How does a straightforward person usually speak?

A person who is very straightforward in his actions and words, he will say whatever he has, and if he thinks something is wrong, he will directly admit to his friends that he will not have reservations. Since ancient times, there have been such words as loyalty and disobedience, and a straightforward person may offend people, but he will not hide his kindness, and he will sincerely pay to his friends.

Pouring beans from a bamboo tube, what to say and what a straightforward person is telling the truth, he will not have reservations about things he is not used to, and he may be like pouring beans from a bamboo tube, what to say. Under normal circumstances, others will not understand, and will feel that this person is so directed at others, and has no sense of self-cultivation at all, and may have very opinions about him and dislike him. But after a period of time, after two people have been in contact for a long time, they will feel that this straightforward person is the one who is truly good to him.

If we meet such a friend in life, I suggest that everyone take him as a close friend. He will give us some pertinent advice, and will not hypocritically say that we are good where we have shortcomings.

Straight to the point, unreservedly because you are my friend, I speak to you bluntly, I am responsible for you, and straightforward friends are generally like this. Because he treats you as a buddy and you as a girlfriend, he will tell you that it is not right to do this in the spirit of being responsible for you, and you may suffer. He can't bear to see you fall into a trap and can't extricate yourself.

He will criticize you, and he will hit the nail on the head, and he may not hold back that he may criticize you completely, and make you think that this person is too hateful, why do you say that I am still my good friend? Such friends in life are indeed true friends, because they think that if they still deceive you, then the consequences are very serious, and you may suffer many mental and physical blows and losses. If it is such a straightforward friend, we may find him annoyed and disgusted at first, but after a long time, we will feel that he is a person who genuinely treats us.

Straightforwardness is also a rare spirit, because there are fewer and fewer such people now, such people will show their emotions and opinions to the outside, and will not be hypocritical to flatter like others. Therefore, when we meet people who are straightforward, we must listen to their big truth and truth.

A straightforward person, whether it is to a friend or a colleague at work, has something to say, and cannot hide things in his heart, and such a person is the easiest to offend people.

I think straightforward people are very upright when they speak, and sometimes they may not think about the feelings of other people listening to some words after they are spoken, but they feel more simple and unpretentious, so there are good and bad, people still need to look at the occasion to speak, but also to look at the character to speak, if the other party is a person who values reputation and reputation, you still have to pay attention when speaking.

A straightforward person usually speaks without slurring, and will express his opinions or feelings very directly, and will not let others guess his thoughts.

It is common to describe a person as straight-talking, and a better evaluation will say: Well, this person is very direct and straightforward.

But in the inner world, most people will be very unhappy and uncomfortable, and will say something like this: Oh, this person, he speaks badly, and it is not easy to socialize.

So why does a person like to speak straight?

Teacher Jin Hang analyzed a few points:

1) No brains, no mouth.

This kind of person is not only low in EQ, but also typically low in IQ.

Whether the person you are facing is higher or lower than you, or someone who is similar to you, it is all a kind of communication.

Du Lunzao is to say whatever comes to mind, and walk exactly according to the feeling of his hand. Don't care about other people's feelings.

2) To get the attention of others.

This kind of person is not sincere on the outside, and there is usually an inconvenient reason behind it.

For example, if a boy has no confidence in the face of the girl he likes, he will choose to say some strange things and do some strange behaviors in order to attract the girl's attention.

Even if they know that this attention comes from the girl's dislike and dislike, the boy will be happy that he has received the girl's attention.

Some radical words are not intended to provoke, but just to get attention.

3) Distinguish between objects.

Most people are two-sided. In the face of the people closest to you or those who are lower in rank than yourself, you should communicate in a simple, rough and direct way.

Facing people who are higher than themselves, or about the same, it's a completely different situation. The witty words are full of tongues, and the fragrance is very flattering. Properly high emotional intelligence.

People who are accustomed to this kind of performance have a set of calculated costs.

Relatives are their own people, and if they are offended, they are also their own people. People with low rank are easy to get, the value is small, and there is no loss if they are offended. People with high ranks, less and cherished, are scarce resources, have the opportunity to create more value, and the cost of offending is high, so they need to be maintained with high emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence is both a resource and a competency.

4) Escapism.

This kind of person is strong on the surface, lonely on the inside, and unwilling to let others see his vulnerability, so he uses the simplest and most direct way to cover up his inner voice.

This type of person, who seems indifferent and has a hard time trusting others, protects himself with a thick package

In fact, straightforward people speak simply, don't play with others, and do things neatly! There is no fear of being calculated by such people at any time! If you want to make friends with such people, it is the first choice, because it is not tiring to interact with this kind of person, and it is easy!

But straightforwardness doesn't mean brainlessness and nonsense! The kind of person you are talking about can only say that he has no one in his eyes, is arrogant, irresponsible, self-centered, and does not take into account the feelings of the people around him, this kind of person is very selfish! I don't like to make friends with this kind of person!

Look at people's faces when you speak, or when you want to talk to people very bluntly, think about it. Am I right to say that? There is also the occasion. The most important thing is to keep your mouth shut.

In China, this kind of personality is only suitable for being a press spokesman, because it does not require you to have personal feelings, you just need to read the manuscript according to the script, and you can also express your great plan to defend the peaceful reunification of the motherland in an almost pathetic voice.

Barrels. It's not the case that sex trembles and is straightforward, the real straightforward person rarely offends people, it is reflected in the boldness, not the silver and the subtlety, giving people the feeling that it is comfortable, but it is not uncomfortable.

One is a chicken and the other is a horse. Chickens are good at crowing, and horses like to run. In people, if they have this zodiac, they will speak straightforwardly.

In fact, I don't feel that speaking, not being able to speak, has nothing to do with not being educated, being cultured, I know many people who are uneducated, but they can speak very well.

Yes, but it is difficult to communicate with people, and the language function of the brain will deteriorate over time.

Rectally.

To tell you the truth, this show is gone, but, this phenomenon is good, why? It's better to tell the truth than to tell a lie, and you have to pay a price for telling a lie, at least even if you offend someone, you won't suffer a loss, at least the other party may know that things are not as simple as you think.

Truth be told, I'm that kind of person. I also offended people, and I was troubled by that, and then in a drink, I opened up with my friends and they said that I was a straight talker, and sometimes they listened to me, even though they knew that I was unintentional, and they felt uncomfortable. However, they also said that they had more contact with me, and everyone knew who I was, so they didn't care afterwards because they were all good friends.

I felt uncomfortable after hearing this, and I wanted to try to break this habit (or problem). After all, not necessarily all the people you will contact in the future will be your friends.

It's very simple, the opinion of a thing, and the vanity of a person

It's very simple to say the view of a thing directly

Okay is good, no good is not good, how can there be so much nonsense

I am happy on the surface, but sometimes I scold you in my heart.