Please tell us about this relationship with me

It may not be fully trusted in you yet.

Or a lack of security.

I can't open my heart to you yet.

Waited patiently.

Flowers bloom sooner or later.

I'm in a similar situation to you now, my girlfriend is also talking for the first time, we've been together for almost five months, and I'm willing to let me hug it, and I told her to take her to meet my parents, she was also very happy and agreed, but she just didn't want me to kiss, asked her why, she said she had to test me =,=||I was a little confused at first, but now I have figured it out: girls may think a little more about things when they talk for the first time, more cautiously and seriously. So you don't have to be in a hurry, a lot of things can't be rushed, you have to remember this "naturally", just give your girlfriend a little time, she will fully accept you.

Support upstairs. It's normal for girls to be passive and shy. I was also at a loss.

Four months is not a short time for a pair of lovers. It can be said that there is nothing to talk about. "There is a contradiction with the following.

Ha ha... Love... It was originally men who took the initiative over women...

Say more nice tricks. Care more, care is not fake, you must be sincere and sincere, and accompany her more. Feelings are to be cultivated ...

If you have a relationship problem, it only means that you are not serious enough. Or you don't have faith in the relationship ... Try to kiss you intentionally or unintentionally when you're having a good time together...

Maybe you're a little too hasty about love, is four months a long time? What about me, what's my name? 8 years of relationship has not changed, now my child is 4 years old, we are still like this, maybe this girl is doing the right thing, but you are too much to pursue the surface, maybe you have a gap, and you can't get along

In real life, I am your character, my husband plays the role of your girlfriend, you want me to be a woman in the face of such a man, what will I think, if it is like what you said, I will not break up early, maybe it will hurt me more

No matter how far you talk about love, you have to distinguish clearly, there is a certain gap between love and real life You will slowly find out later

You have to look for the problem within yourself first. See if you've really been single-minded with her. She may not trust you very much.

You also say she's an introverted girl. So you have to be more proactive. And you know, bland is also a kind of happiness.

Maybe that's what she likes.

Four months is not a long time, and one should not make rash decisions about one's life events. So you're going to have to hold on for a while.

Looking at it a year later, it's really not going to work.

PS: Or be separated for a while to see how she reflects.

I'm a girl.

It's really similar to your girlfriend But we're dating online I've been scared of life since I was a child, especially in the face of the person I like I don't talk much I don't talk much I don't know why I don't want to talk very much, even if I understand that every opportunity to meet is difficult I just want to look at him silently. Personality issues.

It's also possible that your girlfriend doesn't like you, but wants to be in an affair with you, because she hasn't figured out whether she likes you or not, whether she loves you or not.

Raw rice is cooked and cooked, and besides, she may not be very happy with you.

I feel that she doesn't like you very much, maybe there are some problems between you, you can talk to her well, if not, break up, don't waste feelings and time.

What is affection? I ask the heavens, I ask the earth;

What is affection? Who answered for me.

Feelings are a glass of wine, mellow and intoxicating; Affection is a cup of weak tea, fragrant and charming; Feelings are a glass of boiled water without any taste, leaving clear memories in the depths of the heart. Feelings, what are you? Let me be crazy for you, crazy for you, cry for you, laugh for you;

What is affection? Heaven you.

Affection is the bond that binds all living things. It is a kind of yearning and admiration for beautiful things; It is an important part of life; Feelings are innate, and how pale is a life without feelings; How monotonous life is without feelings; Affection is the source of joy in life.

To be fortunate enough to be a human being is already a great gift from God to us in this life. Human feelings are the most complex and concise, like fog, rain and wind......

Feelings are like the wind. The gentle breeze wipes my forehead ambiguously, bringing me a little coolness and comfort, gently tearing the negative of my heart, emotions are slowly penetrating, no matter day and night, enjoy this unique feeling in the wind, and it is not in vain to turn in the years of feelings.

Feelings are like rain. The silky friendship often makes people intoxicated and nostalgic. Like a pearl left in the heart. "Keep cutting, rationalize and mess" is the best interpretation of feelings.

Feelings are like the fog before the morning light.

Confused, hazy. I can't tell the definition of friendship, love, and family affection. Friendship will rise to love after a long time, and love will evolve into family affection when it is stalled.

And so on. so attached; If there is nothing, this kind of feeling is like the morning fog frozen, melted, dispersed, and clear; Thickened, gathered, drunk;

Reason is the backbone of life, and feelings are the driving force of life. With only the backbone and no motivation, life will inevitably become rigid and rigid.

In addition to love, friendship, and affection, the appreciation of all good things is also particularly important.

Feelings need to be understood by two people, and everyone has a good side and a bad side.

You said that you would feel distressed when you saw her crying, and that was because you loved her, and since you loved her so much, she loved you so much. Why don't you just talk to her? You can tell her we're going to the gym together!

You can directly say that you wear high heels every day when you go out in the future. Of course, these are all just jokes.

Those thoughts of yours are normal, everyone has that thought, as long as you love her the most, only love her, what do you have to blame yourself?

I'm sure she's in a lot of trouble right now, right? Look at you every day is sullen. You should be happy to bring your happiness to the people you love.

I used to have a girl who loved me so much, and then left me.

Cherish it when you have it now, and don't regret it when you lose it. Now your afflictions should be called, (happy afflictions)!

At the end of the day, it's actually you yourself who don't really see a problem clearly. The opinion of your parents who love her and what you love her is not the most important thing, because you are the one who will live with her for the rest of your life. Everyone has vanity, and the words of friends will have a great impact, but just because of this, can it affect the relationship between you?

Or do you have something else in mind?

A sincere relationship is difficult to cultivate, and if love is real, I hope you can redeem it.

Are you still an "adult" man?

Only milk dolls care about their parents, because parents are jobs, you are an adult, do you need to be raised by your parents?

What do you mean by "not finding a parent to be happy with"? — If you don't have this thunder in your heart, you don't mind what they say.

First of all, you have to think about whether you want to find a wife who is socially regulated or find a wife who is in line with your own requirements.

Human beings pursue good DNA to reproduce offspring, and you pursue the appearance so much because you want the offspring to be perfect, consider whether you want your child to have this woman's heart or another woman's appearance, it's time to grow up from this trade-off.

I think too, you cherish it. What if you find someone with a good figure and doesn't love you. In fact, there is a seven-year itch when you get married.

Men, it's always a bit of a fantasy. I'm in shape, 165Not fat, not thin, with big breasts.

When I was with my boyfriend, it was a big recess, and I would find a place, the two of us, but in the end he was still with the woman, very thin, almost no breasts. That's feelings. Love has nothing to do with body.

You think about it ...

It's not that you don't love her, but you're afraid of marriage. If you find a good body, you will have other troubles. Fear of marriage is that even if she has the habit of eating gum, you will feel that it is scary to watch her eat gum for the rest of your life.

I don't think you're ready to get married, you still have a lot to expect from life, and your current state is not very stable. Tell her and give you some time to figure it out. Go single for a while, see what you want, and then love.

Usually when we think there is a problem, there is a big problem, and if we don't figure it out now, it will be more troublesome later. that is called butterfly effect.Be happy.

You can see between the lines that you are a very good young man, what you said is not bad at all, when there is a shadow in your heart, it is lingering, it may lay the groundwork for the future, it is recommended that you calm down and think about it calmly, weigh the pros and cons, and hope you have a beautiful and perfect future.

I didn't say it to my face, maybe it was because of shyness, and I used a new relationship to make up for the damage of the last time. It's only going to hurt more and more.

It's a third party to each other, but how to say it, it can also be said to be a friend, a confidante with a blue face, a confidante with a red face, a confidant can also be like this, if you don't want to ruin her current life, don't get close, it's good for her and for you.

Life is actually accompanied by a feeling, and if you don't feel it, you'll have nothing. Heart-to-heart communication is a kind of artistic conception, heart-to-heart is a kind of concern, soul is not home, soul haunting dreams is a kind of happiness, not only wonderful beauty and sweet words can be reached, it is a kind of special smell, meaning, charm in mutual understanding of the penetration and fusion. The feeling in the world is so strange and inexplicable.

There are some things that are missed, and they are missed for a lifetime. People are changeable, and they can't keep an unchanging promise, but they can't keep a fickle heart. Sometimes attachment is a burden, giving up is a kind of relief, people are not perfect, happiness is not a hundred points, knowing that you don't have the ability to have so much at one time, and you don't have the power to ask for so much, otherwise you will suffer yourself and the other party.

Count as a third party, it's better to miss each other. Don't spoil the happiness of others for your own selfish desires. Grasping your own happiness in the moment is the right way.

Have you thought about it? Why didn't she let you go, does love still have a nature??? Love needs to be paid, are you willing to pay for him?

Is she willing to pay for you? If you are really willing to give for each other, that is true love. At that time, you are not a third party, but a real lover, and everything will be solved if you figure it out.

Personally, I don't feel like he has feelings for you, or he doesn't have deep feelings. (Personal feelings are not the answer, only you know) (

The feelings of the student days are the truest and purest, and there is no right or wrong in the feelings!

It's just that as a husband and a father, the responsibility on your shoulders will make this relationship extremely heavy!

Whether we can truly be affectionate and polite is the most severe test of human nature!

Alas! Big brother, I won't give you a long speech, what the above people said makes sense, you are also in pain now, and your heart is very confused. Be quiet, take a day to figure it out for yourself, I think you should have a result in your heart.

Alas, fireworks in the United States are only a fleeting moment, and reality is always painful, why!

In fact, you still have the same relationship as you do now.

Because after all, you both liked each other at the beginning, and now you have a family and are very happy, but you have some regrets about your original relationship.

I believe that time can restore everything, don't go in and go down.

What you can't get is the best, and you have to be responsible for your current family, and you can't just live for yourself.

Enough is enough... Don't get out of control on the spur of the moment...

The only way. Take control of yourself.

Forehead. I'm just here to do the task.

Waiting for four years is not a question of trust or distrust, it is a matter of people who will change. One of my classmates, she was a girl, in junior high school, she liked a boy, and then, waited for him for ten years. Ten years.

She refused to pursue again and again, and only loved that boy in her heart. But that man, in the past ten years, has been in a relationship with a girl for five years, and then broke up for various reasons. After that, I talked about another one, and I felt dissatisfied, so I found her again.

They are now together and can't find a topic. Although the man cares about him a lot. Scold.

If you care about someone, everyone will. It doesn't matter if you love it or not. Her greatest wish is to marry that man, but in fact, she can't mind his past.

She also plans to get married, have children, and live alone. It's stupid, just for the sake of the so-called fame. Waiting, vows, it's all a lie, just like me, I talked to her for four years, we were engaged for three years, and I never dreamed that she would leave me.

Love can't stand the test of time the most. Placing happiness in fantasy hope is not as realistic as reality.

Bless you, I'm talking about love in reality, not looking for love to measure by material. Don't get confused.