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Learning can't be selective! Because the area of the high school entrance examination is very wide, everything you learn has to be tested, although some subjects are open-booked, but ......Now it's all theoretical questions You should work harder to study other subjects As for having a boy crushing on you It's too normal I had a crush on someone when I was in junior high school. - But at that time, you were extremely shy, but you were snubbed and immediately kept silent.

It's not like high school, when you are rejected, it immediately becomes the motivation "It's a little shameless", stalking and chasing. The little boy in junior high school was fine, and if he stayed away from them a little, he naturally went away.

In fact, to put it bluntly, being a cadre is not a bad thing, as long as you have the heart, you will find that you can exercise your ability while being a cadre, which can give you a good foundation in the future society.

You've got a crush on you now, and you're very attractive. You should be confident, believe in yourself, and wish you good luck in your exams.

You just choose one of your classes, just find someone with absolute good character, don't look for someone who is rich

Don't look for someone who is very arrogant, just find someone who can study, who can also be a person, and who can have a family

He often shakes you to show that he has learned your weakness and understands that you will not give up on him no matter what. Or even if you're really dead, he's sure to turn you back. In this kind of friendship or relationship, you are passive and not good for you.

A man should try his best to do what he says on weekdays. Not necessarily 100% of the time, but do your best.

Especially for women, treat feelings like this.

If a man has no faith, he is not enough to believe.

Give up.

Many netizens have suggested that you give up this relationship!

After reading the full text, I have a deep experience, and the biggest realization of the first point is that you are very attentive to maintaining this relationship and care about him very much.

I think a 40-year-old man is definitely not so leisurely in life, if he has a lot of time to spend with you, you will not think that he is always fooling you, but feel that he is not motivated!

But I don't say he's a lover! Because he's so sloppy! He doesn't care more than %40 and I guess there are definitely more than three women around him, and I guarantee that there are absolutely no less than 10 women who have walked by him!

Although from your ordinary tone, I can still tell that he is very "sophisticated"!

I can also guess that the number of times you fall in love is definitely less, and the degree of dependence is relatively high! Low load capacity!

You may not have noticed that a forty-year-old man takes everything he says with a very steady attitude! The question is whether he does it and feels that he doesn't need to do it seriously or doesn't want to do it at all!

I hope the landlord will adopt it.

Give up, since he doesn't have to treat you sincerely, why bother with someone who hurts your heart... You have to believe that there are many other good people in the world who are worth meeting and paying for your friendship... And not your so-called friends mentioned above...

You don't have him You are very lonely, everyone has lonely times, endure and find a new one People in their forties can be said to be old fritters People who have experienced shopping malls are even more shrewd, maybe he thinks it's fun to tease you, or he is a person who talks but doesn't wait to do it.

Actually, you should thank Him for teaching you so much. According to my speculation, he has repeatedly broken his trust in you, but he is actually teaching you to adapt to this society and not trust people too much. You must know that people's hearts are unpredictable, and living in such a complex society, it is very necessary to have a high degree of awareness of prevention.

In addition to this, he is also teaching you how to be strong, and that emotional damage over and over again will inevitably increase people's emotional control, and is your emotional control now better than before? Come to think of it, does what I say make sense. Rockefeller, the richest man in American history, once said something like this:

Insult is a measure of ability, the reason why others will insult you, either related to your life, or related to what you do, or some other reason, in short, does not constitute respect for you by others. As you said, this friend, according to my guess, is not a bad person. To put it mildly, even if he is a bad guy and a villain, he is still a real villain, better than many people in society.

What's more, he has taught you so much, I think you learn to be tolerant, tolerance is an excellent character in human nature, and now you are fortunate to be able to obtain this character through practice, congratulations! Personal opinion, FYI, thank you!

He is selfish to you, capable people make you but not necessarily arrogant, and responsible people are high or low.

Noble and low, this is a matter of principle, you should look at a lot of successful people, more people than him is stronger, make friends to find both internal and external, ability is one thing, heart is the other.

Give up what should be given up, the next one will be better, you really stay with him for a long time will also lower your own, you have to be arrogant.

Let him see another you, loss does not mean the future, the next one will be better!

This man is rubbish, and the identification is complete, and the person has no faith and is both a beast

Nothing, since it will be separated, it is nothing. What should come will come, let time tell.

I haven't finished reading it, I know that friends or colleagues, you don't have to be too naïve, there is no innocent intimacy in the world, he uses you to take advantage of it, who told him to be good to you, this is a kind of compensation, you have to learn to face all this, this is your life.

What you do may or may not be right, but friends are friends, and no one can give up first. After all, every friend has his own characteristics, and I think it's unique, although he doesn't do well in some places, after all, they are all my hard-won and precious friends, try to be tolerant, if there are no friends with him, he can only be lonely.

I've had a friendship similar to yours. Although she was able to give me help and guidance, I don't like the kind of person who doesn't count, I'm not a person who makes promises, so I can't stand it. We lost contact.

I used to think that if she gave me a stone, I would take it as a treasure, and when I turned around, he would tell me that it was just an ordinary stone. I can't stand this gap between expectations and disappointment.

First of all, you must be clear about the relationship, and "friends" should not be promoted to "...... no matter what

And then later, I think you must let go, don't care too much about his every move, in fact, what I mean by this, of course, is not to give up friendship, it is better to be light or light, of course, he can help you better in life and work, every time you see him, you have to smile, confident! Feel happy! This is to make himself happier, and also to make him feel that you are also doing well, and both of you will be happy and happy.

Of course, in the end, I hope you can be happy, and some things may be clear to bystanders, I hope it can help you.

Using you first, being good to you, is also a means of utilization, and when you are worthless one day, you will be treated like a rag in the trash.

If you feel the need to test whether your friendship is serious, I suggest you say you're sick. Because it's easier to pretend when you're sick, it's easy to round the field.

To know whether he has put you in his heart depends on whether he cares about you when you have something. Some people can't be seen in ordinary times, and he doesn't pay much attention to the details of ordinary problems, and it's very big, and I'm the same. But when something happens and he needs help, he will do it.

Friends are not lovers, and lovers also need independent space. It's even more unlikely that a friend will revolve around you, after all, you're just one of his friends, and he needs to be the same for all of his friends. So the usual indifference is not to keep you in your heart.

1 You have to take the initiative This is the first step, the most crucial

2 How do you integrate with others? As the saying goes: When you meet people, you talk about people, and when you meet ghosts, you talk about ghosts, this sentence makes a lot of sense, what kind of place, what kind of theme, what kind of qi is suitable for you, and you will definitely fit in

3 Sincerity 4 Confidence

Also, when you communicate together, whether you understand the topic of other people's conversations, or you are confused, you have to say something, such as nodding and smiling, or expressing surprise, or listening, etc. Don't make people feel like you're transparent, in that case you're out

You don't have to make a high-level statement, but you have to fit in

Oh, that's all I have to say, good luck!

Start by cultivating your self-confidence and believing that you can do it.

Read some books on dealing with interpersonal relationships, learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships, pay attention to the problems in interacting with others, first communicate with your parents, and tell them about your problems, let them help you solve them, talk to relatives and friends around you, communicate, practice your eloquence on the one hand, learn how they interact with others, and communicate with others.

Cultivate your hobbies so that you can find out what to talk about, talk to others, go out and talk to people in society, and communicate.

Participate in more social activities.

Remember to be bold, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, and be thick-skinned.

Talk to your parents first, you can also tell them about the problems you are facing and ask them to help you solve them, and on the other hand, you can learn how to talk to people.

Then talk to friends who are close to you, and you can also see how friends around you who are similar to you chat and communicate.

There are many kinds of people! Don't look at what those crazy people do, choose the route that suits you, don't blindly follow, you can go to the "connotative" school.

And as long as you work hard, study and work well, there will be many people who like to give yourself more self-confidence, don't always look backwards, change slowly, don't worry!

Changing oneself sometimes means losing who I was. It doesn't have to be your problem, sometimes the people around you are also one of the reasons for your current situation. Appreciative of your self-reflection, but don't ask yourself too much, realistically speaking, there is a limit to what a person can change.

It is recommended that you participate in some sports, sweat it out, and make friends is a great way for boys to make friends and hone their masculinity. Secondly, give yourself the opportunity to participate in, or even organise some school activities, especially in your new environment, where you have the opportunity to reshape your self-image and put pressure on yourself from these team activities, which I believe will be beneficial.

You have to have a wide range of interests (you don't have to be familiar with them).

Be humorous. Bold and classmate crazy.

Do something interesting that surprises the students (answer the questions on the blackboard, and Mr. Chen doesn't pay attention to sticking a rabbit ear behind the teacher).

Participate in group activities greatly, such as playing football at noon, playing badminton in the afternoon, eating together between classes, and buying snacks together (the table looks small and very important).

You have to try to communicate with girls first, and then you will become less introverted (as far as I can see, there are few extroverts in boys at first, and they all start to communicate with girls and slowly start to be extroverted - even if you are not allowed to talk).

This is the true meaning of good interpersonal relationships, you don't believe you try it yourself, except for a very few unruly good students, no one can touch it, and it is very easy to have a good relationship in the class

The key to dealing with interpersonal relationships well is to be aware of the existence of others, to understand their feelings, and to satisfy themselves and respect others. Here are a few important interpersonal principles:

1. The principle of sincerity in interpersonal relations. Sincerity is the golden key to open the hearts of others, because sincere people make people feel secure and reduce self-defense. The better the relationship, the more it is necessary for both parties to reveal a part of themselves.

That is, to communicate your true thoughts to others. Of course, there are risks associated with doing so, but it is not possible to gain the trust of others by wrapping yourself up completely.

2. The principle of initiative in interpersonal relations. Taking the initiative to be kind to others and taking the initiative to express kindness can make people feel valued. People who take the initiative tend to be likely.

3. The principle of interaction in interpersonal relations. The goodwill and malice between people are mutual, and in general, sincerity begets sincerity, and hostility begets hostility. Therefore, it is important to have good intentions when interacting with people.

4. The principle of equality in interpersonal relations. Any good relationship allows one to experience a feeling of freedom and uninhibitedness. If one partner is restricted by the other, or if one party needs to look at the other party's face to act, it is not possible to establish a high-quality psychological relationship.

Finally, it should be pointed out that good interpersonal relationships must be found in the practice of interpersonal relationships, and avoiding interpersonal relationships and wanting to get the friendship of others can only be a matter of seeking fish, and it is impossible to achieve the ideal goal. I believe that being popular is sometimes better than having a lot of money.

55 tricks for relationships.

1. Make more extroverted friends, and after spending a long time with them, you will naturally be able to talk 2. Read more books, which can make you rich in topics.

4 And the most important point is to exchange sincerity for sincerity.

But also remember that the heart of defense is indispensable.