Why am I so ignorant that others give me the stairs and I don t know that I am embarrassed to die?

In fact, you can realize this problem, which means that you know that others are good to you, and others give you face and give you steps, but you may not have noticed it at the time, so sometimes people have to be smart, and after that, you can realize that you will pay attention to it later, and don't put yourself in an embarrassing situation.

As the saying goes, people are confused. Sometimes someone else cares. I don't realize it. It's because when others care about themselves, their own minds are not in this area. Afterwards, give people a courtesy and apologize, and there is no need to regret the problem in one sentence.

When others give you a step, you often misunderstand the other person's intentions. The main reason for this problem of the landlord is that he has limited emotional intelligence and less social experience. It is a good choice to think more when you encounter problems in the future, don't be impulsive when you encounter problems, and sometimes talk less and do more.

You are the reason why EQ is very low, if a person has low EQ, there will be a lot of trouble in social aspects, we have to use our brains flexibly, let ourselves become a high IQ and high EQ are more tactful in front of doing anything, we can read more books when we are fine, that will bring us a lot of gains.

Why do you say that, it may be the reason why you are smart and confused. Just remember not to be so pretentious next time

It's because your inner thoughts and your brain can't control it, and I hope you have to work hard to do it since you know it.

More experience, more accumulation, more practice. Mastering these requires a great deal of knowledge and experience, as well as appropriate psychological support.

There are several possibilities, but I don't know for sure. Maybe your expression is really like looking for steps, maybe your hopes don't match the mood of others, or maybe your caution is based on a lack of personality or security rather than life experience, etc.

Interpersonal relationship is a very difficult science to grasp, be cautious in words and deeds, and only say three points when meeting people.

Personal personality problems, some people are outgoing and like to make friends. Some people are introverted and like to be alone.

It may be a bit of an overword to say that you don't know what to do, but your friend probably means that you don't appreciate it and can't respond to his enthusiasm.

Make it clear to your friends that your personality is like this, and it is not intentional. Your friends may slowly distance themselves from you, but that's what you want.

Maybe it's a different personality, but I used to have the same mentality as you, and I don't think there's anything I can't do. And then no matter what you do, you have to think of a way to do it yourself, and don't ask for others.

But now that I think about it, I will accept it if I am sympathized with, after all, it is someone else's heart. I'm just afraid that the people who will be helped will hate me one day. And when I think of him helping me, in fact, I am willing to help, that is, I really think we are good, I think good is good, bad is bad, since we are willing, we will accept it.

In life, you should need a few friends, no matter what your personality is, since you make friends, others will understand and tolerate.

After all, life and work sometimes need the help of others, and it is really thin to work alone and alone.

Life is not as good as it should be, and sometimes it is rare for someone to listen to their grievances. I can't help it. If you are busy, at least you can find comfort in your heart, help you recover your fighting spirit in time, and adjust your mentality. Anyway, it's normal to have a friend.

When people live in the world, they should adapt to it, not to ourselves, and we cannot violate the laws of survival, which are mutual in the world, and it is impossible to go alone. All are for me, and I am for all.

This can only show that your character is lonely, not that you don't know what to do.

Because you don't respond to your friend's kindness to you with your heart, and you like to be alone, don't hurt your friend's heart.

Brother is right, no matter what your personality is, it's okay not to listen, but you still have to appreciate it, you have to admit that he is good, and if you deny it all, you just don't know what is good or bad.

It's just that your friend is so good and you still don't appreciate it, this is not knowing what to do.

First of all, if the unreasonable person is close to you, such as your relatives or friends, then when they "go crazy", you can respond according to the following principles:

1. Be clear about your feelings, that is, when facing what the other party does, don't rush to evaluate or argue, but first clarify what kind of emotions the other party's behavior makes you, so that you can calm down.

2. Don't hope that "moving your mouth" will solve the problem. The other party can't think rationally when he's mad, don't simply hope to convince people with reason.

3. Don't be hijacked by the other person's emotions. There is a term in psychology called "emotional hijacking", also known as "amygdala hijacking", in which, the amygdala refers to the part of the brain that is responsible for perceiving threat, if you are hijacked by the other person's emotions, then you can easily become irrational, and even have negative emotions such as fear and anger, which is not conducive to solving problems.

4. Stay calm and make good use of "empathy". Empathy generally refers to psychological transposition, which is often referred to as comparing the heart to the heart, that is, putting oneself in the other person's shoes to experience the other person's emotions and cognition, and trying to think from the other person's point of view.

5. Let the other person let their guard down. The other party is often very sensitive when it is unreasonable, and has a strong sense of self-protection, so it is best not to be aggressive at this time, but to let the other party know that he is not a "threat", so as to "cool down" the other party's emotions.

6. Wait for the other party to calm down before expressing your opinion to the other party.

However, if the other person is not that close to you, such as the other person is just your general friend, or you don't want to get the other person's approval at all, then the following two tips can help you "get out" as soon as possible.

1. Admit defeat directly and seek advice. Tell the other person, "I'm throwing in the towel, you're the boss," or ask for advice, "I know I'm not doing a lot of things well, how do you think I should improve?" "This way you can avoid the attention and attacks of the other party.

2. Take retreat as advance and fight back skillfully. Tough counterattacks often make the situation worse, you may as well use the method of retreating, that is, through "self-blackening", let the other party know the negative evaluation of you by others, and urge the other party to actively avoid you.

Is it pretty? Is your family background good? If she is beautiful and has a good family background, she may be willful, communicate with her parents, and try to work hard together. If you grow up in a complex environment and suffer a lot, it is purely psychologically unsound, and you don't know what to do, and no one can save you except for your own awakening.

There is still such a woman in the world! I thought I was alone!

Why doesn't she know how to do it?

I never knew how good she was, but I didn't think about her for the sake of her! A woman who grows up spoiled and willful kills people!

Anything that goes along with her is good for her, and against her is bad, no matter how bad her ideas are!

Lazy, delicious, stupid!

The summary is capricious!

Learn to forgive her, I really can't stand it, so find a way to avoid it! I don't know what the person you're talking about has to do with you, bless you.

I suggest you beat her up so that she knows that others are good to her and doesn't mess around.

If you can bear it, you can bear it, and if you can't do it, you will divorce decisively, and it will not be good for the family and children for a long time.

Ignore it, if the other party insists on entanglement, directly refuse. You don't have to be polite with this kind of person, the more polite you are, the more he will get an inch.

If you meet someone who doesn't know what to do, then I don't think you need to be nice to him, and you don't need to take care of him, because he doesn't know what to do.

When dealing with a person who doesn't know what to do, who only knows how to eat, drink, and lazar a day, and seeks death and life, you don't care about this kind of person, don't give him food, and make it yourself if you want to eat.

For such people, it is necessary to have less contact, less contact, or not to help such people, because such people do not know that the other party's help should not be.

What does he have to do with you? If it doesn't matter, why care about people? If it has anything to do with you, then he was also educated by his parents, not you to meddle in things.

There is no need to deal with people who don't know how to treat well, just ignore him, someone will always clean him up, and there is no need to come forward yourself.

Dealing with a person who doesn't know what to do, I think sometimes I don't deserve to deal with this kind of person, it's really not worth it.

I think she probably doesn't really like you!

Since you don't know what to do, why don't you let such a person disappear?

Common disease, feel lack of love, so torture yourself to win the sympathy of yourself and others, it doesn't matter, day by day aging this situation will disappear, find yourself looking for fun to live, I don't know if it may be the most lovely and charming place for you now, let it be the best.

Then when you are really on the road to a dead end, you can try to survive in a desperate situation.

Me too, it's extreme

I don't know what mentality, maybe I like to brag, it's okay, everyone is happy when I have time, and it's not in the way.

This is an alternative ...... among men