Why are some people both conceited and inferior

People with low self-esteem often have some low self-esteem behaviors, some of which can have a positive impact on people, and some of which may have a negative impact. The following 6 are common manifestations of low self-esteem.

1. Loneliness Because I feel inferior to others, my behavior in study, life and work becomes cautious, indifferent, introverted, lonely, like a snail, showing obvious unsociability, I like to be alone, I live a life of isolation, I don't like to communicate, I don't like to socialize, and I lack team spirit.

They tend to be evasive in their studies or in interpersonal interactions, and as a result, they are often not taken seriously by others and are not recognized.

2. Subservience Due to the lack of a kind of self-strength in the heart, fear of competition, be at peace with the encounter, and let it go when encountering violations, behave submissively, give in to the demands of others, be swayed by others, go with the flow, dare not express one's own opinions, opinions and feelings, cowardly in the heart, hesitate to speak, speak softly, dare not make direct contact with others, twist hands, etc. These are typical acts of subservience.

People who are subservient often do not get the attention they deserve, they have a sense that they have not met their talents, and some of their voices are often drowned out by people with high self-confidence.

3. Rudeness When a person has a strong sense of inferiority, if the pain of inferiority cannot be alleviated by subservient behavior, it will turn into a rude way of being contentious and aggressive, which is manifested in:

Focusing only on one's own demands, feelings, and claims, while despising the views of others; Short-tempered, angry at every turn, blaming others for problems and mistakes; adopt a sarcastic and unfriendly attitude; Some also show complaining at all times, with a high-pitched and harsh voice, pointing with their fingers or slapping the table, etc.

4. Funny Funny is easy to make people laugh. Playing a funny character that makes people laugh and use laughter to hide their inferiority complex is also a form of inferiority complex.

5. Denial of reality.

Because he despised himself, he broke the jar and tried to take actions that deny reality to get rid of his inferiority, such as drinking to drown his sorrows.

6. Compensation Low self-esteem is not useless, and some people will turn their inferiority complex into an upward help and replace it with an energy to pursue their careers. Psychologists have found that people with a strong sense of inferiority tend to have stronger combat effectiveness and endurance.

Becoming introverted and stubborn due to an inferiority complex turns into a developmental force, which is called "compensatory effect" in psychology. Experts have found that in real life, people with a stronger sense of inferiority tend to have a stronger compensatory mentality. It is precisely because of this compensatory behavior of low self-esteem that many people succeed, who work harder and harder than the average person to overcome their weaknesses and develop superior abilities as a result.

So what's your business? You're also a person with a brain problem.

Low self-esteem and conceit may seem contradictory, but they are not. Some people have low self-esteem, some people are conceited, and some people have low self-esteem and conceit are actually combined. People with these three personality psychology are actually the same disease, and they are all either psychologically traumatized and left in Normally, conceit is not the initial state of inferiority, but through some kind of experience that leads them to learn this thought process, such as:

By chance, they find that they will be praised by those around them for praising themselves, and people with low self-esteem are actually the same in nature. Although he feels that he is inferior to people in every way, he is unique and special in essence. He is equally perfectionist about himself.

<> this is a reverse expression of the psyche, in order to cover up the inferiority, because it is very uncomfortable when you are in an inferiority complex, out of self-preservation, subconsciously.

It will be expressed in reverse, and it will show conceit on the outside. Conceit is armor, preventing others from peeking into the truth, it is low-frequency self-preservation, economic poverty, and my heart is very inferior. At that time, there were no clothes to wear, and the neighbor's children grew up and gave clothes to my family.

I've been wearing it like a baby for a long time. When I grow up, maybe it's because of a high position, for example, the head of a certain field above 10,000 people under one person, no matter what, you have to show confidence, resoluteness, decisiveness, or full of wisdom, otherwise you can't establish the prestige of leadership, because they have a concept in their heart that dominates them, and you just have success or failure above all else. They may be influenced by their family of origin.

Effect. Or acquired. They see success or failure as the most important thing to measure a person.

There are many other factors that you can't see, and that's true! From his heart, there is a sense of nostalgia! There are many people who are not as talented as him!

Better off than him! The career future is bigger than him! Inferiority due to loss!

This is true, some people's conceit is caused by excessive inferiority, because they are not confident enough, and when a person is not confident enough, they will have inferiority complex, so they will appear conceited.

This is indeed the case, in fact, behind some people's conceit is due to low self-esteem, that is, because of the psychology of inferiority, so they will let their psychology be unbalanced.

Yes, there will still be a certain reason, because low self-esteem really affects a person, and low self-esteem can also change people's character.

This should indeed be true, because many people are conceited because of a disguise to themselves, able to protect themselves from harm, but in fact, they are actually very inferior in their hearts.

There is a world of difference between low self-esteem and conceit.

1. Those with low self-esteem look down on themselves, and those who are conceited look down on themselves too much. But to get to the root of it, you can find the similarity between them, that is, neither of them can accurately evaluate themselves and do not have a correct understanding of themselves.

2. Low self-esteem is that you have no self-confidence in yourself, feel that you are inferior to others everywhere, and feel that you can't raise your head in the social circle of life. I don't want to make friends, and I don't dare to say what I think.

3. Conceit is overconfident in oneself, and I feel that I am right and the strongest everywhere. Some people who are not good at thinking are overconfident and called conceit.

4. From the perspective of psychology, people will encounter different psychological states at different stages, and there will be corresponding places that need to be adjusted, whether it is selfishness, inferiority, and conceit, which are very common psychological characteristics of human beings, and the key lies in the problem of degree.

5. Conceit is a protective mechanism for inferiority, and a person with strong inferiority complex is painful in the face of his true self, so imagine a false self-esteem to protect his self-esteem through conceit. Therefore, some people seem to be conceited, but in fact they have low self-esteem in their hearts. But conceit is not the solution to the problem of infiltration, and it will also hinder you from recognizing yourself and prevent you from solving the problem of inferiority.