200 points Please help me analyze what my girlfriend is thinking?

Speaking from the heart, I advise you to let it go!

Judging by your description, your girlfriend should be a playboy! It's still very fickle! You said that she is very beautiful, and there are many people chasing her, so it gives her a sense of superiority, and everyone's affection for her is too easy for her to get, and she doesn't have to treat each other with care!

Maybe you don't feel it, for more than a month, this novelty should have passed, but she also performed, although she didn't tell you directly, but her actions are telling you that she is estranged from you, don't you think?

Although it is said that first love is beautiful, I really can't bear to hit you, but please calm down and think carefully about the bits and pieces between you, and compare the situation at the beginning with the present, and you will understand.

She's not for you!

The outside world is huge!

Wishing you happiness!

Hello buddy. I read your question, I think this woman is lying to you, she doesn't like you, let alone love you, I don't want to hit you, but it's true. Because you are the first love, you have no experience in this area, and you have no experience of being crushed or liked or loved by a woman, so you are not worth it, this woman is not love, what to play after that is obviously used.

I've had this experience too, but the more you love her, the less she loves you, because the more you give, the more she thinks you should be like this, and you want to know what she's thinking, and the only way is to ignore her. This will soon have results. As she loves you.

She'll act. If I don't love you. That's just the opposite.

This may be the time when she tests you, if you don't have your own opinions at this time, then you and her will have only one result; That's a breakup. Remember: If a person does too much or takes too initiative, it will lose its original meaning. If you want to know what she's thinking, there's only one way, and that's to ignore her.

See what she does, and then decide what to do with it. I wish you lovers to be married.

The plot meanders, let's talk about my point :

First of all, she likes three boyfriends, which you can accept, so he said that if he finds a former boyfriend, don't be surprised.

Secondly, love is not glued together every day, if you chat so frequently, if one day she may be too tired and forget to text you or call **, you think she has changed, has she changed her mind? Actually, it's nothing. If that's the case often, maybe one day, she'll say to you:

I'm so tired, let me rest! ”

Secondly, some girls are naturally very lively and can get along with boys, so let her go. You can hint a little that she makes you feel uncomfortable like this, and the tone should be tactful, after all, such a girl is more outgoing and doesn't like to be criticized by others (everyone's opinion). There is no suitability, only whether you can tolerate some of the other person's personality.

Finally, since you are in love, you should believe in each other, give each other a little space, and tell your emotions to others. Men, they should be broad-minded, as long as they have normal interactions, they can't be too tight, whether she accepts it or not is another matter. Come on!

To summarize your simple understanding: 1 Your girlfriend is a bit undedicated and easily likes others, but in any case, she can't tell you that she doesn't love you anymore. 2There may be someone you don't know is chasing her, and she is hesitating.

3. You don't behave very much, and you can't tolerate her having a crush on other people, which makes her disgusted (point).

I'll tell you the unfortunate news, you're just a little prop in her life, there's no need to be memorable. You might as well treat it coldly and slowly distance yourself from the relationship, which will be good for you and for her:

1: Prove that you are not lost to your mind by what she has done, that you are a smart person;

2: If you make a mistake in judgment, then she will take the initiative to find you, and you can completely re-invest: if you judge correctly, then you can launch in style;

3: Even if she doesn't have any feelings for you, she can't make it. Then you can be friends without the hatred of losing both sides. A lover or a red face is also very beautiful!

It's up to you to do the specifics, we can only give you advice, and we don't know if your situation is like this, so that's all I can say!

Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower!

Such a girl may not be for you. But after all, it's your first love, so it's okay to fight for it. For a workout to catch later. Speaking of "work experience" as well.

I think she may be a little numb to falling in love. He found that all the boys who said they loved her treated her the same way, as if there was no difference. Over time, I will treat love as a relief from boredom.

You can be separated from him for a while. Do not make any contact. is to wait for her quietly, and wait for her to suddenly find that there is something missing in her life, and there is a little less fun. Life is beautiful when you are discovered. That's when she might come to you.

You can also do something for her silently and don't let him know.

…First of all, ...... as a girlWhen she is in a bad mood or is very annoying, she must be looking for someone who likes her (not someone she likes), because if she can't guarantee it, she will cry and make trouble, and this kind of image-damaging thing will definitely not let the person she likes know - so she is just sure that her ex-boyfriend likes her, and she doesn't necessarily like her ex-boyfriend.

The girl said that she was upset, that is, she had nothing to do, which was equivalent to saying "I'm bored right now", and the so-called "thinking of my ex-boyfriend" may just be flipping through the mobile phone number book and remembering that this person hasn't been in touch for a long time, so there should be no problem.

Also, she went to play with boys, which can only mean that she is a little tired now, and she doesn't want to be tied up by you, so she wants to develop an easy relationship with boys, the problem should not be too big, give her a little space, and when she adjusts, it should not be a big problem.

What kind of people can't fall in love and can be friends? It's like that: I also feel too tired to be with you, you also feel too tired to be with me, I think it's easy for us not to fall in love, and you think the same way; I also think that you are actually a good person, as long as you are not too close, you are definitely a very good friend, and you think the same way, then, these two people may become friends after falling in love.

Also: I feel very shallow about you, I just think you are very good, but I will never die for you, you love me very much. When you fall in love with someone else, but I don't think it matters, my feelings for you are faint, if you want to fall in love with someone else, then talk about it.

Kindness... From a girl's point of view, I personally believe that every girl doesn't want to lose someone who loves her, a girl, even if she doesn't love you, but she sees that you are good to her, and she will feel happy.

Since she hesitates, then you make a choice.

Spare tire, buddy, don't dwell on it. In your current situation, I don't dare to say that she doesn't love you, she should love you, it's just that the love is not deep enough, and you have a lot of dissatisfaction. Just treat you as a spare tire, if he finds a better one, he will not hesitate to kick you off, if he doesn't find it.

Then keep it like this, and break the thread. Dude, think for yourself what to do.

She just doesn't want to be with you, maybe she has a better choice, she just doesn't want to lose someone who is good to her

People who are in love repeatedly, they lack assertiveness, and they don't know what they really want. So chill off for a while, and when she thinks it through, she'll give you a final answer.

She is struggling, falling in love is a matter of two people, and the result is really not a matter of two people.

Touch your heart and ask yourself if you love her? Love insists, and the most precious thing about love is the process of love, not the result. Everything she does only shows one thing, she is willing to be with you and it takes a process.

When you finally come together, the most precious thing is the little bit of the process that has been. And some people still break up even if they get married, it is precisely those bits and pieces that are lacking.

There are two possibilities: one you are the alternate land. 2. Imbalance in the heart.

I understand your mood at this time, and I understand your girlfriend's situation. It's understandable that your girlfriend wants love and "bread". You can only give her love now, not "bread" yet (maybe you can satisfy her in the near future). Wait!

Don't be a woman of this kind, play tricks on you, when you're a fool!

First of all, your girlfriend should know you alone, and you have to travel a lot.

Have you ever thought that if you go on a business trip, he will become a person, and he still has no job, how boring his life must be!

She has just graduated, and the girls who have just graduated are full of ideals, and she has been repeatedly frustrated in finding a job here, and she is under a lot of pressure, and all her living expenses depend on you, and there will be pressure.

Personally, I think she wants to go home now: a. It's hard to find a job and it's stressful. b. Usually you are on a business trip, and she has no friends, so she is very bored. c. The usual living expenses all depend on you, and there is also pressure.

I think you should help her find a job and distract her for now. When you are on a business trip, she can also have something to do, and she will not feel like she has nothing to do all day and lives in a mess.

Hope!!! 1

Usually this kind of girl who has just graduated pursues too much, does not know how to cherish what she has now, and always thinks that she can get better. And when you come out and leave home, you will be homesick, and if you really love her, think about things from her point of view, and if you don't think you have a future, you can find it again.

Just ask her directly, only she knows what she thinks, she has just graduated, she will have a lot of ideas, you love her, care about her, ask her about her future plans and ideas.

When a woman proposes to break up, she is actually just missing something, some are lacking love, some are lacking in care, and some are insecure. (Since love asks directly).