Is it okay to go back after a 7 year breakup?!?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you and your current boyfriend are feeling good and they are getting married, he doesn't mind that you have a relationship for seven years, which means that he has faith in you and really loves you, so don't let him down.

    Since you have been together for seven years and have not been married, and your ex-boyfriend has betrayed you, the possibility that you will get married in the future is really a bit small, because the longer you are together, the smaller the chance of getting married, especially if that man is irresponsible. Since I betrayed you, in the future, there will still be a great chance of this.

    If you feel good with your current boyfriend, just get married, don't hurt him, because he didn't hurt you. Your ex-boyfriend has hurt you, you've both broken up, and you've refused to get back together again, hurting no one and truly taking control of your own happiness. Whether a relationship is happy or not is not calculated by the length of time, and perhaps a few years of affection will have more misfortune and hurt.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Look at who you really like If you still like your ex-boyfriend and he really realizes your goodness and really repents, then you can't forgive him, after all, there are seven years of relationship foundation in....If you no longer have special feelings for him, just treat him as an old man, then cherish your current boyfriend, just as one.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go on with what you are now and forget about the past, because it is your current boyfriend who brings you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Good horses don't eat back grass.

    You've been with him for 7 years, and he's betrayed you, I don't think this person is good.

    You and your current boyfriend are ready to get married, and if you go back, you won't be able to get it right for both sides in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Will he be sure he's not betraying you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want to play flash marriage, you can.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Spend time with your current boyfriend, here's my advice to you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your hesitation is hurting others. Especially the people who love you right now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Nothing bad. It's still good to be in the original. He's not been with you for a short time. A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him! It's been seven years. You don't know anything. Seven years. You gave him your best years. Think about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't think too much about it, you can marry whoever can give you a lifetime of happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When couples meet again after a breakup for many years, they may only look at each other calmly and smile, and will not communicate too much. Couples may still feel awkward when they see each other again after years of breakup. Couples seeing each other again after years of breakup can have a very trance-like feeling.

    Many couples break up at a young age, and after a few years, they may meet again due to some coincidence. What is it like to see each other again after years of separation? Here's what I think:

    1. Couples meet again after breaking up for many years, and they may be very comfortable with each other, and many couples will choose to break up when they are young, because of incompatible personalities or because of different plans between the two parties. If the couple broke up in a very peaceful way, then it may be a very comfortable feeling for the couple to see each other after many years of separation. Both parties will smile at each other and then go their separate ways.

    Second, couples may feel a little embarrassed when they meet again after breaking up for many yearsMany couples are very stubborn and very individual when they are young, so such couples often turn the world upside down when they break up. This kind of couple who breaks up in a very intense way, and when they meet again after many years, both parties may feel very embarrassed, and both will feel that they were too naïve when they were young.

    3. Couples who are around after breaking up for many years may feel very trance-like Some couples are very inexplicable when they break up, and both parties don't know why they broke up. Couples who break up in this way may remember this relationship deeply in their hearts, so couples who break up in this way many years later may feel a little trance when they meet, and they will feel lost for their past years. What do you think it's like for a couple to see each other again after years of breakup?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If there is no emotion, it is the same as meeting a stranger, and if there is still affection, then there is a spiritual shock.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Mixed feelings, the past is like smoke.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For couples who love each other again after many years of breakup, this feeling can be very complex and profound. They may feel excited and agitated as they rediscover each other and rekindle the spark of love that was once there. They may feel happy and fulfilled as they are finally able to be together and re-establish their intimate relationship.

    However, they may also feel uneasy and worried because the reasons for their previous breakup may still be there, and they may be worried about facing separation and pain again. They may also feel confused and conflicted as they need to adapt to each other's lifestyles and habits, and re-establish a relationship of trust and understanding.

    In general, couples who reunite and love each other after many years of breakup will experience a complex and profound emotional experience, including excitement, happiness, unease, worry, confusion and conflict.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Former breakup couples who reunite after many years may have different feelings. Some will regain their original love, while others will have a conflicted mood. In this case, when it comes to "reunion and love", it may mean that the person who is interested in the cave means a challenging attempt, if you look to the future, make reasonable trade-offs, and believe in each other, you may have a sweeter, firmer and more novel relationship with Nell's potato.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Things are not people, meet and smile. If you feel it, go to open the room, and leave with a few words of greetings and rules.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1.It's a sure thing to be nervous, after all, it's a little emotional.

    2.I also think about the future and the past.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Just a fresh feeling. If you spend a long time together, you will get bored.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It mainly depends on what the relationship between the two people is like, and what the reason for the breakup is.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your ex is still single and still loves you, there is still a chance to get back together. 90% of breakups are irretrievable, but it is difficult for many people to deal with breakups correctly and rationally in the confusion and pain of just breaking up.

    often use stalking, cold war, currying favor and dedication, asking friends and parents to persuade them, and even directly looking at fate, which leads to the situation getting worse and worse. Redemption is not only by stalking and begging, which will only make them feel "annoying", and the right method is the key to recovery.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's been three years since I broke up with my ex, of course, it's still an organic compound fate, who can say this kind of thing? Maybe I was young at the time and had a lot of naïve ideas, but when we met again, we would have grown up with each other, and it would be more appropriate, wouldn't it?

    If the other party is still very attached to him, he is still very nostalgic for himself, and he still has a chance to get back together, then he can seize the time to contact the other party and maintain it well, and then slowly confess and continue to be together.

    But if the other party already has a current girlfriend, and their relationship is particularly good, then now they have no chance, because the other party already has their own feelings, she will not think about it again, or she has already remembered it, and it is useless, she will not be a third party and destroy other people's feelings, if you treat you sincerely and like you, he will not date other girlfriends, he will only wait for you to return to his side.

    If you want to know if you can get back together, it depends on his current state, as well as the degree of consistency between the two people, if you still have a tacit understanding, you might as well try to be together for a while, if you still can't feel it, then you can separate, if you feel that each other has progressed, then you can develop for a long time, it's not a good thing!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is also possible to get back together after breaking up with your ex for three years. The key depends on whether your ex is single now, and whether he still loves you in his heart. If he's in a relationship now, there's zero chance you'll get back together, unless he's a scumbag!

    If it's also a person, you can ask him out to talk and say that you still love him, although it's been three years, you still can't let go of him in your heart, and I hope to be able to reunite.

    If he still loves you, it's a matter of course, and if he doesn't love you anymore, don't force it, you can still be friends.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is possible to get back together after three years of breaking up with your ex, mainly depending on whether the two of you are willing to get back together.

    If the other party has a partner, and even has plans to get married, it will be difficult to get back together, because that person already has a heart. If neither of you is brave enough to take that step, you won't get back together.

    Only when both people have the intention of reuniting and take the initiative to contact each other, can they be reunited.

    In fact, whether the two get back together depends on the reason why the two broke up at that time. If the reason can't be changed, or they are not willing to change for the other person, then even if they get back together, they will break up again.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1. If he has been in a new relationship with you after separating from you (and he has planned to marry her), even if you get back together, it doesn't necessarily mean that he gets back together because he loves you.

    It's a big part because he wants to get married, and you're just there. Or maybe he's in need.

    I have such a person around me, the man broke up with his first love for seven years, and there has been no contact (mutual deletion kind) and then the boy meets another girl. The boy loves her very much and plans to marry this girl. Later, they broke up for various reasons.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes! Maybe you have experienced a lot of things and found that she (he) is still the most suitable for the original!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    As long as it is possible for you to like to get back together, do you still feel it is necessary? It's been three years since you've been separated.,In the past three years, you've become strangers to each other, and you don't know what you're doing.,If you still care about what happened before, I think it's better not to get back together.。

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you want to, anything is possible. I don't want to, none of your friends have to do it!!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It depends on how you feel about each other, whether you both want to get back together, and whether you have feelings.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Ask yourself first, 1, have the two of you not been in a relationship in the three years since you broke up?

    2. What did you break up for, if you reconcile, will you break up again for this reason, 3, what is his attitude towards you now, what is your heart for him, is it unwilling to be separated at the beginning or something else.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It depends on your feelings

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Summary. Good evening, my dear, I also feel very sorry when I hear this news. But I'm still very cruel to tell you: it's impossible to get back together.

    Good evening, my dear, I also feel very sorry when I hear this news. But I'm still very cruel to tell you: it's impossible to get back together.

    Why? Why? Seven years have not come together, which shows that there is an insurmountable gap between the two of them, and there is no way to overcome this gap by relying on the two of them.

    I believe that they must have tried to overcome the difficulties once they were prepared, and they all did their best to respect their own destruction, but in the end they still couldn't overcome this gap, so they chose to break up. Since there is no way to overcome the chasm, even if you barely get back together, you will still break up in the end, which is impossible for a sane person to do.

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