My wife needs surgery, and the whole family depends on me to work, so in the countryside, what can I

What kind of surgery did your lover have? If you really need help, you can make a drop of water, you send it out, your friends will help you again**, many people will help you when they see it, now people are caring, will help you as much as possible, you have to have confidence, may your lover as soon as possible**!!

Ask for help, form written materials of your family's actual situation, find a few certifiers to sign and prove, and then stamp the official seal of your village and township, and you can fundraise funds through social ** and other means.

Now, in order to solve the problem of the burden of medical treatment in rural areas, the state has undertaken urban and rural medical insurance, which can be reimbursed as long as you are hospitalized or have surgery.

You can go online for help and find some fundraising platforms, such as crowdfunding. If it's really difficult, you can also see if the civil affairs department can help.

If you apply for subsidies and fundraising from the local authorities, you can solve part of the medical expenses, you can also borrow a part of it first, and after being discharged from the hospital, NCMS can reimburse part of it, and you can also apply for drip pumping to solve part of it.

With that dripping water, you can use it for major diseases as long as the situation is true.

Now there are a lot of crowdfunding software on the Internet, you can talk about your situation, ask everyone to raise money, and now there are cooperative medical services in rural areas, and the reimbursement rate is very high, but you have to pay various expenses first.

Looking for relatives and friends to borrow, I really can't think of a way to apply for medical assistance at your local women's federation or civil affairs bureau.

Your wife is sick and needs surgery, and the whole family can only rely on you to work alone to make ends meet, you can help your wife join the "water drip chip", which can help your wife get through the difficulties, if the family is really difficult, you can also find a local ** to help.

I don't have experience in how to do it. Or find a job in the industry you want to do in the future and work to accumulate some experience.

No one will really tell you the way to make money, it is better to go out and see more by yourself, and then combine the actual situation to do something suitable for your side business.

Doing it in a down-to-earth manner is the best way to get rich.

It is a good way to get rich by working hard, I started my business twice and failed twice

Learn a practical craft first, and start your own business if you have the opportunity to develop in your hometown.

What should happen in a person's life is certain, don't be in a hurry, take your time.

Excuse me, which one are you husband? It's still a husband's relative, or a wife's relative, or a family member.

You can ask for help from the Child Protection Association and the Red Cross Society of China.

Congenital heart disease can apply for national free **, and you can consult your municipal medical institution for specific details.

You can go to your local Red Cross for help.

The Red Cross can apply for assistance**.

Society is big and there are many differences! As long as you can adapt to it, that's good! I hope it helps, I wish you a happy and happy life!

Women are like this, it's time for the big brother to do something.

Learning technology at home, working part-time for a lifetime, you can't make a fortune. A man must have skills to support his family, otherwise he will not be able to support his wife and children in the future. Even if you don't have to do anything else for the time being, when you have a difficult life, at least you can rely on technology to make a living.

It's still a matter of learning a skill, otherwise it's hard to find a job out, she's ten years older than you, and she also told you to go out to work, be careful that he sells you.

It's okay to go up, but it's not okay to get married.

The family needs to have a person who convinces people with virtue, and it will be settled soon. There is a price to be paid for everything.

You have to go through trouble and bear the pain. Or there is a dare to take responsibility. Limb Chang Hood.

At the beginning, my choice was either to deal with the aftermath or to bless.

After getting married, I took them to my side! The premise is that you either rely on people to succeed in your career, or find a good husband.

You should come too early! Everybody is going to get old! As long as you get married in the future, you can be kind to your parents! Pay more attention to your parents! Wishing you happiness!

Then you can recruit a son for them to go back and honor their second elder.

From a legal point of view, it should also be, from the perspective of human feelings, it is unreasonable, and if the daughter is married, it is even more unreasonable. Our Chinese tradition is that sons provide for their parents in old age.

You marry closer, take care of both you and the elderly.

Parents should live in the countryside for the rest of their lives? You won't pick it up?

It's very complicated, in fact, to put it bluntly, I think the reason for these contradictions is because your marriage is not the right one, to put it bluntly, these contradictions are because of money, if you don't worry about money, there will be no such things, among you people, your parents are the most wronged, they have done so much, and both sides have not made good money! How sad they must be! And what are they holding back for?

Isn't it for you two brothers? I sympathize with your parents the most. I think you should also be considerate of them, as children, you should let them enjoy their old age in peace instead of suffering from family wars!

Right? As for the fact that you still didn't lend your brother money in the end, I think that's right! Although it is your own brother, your wife is the one who accompanies you for a lifetime!

The premise is that both of you intend to live your life honestly and without outside hearts. You can lend him money if you can, but you don't have enough money! I'm also about to become a mother, I understand how your wife feels, she wants the best for her children, and I think you should do the same!

I think the most important thing for you at the moment is your wife, children, and parents. As for your brother and his wife's side of the matter, you have less contact, he chose to marry a rich girl, he has his own entrepreneurial goals and foundation, you are not in good health now, it is a bit too much to say that "you are difficult to protect", you still have the leisure to worry about his family's affairs? Tell me that your parents shouldn't look at your brother's children, your brother's wife doesn't care, your little nephew's grandparents don't care, what do your parents care?

None of them care about that child, who are your parents working so hard for? Seeing that the children can't make a good profit, and they can't make a good profit by helping you take care of the business in the store, how aggrieved they should be??? Don't you feel distressed???

Having said that, I think you have three points at present: first, if you have the money to treat yourself first, and your health is fine, you have the ability to become the pillar of the family. Second, your parents can't go on like this anymore, as long as they are healthy and happy at this age, they can work hard all their lives, don't let them be so tired.

Third, your wife and children, the relationship with your wife must be good, and the education of your children must be good. If you can grasp and do a good job in these three points, I think your heart will be very full and satisfied! Only when you and your nearest family (parents, wife, children) are good can you have the heart to start a business, and only if you succeed, you can have the ability to help your younger brother, don't you think?

Don't get involved in your brother's family anymore, if your family comes into contact with theirs, you will definitely be hurt, and staying away is the best way.

How to deal with family conflicts, that is, we need to help each other, communicate more, be less careful, and smile more harmoniously.

Connected with the same fate, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read! No one can rely on their own efforts! Self-reliance, the real society is very cruel.

My dad and my mom are already middle-aged, and they are still making conflicts about washing dishes, for their peace, I bought a DAOGRS X9S dishwasher to go home, and finally my mom no longer has broken thoughts, 14 sets of large-capacity dishes and pots can be washed, family gatherings are not afraid, it's really great!