After the age of the first love, how can you have the ignorant love when you were young?

The beginning of love, that is to say, at that age, we don't know much about love, and even say that it is a blank, so when expressing love, it will seem very ignorant, very simple, and even very naïve.

So after that age, if we still want to have the ignorant love of our youth, we have to grasp a few points.

First, we can't change our age, so we can change our state, we have to adjust ourselves to the state like when we were young or when we first fell in love, strengthen our curiosity about things, and the strong fantasy about the development of things, or a kind of imagination If this state is too abstract, then we can go to the campus more, for example, middle school, around the campus, stay with middle school students more, you can, adjust this state.

Second, don't form a strong reflex in your mind about your existing emotional experiences or hearsay about other people's emotional experiences.

Love is a kind of ability, it is an art, and only by mastering the art of love can we have the ability to love. in order to properly handle the relationship. When you are young, you are in a dependent relationship, approaching others easily, fearing intimacy and trusting others.

Suspicious of love. Perceive others as unreliable or overly eager to make a commitment to love.

I think that since I have reached the age, I should cherish it and enjoy the ignorance of my love. The feelings at this time are irreplaceable at any time.

After the age of the beginning of love, it is more difficult to have the ignorant love when you were young, and the adult world is more realistic, so it is impossible to have the love when you were ignorant.

You can try to understand the beauty of others, and after discovering some of the advantages of others with the eyes of beauty, you can learn by yourself and slowly accept and understand others.

We must maintain a loving heart, find more beauty in life, make our social circle pureer, keep a clean heart, and less fame and fortune.

Billions of suns, on shattered mirrors. Are we young people separating our hearts for one?

At the concert site, I often see fans cheering for their favorite stars; In a café, you can also see several pairs of young people on blind dates; Also on the street, you can also see girls stopping for handsome guys ......The behavior that can be seen everywhere is like watching a group of creatures with only appearances. How? Fall at a glance, can you live with Fan Nian for the rest of your life in the future?

I can often hear adults say that a certain girl is in early love, stealing the forbidden fruit, ruining her life, and don't forget to remind me after speaking: "I'll tell you, girls must have self-respect and self-love, early love must not be allowed!" "To get, to get.

I replied with my limbs high, and I felt sorry for those girls in my heart. Think about it, if that boy really likes you, he won't do anything to hurt you. You don't have to like it to be together, and working together is the most important thing!

In fact, I have also had a time when I was attracted to boys, especially in adolescence, when I was in love, I also began to love beauty, and I always like to show my most perfect side in front of boys. I also often imagine that my future boyfriend must be very handsome, he must be considerate to me, and he will definitely stick with me for the rest of his life. Every time I think about it, I feel like there are tens of thousands of fireworks in my heart, dazzling, just like my future life, definitely!

But at that time, I didn't think about early love, and now the boys are crooked and cracked, do they deserve it? Girls can be wild and don't love it, but you have to love yourself! I don't think there's anything embarrassing to say it, it's a normal physiological phenomenon, as long as you treat it correctly and learn to say no, you will meet a better one.

Usually when I encounter this situation, I will confide in my mother, my mother generally enlightens me, will not let me have illusions, but will not hurt my self-esteem: "Daughter, mother told you, in the future you will meet more and more people who favor you, you have to learn to get used to this feeling, continue to improve your value, don't be a vase that can only be seen, okay?" ”

I think my mom is right, the mirror is broken, the sun is still there, there is only one, I want the best! I want all girls to protect themselves at this age when they are in love.

High Heels Lyrics: Xu Liang.

Composer: Xu Liang.

Singing: Xu Liang.

You're smoking a cigarette.

Quietly sit by the window in the back row of the coffee shop.

Talking and laughing.

It reveals a gentle temperament and ability.

Black heels.

It is a label that longs for love.

Talking and laughing.

Talked about a few paragraphs from the past.

Say goodbye to the age when love first opened.

conforms to the calm joy and sorrow.

The girl in the ponytail wore a trench coat with a double row of buttons.

Accustomed to being strong and deliberate when weak.

Accustomed to being involuntarily.

Even the most heartwarming encounters are unfazed.

You extinguish the cigarette.

There is no fear of talking about the past.

You have no regrets.

Nor are far-fetched rose petals.

Mostly taken for granted.

Often unwilling.

And believe in women and good men.

It's just a matter of going with the flow.

Say goodbye to the age when love first opened.

conforms to the calm joy and sorrow.

The girl in the ponytail wore a trench coat with a double row of buttons.

Accustomed to being strong and deliberate when weak.

Accustomed to being involuntarily.

Even the most heartwarming encounters are unfazed.

Say goodbye to the age when love first opened.

conforms to the calm joy and sorrow.

The girl in the ponytail wore a trench coat with a double row of buttons.

Get used to comforting yourself when you lose.

Accustomed to taking the blame.

The love that should be close at hand is not easy.

The love that should be close at hand is not easy.

Now, he's enjoying his youth wantonly. And so am I. The haze at the beginning has been buried in the bottom of my heart, condensed into a mint-flavored sugar, crystal clear, cool, and sweet

It was the first time I taught people to give up, and I also understood that it is enough to have such a long life and have beautiful memories worth recalling.

Don't expect it to last forever, because the initial feelings will be worn out by the future life and reality, and in the end, even the sweetness of memories will be gone. But now, he must be very happy living in an ivory tower, and I will not pay too much attention to how his life is, just to go with the flow and be well. "In the world, it snows for everyone, and everyone has its own obscurity and purity."

"It's like I liked a senior in high school at the beginning, and secretly went upstairs to the basketball court to the corridor to look at all the places he was in between classes, which was the purest emotion when he was young and ignorant. “This kind of beauty has nothing to do with him now, what he cares about is the kind of years and haze that can't be returned, and he has also become the cinnabar mole and white moonlight in his memory. I only hope that Bai Yueguang and cinnabar moles will always be happy and happy, which is not only what they are in their memory, but also what they are now.

What we pursue is never going back and what we can't get. He (she) is very good now, then, it is already very good, go and really pursue your own life, and when it is difficult, taste the original sweetness. I'm trying to enjoy my life now, and no matter what, I still have to live what I want to live as I want to be human, so that this life will not be in vain.

I hope you do too.

The people I liked when I was young are actually still so young.

The guy I liked when I was younger is now fat and ugly.

I don't know now, I haven't seen him in more than 10 years.

Now they have become other people's children's mothers, and their lives are quite happy.

Now it might be the father of the other children.

Now that I'm married and have children, I'm still alone.

There are many people who like you, and there is no shortage of me. There are very few people I love, none but you.

I love you for a whole time, from ignorance to maturity, from impulsiveness to steady, thank you for giving me an empty joy.