If you want to keep yourself from missing a person, the measure you can take in this case is to let the friends around you help you forget, when you are separated from this person, you can tell your friends about your separation, and then tell your friends by the way, no matter when you don't mention each other, friends in the process of interacting with you, they will tacitly not mention each other, and slowly the friends around you don't mention him, which invisibly cuts off the connection between you and the other party, and the frequency of missing will become lower and lower.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I actually just liked that person, and I thought about forgetting him, but I didn't know what to do.

    One is forgetting, one is redeeming, and the other is growing, do you want to do it?

    I want to forget. Well, well, it's good, the teacher can help you. Now you can talk more, and the teacher will help you solve your doubts and go out.

    I don't know what to say, but it's a torment for me, and I can't forget it.

    Well, the teacher understands you, and if you want to redeem it, you have to be yourself again, solve the past contradictions, and let him see that you are different from the past, so that you can redeem it.

    If you want to redeem it, it's one way, and if you want to forget it, it's another way, and you see what you think now.

    Think about what your contradictions are, what he needs, what you want yourself, what are your dissatisfaction with him?

    If you want to recover, you have to solve the problem, do you understand? Want to talk more about the problems among you?

    But he usually ignores me and only chats with others, anyway, this feeling slowly fades, I just want to see him, and I don't know why I just want to pay attention to him silently.

    This situation shows that you have not forgotten him, you yourself can't go out now, you can't do anything else, and he has another way.

    So what to do. My dear, take a good look at the text I posted above, it's these few paths and see how to choose. In addition, you can do a voice consultation with me and sort it out for you to see if you need it.

    That's not necessary. Well, you choose for yourself, just three paths, think for yourself. No matter what, you have to go out, you can't always make yourself very uncomfortable and depressed like this, you have to think about what is best for yourself.

    All right. The teacher wants you to think about it more, the most important thing for girls is to grow, get out of this state, take yourself as the center, live a good life, when you have changed everything for the better, maybe people will be curious about how you have changed, and will come to you<>

    Teacher <> has helped many girls, and they have all come out of the predicament, and they are living a very glorious life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is such a thing in the world called pain and memory.

    People go through a lot of unpleasant and sad times.

    There will be a lot of memories left in my heart.

    People are more eager to sell such a drug in the world.

    Eating can make people forget the past and start over.

    Maybe humans are too stupid.

    This kind of thinking can only exist in the heart.

    And how can you get out of the shadow of the past?

    Maybe there's only time.

    Can time really ** trauma to the soul? Can it really erase sad memories?

    Maybe not.

    Actually, it's more important.

    It's up to you.

    Do you want to open it yourself.

    Do you put it down yourself.

    After thinking about it.

    Put down all before.

    Can you? First love is the first step in life to grow up.

    It seems tough.

    If you did.

    Maybe it really worked.

    Walked out. Tell yourself.

    Even if it's for yourself.

    Be sure to get out there.

    Get out of this circle.

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