How to be a smart person in interpersonal communication. What should I do, 20 year old boy.

Your personality is honestly not very good, especially when it comes to holding grudges.

It is said that laughing and hating proves that laughing more is more helpful for interpersonal communication.

If you're not too concerned about communication, laugh more.

It is better to envy others than to be yourself, and a confident person is a smart person.

Chivalry is cool rather than fateful, and the reason why they are chivalrous is because of kindness.

If you want to improve your relationships, be yourself, be confident, love to laugh, and be kind is a must.

Other problems depend on yourself, and it is best to change them!

You know that you can't fix it, do you?

You write this just to express your depressed mood and then give yourself a determination ...

Actually, you've thought about it for a long time, haven't you?

I just don't know how to do it ...

Friends, you have to start with the details, know people and make good use of them, and you must be able to say everything in the scene, to put it bluntly: you must be able to say things, and you must be able to do things! Greet each other with a smile, at least a smile, why don't people keep a straight face, right?

Let's take a few quick steps. First: When communicating with girls, tone, quick response, etc. are very necessary, and I personally even have strict requirements for the voice How can it be so simple to be a heartthrob (don't get me wrong, I don't have a hobby of chasing girls) Second:

You have to lower your posture and think about the consequences of everything you do (I also learned from it after a hundred battles, I hope you don't follow in my footsteps); Third, you can take some vitamin B tablets, the latest scientific research, vitamin B is good for controlling emotions In fact, I pay a lot of attention to this aspect, I have been determined to be a heartthrob since I was a freshman in high school, and I have been struggling for many years What questions do you have to ask.

Have you ever watched Sherlock? He doesn't trust his eyes, his feelings, his emotions. Trust only in your own knowledge and judgment of yourself and things.

Even though he saw a big monster with his own eyes and made him tremble with fear, he still didn't believe that there was a monster, thinking that someone had done something to him. A person who is not affected by any external influence, including his own emotions, is a smart person.

Do things in a measured way, know what to do and what not to do, in short, you can do what you can do well.

Because he doesn't like others to be smarter than him.

Boys are generally better and stronger, and of course they want to be better than others.

Boys always like to protect her, and if women are strong and men are weak, they will have low self-esteem.

It's hard to get confused! Smart people love to be more serious.

Look at the boys and girls, if the girls are still stupid, it would be better

Is this an excuse for not being liked, it's too unwise?

How did you come to this conclusion, I would like to know.

The person who is disliked may read a lot of books, but his mind is not necessarily really smart.

There was a little boy, one day his mother took him to the grocery store to buy something, and the owner saw this cute child, so he opened a jar of candy and asked the little boy to take a handful of candy himself. But the boy didn't make any moves. After several invitations, the boss personally grabbed a large handful of candy and put it in his pocket.

And the boss's hands are bigger, so he must have taken a lot more than I did! ”

Revelation: This is a smart child who knows his limitations, and more importantly, he also knows that others are better than himself. Learning to rely on others at the right time is a kind of humility and a kind of wisdom.

The physiognomy is very mature and weather-beaten.

He doesn't look smart, his brows are tightly locked, the corners of his mouth are drooping, he has constant troubles all year round, his life is bumpy, he lacks care, he lacks love, and he is not happy.

As a result of years of suffering, his will will will be sharpened and his character will become deep.

Looks a little old, doesn't look like 28, doesn't feel lively, doesn't look stupid.

Wow... This person looks like an uncle in his 30s... See the old ... It also looks like the kind of calculating...

Then take care of it properly, and don't make yourself unhappy because of something.

1 Accept the facts and maintain an optimistic attitudeFirst of all, if you are excluded, you will definitely feel uncomfortable. However, in the spirit of "being a man, the most important thing is to be happy!" We still have to be optimistic, be strong, and not be pessimistic, disappointed, or even depressed because we have been excluded.

You should have the courage to face the situation, accept this fact, and then do not complain about others and do not shift the blame to your colleagues.

2. Self-reflection, first find the reason from yourself, understand the reason for exclusion in time, and not ignore it. First of all, you are in the company, you can't have a friend who can talk, you can learn from him what everyone thinks of you, and reflect on your usual performance. Or when communicating and cooperating with colleagues, do you have something that you don't do well, something that everyone is not used to, and then try to correct it.

Secondly, if it is a personal personality problem, it is more withdrawn, love to be alone, when colleagues encounter things such as: happy events, celebrations, etc., they generally do not participate, if so, then colleagues will think that you are not very social, will naturally alienate you, not really exclude you, it is you yourself isolated. If so, in order to make work and play more enjoyable with your friends in the future, please become a little more lively, talk more, smile more, and walk around with your colleagues more (it's really not that difficult).

3 Be a low-key person and do things If you realize that you are being excluded, then please try to keep a low profile when you usually do things and work with colleagues, put away your arrogance, strength, and domineering, and you can't be arrogant, always think that you are capable, look down on others, you look down on them, and people still look down on you, why bother? So, if you are usually easy-going, modest, smile more, and help others, you will naturally not be excluded by your colleagues.

4 Colleagues are jealous of their own too good, what to do because they are too good and are excluded by colleagues, because such people often give you a feeling of being in a high place, "ordinary people" are not very close to it, if this is the reason, it happens that you also want to mingle with colleagues, please have something to do and talk to colleagues about your life status, so that everyone knows what a down-to-earth you look like, you can also share your successes and failures, let everyone know that you are also an "ordinary person", In this way, they will not be excluded by envy.

5. Ensure that your work is not affected, no matter what reason you are excluded, please "endure the pain" and do not affect your work, because the work is your own, and you can't resign because you can't stand it because you are excluded, which may be the result that your colleagues want. If you are excluded, you have to work harder, let the leader or boss see your efforts, as long as you don't get fired, and then slowly solve the situation of being excluded, if you lose your job, everything you say is in vain. Of course, if you are capable enough to do your job perfectly without having to look at anyone's face, then you can completely ignore those who exclude you.

Care about colleagues, don't be too careful, treat them with care.