How did my parents and boyfriend choose to help me?

I think I will face the same problems as you in the future, you can refer to my thoughts, you first stabilize your family, let them believe that you are very happy, I believe that the family wants you to live a worry-free life, but in the end they all hope that you can be happy, tell your family, you understand their good intentions, and then tell your parents the advantages of your boyfriend, if your boyfriend really loves you, let him meet your parents, I believe that at that time the boyfriend will say his ambitions in front of your parents and prove his ability, Even if your parents don't agree at that time, you still choose your boyfriend, your parents will have some peace in their hearts, you know, you choose, you have to be responsible for yourself, live well with your boyfriend, no matter what your relationship with your parents is because of this, you have to bring your happiness to your home, to your parents. If you feel unfortunate in your life in the future, don't bring it to your parents or blame anyone.

We are all about the same, my boyfriend's family is not very wealthy, but he loves me very much, I am very secure, very ambitious, and he is also a filial son. I don't think the filial son's character will be bad no matter how bad it is.

Love is a matter between two people, and no one can stop it.

Choose love, to be honest, I think I will also face such a problem, but I don't dare to tell my parents, but I am still very determined, even if I encounter such a problem, I will not hesitate to insist on love.

Listen to your parents, otherwise the chances of you regretting it with such a man are too great, he chooses to listen to his parents, why don't you listen?

If you can't give up your parents for you, why should you?

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you. You'll regret it later. After all, they are from the past.

1. Be kind to them.

You must have a very good attitude towards your parents, keeping in mind that they may be angry with you, anxious, or even slap the table and shed tears at you, and you need to be fully prepared and maintain a good attitude.

Second, keep acknowledging their views first.

It's like "playing", you have to let them "hit" first, and then you "hit" back, you can't always "attack". So the first thing you have to do is to recognize and understand their love for you and their concern for you: "Mom, if I were you, my children would not get married, and I would be very worried.

I understand you very well, you must be under a lot of pressure. "Mom will feel warm.

3. Analyze the needs.

The biggest reason why your parents are urging you to get married is that you didn't solve the matter at the right time. Your need is that I want to find someone I like to marry. In fact, the biggest disagreement between us and our parents is at the point in time.

Fourth, think about what you want to say and the reasons for it.

On why he hasn't gotten married yet, and even some about "life". You have to let your parents understand that you have a plan and consideration for your life, and that you are treating your life with an adult and mature attitude. If you live like a child, you have to ask your parents for advice on what friends you make and what clothes you wear, and they will never listen to you when you discuss marriage with your parents.

You need to be very well prepared, both verbally and behaviorally. The behavioral preparation is that you have to be very mature in everything from now on, and not only in the matter of communicating with them about whether to get married, but suddenly mature, which your parents can't accept. We live in a different era than theirs, which has become very fast, so we are facing a lot of uncertainty, so we are moving much slower.

You see who and who, and who and who, they have been married for a year and then divorced. You don't want me to divorce in the future, you want me to be happy. If you want me to be happy, let me find my happiness slowly, and I believe I can find the happiness I want.

In fact, in the eyes of parents, their children are very good, so they will trust you. )

I want to be in your boyfriend and family members to choose to state that your boyfriend and your family are not coming. To take the wine, you should choose the Gari because that is your forever loved one.

The family bar is related by blood.

You ask your parents, will my boyfriend spend your life with you or with me? How easy is that! Parents may want to be good for you, but they feel good for you, but not necessarily for you.

Do you understand? Since you love him, don't regret it. The choice is yours!

If a good man misses it, he won't be there, and even if he finds a good one, it's not him, because everyone is unique! Parents will eventually forgive you. It's just up to you to see if your choice can work for you!

I don't know what love is all my life, because you haven't experienced it! Sad

It's basically the same situation as you, but I chose to go to another city to be with my boyfriend, and my parents still couldn't accept it. I understand my parents' thoughts, it is really difficult to live without a car and a house these days, and I also feel hard when I think of the financial pressure I will face in the future. But after all, feelings are to be cherished, as long as you love and don't regret it, don't regret not loving it.

There will always be a house, but if the lover misses it, there will be no more. I wish you happiness and hope you have a good communication with your parents.

...Hello, first of all, I think your parents' point of view is wrong! How old are you and your boyfriend?

But 27! 27, if you want to have a house and a car, you go and ask your parents, is it realistic? It's hard to have a house and a car at the age of 27 on your own, except for the rich second generation!

So first of all, you have to put your parents in the right mindset, the peak of a man's career is at the age of 35 or 40! You want them to value your boyfriend's potential! You should talk to them properly.

If you love your boyfriend and think he loves you too, then don't let go! Boyfriend, husband is the one who will accompany you for a lifetime! Mom and Dad's intentions are good, your family's economy should be good, right?

They are afraid that you are used to a good life, and they are afraid that you are not used to it! But you should be brave, you have to leave the arms of your parents. And if your boyfriend really loves you, he will also work hard for you!

So you have to tell your parents well, don't doubt yourself and doubt love.

Every parent thinks twice for the good of their children.

Your problem will be encountered by many people as well! Grind slowly!

Choose parents, boyfriend is not husband, there is no shortage of boyfriends in this world, there is no fragrant skin and grass digging at the end of the world, but there is only one parent. It may hurt when you lose your boyfriend, but how long can it hurt, and losing your parents is a lifelong thing. Filial piety comes first, and the two have to choose their parents if they don't have to choose.

Love in the world is always the father and mother, love, it is indeed easy for us to lose ourselves, it is indeed easy to make people excited and happy, but that is not the whole of life, falling out of love is painful, the past will always pass, the feast disturbs the past, and you will meet better.

In fact, you already have the answer in your own heart, don't you, if it is really worth your efforts, you will not ask here.

If he insists, you have to choose between him and your parents. Then you should give up on him!

Because, in marriage and love, a person who does not have filial piety and does not know how to respect and honor each other's parents must be very selfish! In this way, he will definitely not love you with all his heart and care for you in the future. Love without true affection can only be a tragedy!

However, if it is your parents who want you to make a choice. You're going to have to think about it:

1.You must not choose to leave your parents. Because, without the support of your parents, love cannot make you happy!

2.If you think your boyfriend is good, it's just that your parents misunderstood him. Then as long as you conscientiously do the ideological work of your parents, all problems will be solved!

I think you should choose your parents, after all, no matter what you encounter, your parents have to take care of you, but your boyfriend is different, now many men are either playing with their mouths, or they don't eat soft rice, or they have a picture of the door, but this kind of man is very good at acting knives, very good at acting, general girls, especially young girls can't see it at all, but the critical moment is unreliable, even if it is a husband and wife, there is a saying called "husband and wife are like birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes". Girls, especially those who don't have to worry about food and clothing, can't experience it at all. Therefore, my advice is to listen to your parents, because your parents will definitely not harm you and will not perform in front of you.

The second is because your parents have experienced a lot of things, and they have seen many more people than you, and they know what men are reliable and what men are unreliable. There is an example around me of a girl who did not listen to her parents' insistence on getting married, and as a result, all the words of her parents came true after marriage, and she was forced to divorce!!

Well, girls choose their parents, and my two girlfriends are ......Hehe.

Parents can't be changed, but boyfriends can be found again?