We were in love for seven years and broke up. What should I do if I feel uncomfortable?

The seven-year relationship is over, I don't think it's because of a small problem. Because of how deep the relationship is for 7 years.

7 years, it's really long, my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 years, sometimes I will cry all night when we quarrel and break up.

Don't digress anymore, it's normal to be uncomfortable, and when you're uncomfortable, you're a real woman of flesh and blood. It is uncomfortable because of the passing of a relationship, after all, you used to rejoice and worry about it, and it has become a part of your life. It also has a strong sense of loss because it once belonged to me and now it doesn't belong, which makes people feel tired and frustrated, and their spirits are low.

If you really feel inappropriate and unhappy, decide to end it, because women have to be kind to themselves, and if you don't feel sorry for yourself in love, then no one really cares about you. Don't live in the memories of the past, take a little rest and come out of the sadness and loss, let it pass away with the wind, the bright future starts from now, when the pain period passes, I believe you will become friends who care about each other, you don't want to let him see an unbearable you when you meet him in the future, right?

The last thing I want to say is, don't be ambiguous because of reluctance, ambiguity is the shadow of love, pay time and feelings, reach out but can't hold anything.

Little sister really hopes that you can get better soon

I have a friend who has also broken up after seven years of love, and the term seven-year itch is definitely not groundless. You can talk to him directly and say, "We've known each other for so long, we're so familiar with each other, there's nothing else we don't know." Then make it clear, if you still want to be with me, live a good life, if you are tired of living with me, then break up happily, don't delay my youth".

Look what he says.

Memories are beautiful, just let this relationship be buried in the deepest part of your heart, and slowly reminisce when you are alone. Or when you're old, it's going to be a beautiful memory.

Or you will feel very painful, but time is the best ** wound medicine, take your time, it will be fine.

I wish you happiness.

I scolded her just now because my girlfriend beat someone else for so long, because I was used to accompanying her every night and cared too much.

Tell me that she is relieved and has loved her for 6 years, but she is so worried and caring.

I think there is always a reason for things, maybe it's my own fault or maybe it's because I don't understand each other enough.

I don't know what your boyfriend is for, I think he loves you, after all, it's been 7 years and I don't want to see your tragedy. There is a song "Look Back Again" that may make you understand better.

You didn't say any reason, so I don't know what the reason is, so I can only read the post.

Try to save her again, after all, 7 years is not a blink of an eye. The key is not what to say, but what to do.

When you break up, I'm sure there are far more problems between you than your parents hinderPeople tend to be habitually self-deceptive, and they don't want to admit that the relationship may have gone wrong for some timeAfter all, after so long, they all know each other's weaknesses and are reluctant to hurt each other, but many problems together occur one after another, and they are gradually reluctant to say a word, until one day they have a proper reason to break up. After a breakup, it is uncomfortable to forget a person, and it is certainly a long timeBut during this period, we have learned a lot and will love ourselves more. Because we all know that our future selves will be grateful to ourselves for having no difficulties to knock down.

The seven-year itch, a phrase that many people will say. Because it is true that you and this person are already familiar with each otherYou will know each other's needs because of his actions, and you will also know his bottom line, and remedy it in time when he is about to get angry。The relationship between you will also slowly drift apart over time, and if both of you are unwilling to change at this time, then the result is a breakup.

It's just a matter of time, and what should come will always come.

After a breakup, it will be uncomfortable, because after all, it is something that I have experiencedWe can't do everything and ignore everythingIt took us so much time and so much energy to love this person even more than we loved ourselves。We are familiar with such a person by our side, and we will trust him very much, and one day he left.

When you go back to where you live and look at the accommodation you used to be familiar with, you will feel very strange at this moment, you will deceive yourself, he is just out, he will come back, and after a few days you will tell yourself that he is gone and he will not come back. Some girls can't bear such a big blow, and they will choose to end their lives. Because she knew that the person she cared about the most was gone.

And what I'm going to say is: I'm going to be very sad after 6 years of relationship breakup, but I won't choose to commit suicide not because I don't love him, and I'd rather believe that we're not a good fit right nowWhen we become stronger, we will understand the meaning of this relationship betterLeaving that sad city alone will recall a lot, I'm in a strange city now, I'm not doing very well, but at least I don't let others worry about me. Only when everything is excellent, things around you will slowly get better!

I met you in my best years as a girl, and I don't feel sorry or regret itThank you for being in my life and for all that we have met, I will put this emotion in the bottom of my heart, and I will not disturb your life and wish you happiness!

Nowadays, many times, people are inevitably breaking up, in fact, breaking up does not mean that the other party is not good or they are not good, in fact, it is just that you are not suitable, maybe self-love sees that everything is good for each other at the beginning, but after a long period of contact, I feel that there are still many places that are inappropriate, and then do not delay myself, nor delay each other, and then break up. Breaking up after seven years together is indeed a very unacceptable thing, because a person's life is very short, and seven years is already a long time. In the past seven years, you may have tried a lot of firsts, the first time you watched a movie together, the first time you cooked together, the first time you went shopping together, the first time you slept together, all these firsts are still beautiful when you think about it, but silently exude some sadness.

Of course, after the breakup, it is best not to choose to be alone, otherwise your mind is full of memories between you, you can find your good friends to get together, I think during the relationship, many times the moments of friends have to be left to boyfriend and girlfriend, since they have broken up, former friends should also be cherished, you can go shopping and watch movies together, let your time be used, become full and happy, time is really a very magical thing, slowly, you will forget this uncomfortable mood. Maybe one day when you were shopping, you suddenly fell in love with a certain handsome young man, at that time, what was the ex.

Everyone will go through the stage of breakup, it is really painful, some people wash their faces with tears all day long, feeling that they really can't let go, but in the end, there are few people who really haven't let go, it doesn't matter if it's just uncomfortable, but you have to be clear, no one is anyone's who, you still have your parents and friends who love you, you still have your own jobs and dreams, there are too many important things in this world, is it for the little thing of falling out of love, you are so crushed? Take care of yourself, start again, tomorrow is a new beginning, come on.

I think you can try to try a new relationship, maybe you will find that God is fair to you, although you close a window, but also open a window, so that your youth is not confused. Sometimes it is doomed that your emotional path may not be smooth sailing. So don't always live in the past, look to the future properly, and you will find that the original is not as painful as you imagined.

I remember that when I broke up with my first love, I was also very uncomfortable, always recalling the bits and pieces of the past, those beautiful scenes are still playing back in front of me, but I know that we can't go back to the past, no matter how uncomfortable it is, it is in vain, and loss is loss. Slowly, I used the busyness of my work to force myself to forget the past, and I also wanted to start a new relationship. Maybe the rainbow after the rain is more dazzling and colorful.

When you meet someone you like, you must learn to cherish it, and don't lose it to know that you have to be her.

Now it's my turn to answer such a question, the same more than seven years of love, we have lived together for about 5 years, I don't know how not to feel bad, I will feel guilty and uncomfortable in my life, the reason for the breakup is because I flirted with other girls, although nothing happened. This is her bottom line, I touched, I really regret doing these things, people are really cheap and don't cherish what they have, what do you regret?

What is lost becomes a memory, the journey that life has passed, and sadness is inevitable.

(ò uh!! This is going to be very uncomfortable at first, but it's been so long, and it's been a long time, and it's been a breakup, which means that there is really a reason, so if you want to open a little bit, you will definitely find someone more suitable for you, come on.

Now that you've broken up, don't think about it so much, think about how you can live well in the future.

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, just think of yourself as a long-term dream. Since you are separating, there is a reason to separate, and you can embrace the upcoming new life.

It's been a long time, and it's good to forget about it.

Drinking, chatting, traveling, watching the sea and climbing mountains.

I don't know. I also broke up in seven years.

Keep it. If she loses her temper, you have to put up with her. If you really love her, coax her well. Women are actually very coaxing. Since your dad is such a person, you can't help it. Consider sending your dad to a nursing home. In fact, many problems can be solved.

There is no good medicine for emotional problems, and the benevolent will see the benevolent, and the wise will see the wise. Seven years of affection is not enough, I think you are too tired to live, take a step back and open the sky.

Let me briefly state my thoughts.

In fact, your contradictions have existed for a long time, but the attitude you have been avoiding has made this snowball bigger and bigger, leading to the point where it is out of control now Your father's relationship with this breakup is not very big, this is just an excuse. It's mostly a problem between you. The long-term long-distance relationship makes each other insecure, and both parties have changed in microseconds, and it is impossible to return to the pure love at the beginning, and I regret to tell you that the breakup must be accepted.

Although it hurts you, it's also a good experience for you You have to be grateful and grateful that a girl gave you the best time of your life. It's been 7 years, and it's not easy for you! Take good care of your father When you start to be busy, maybe the next love will come quietly, at that time, you must be more sophisticated, I think you will be able to seize happiness!

Bless you!