How to change the status quo of a relationship in transition

The past feelings shouldn't be recalled, are they all in the past, they will fade away with time. Personally, I don't think we should take feelings too seriously, in fact, free and easy to pay is the best way for feelings, not asking for returns, not for affirmation, only for nature! Isn't it said that nature is the best, so feelings should also be naturalized.

If the other person you have given is not reciprocating, then there is no fun in being together. As long as true love is there, don't express it too deliberately. Don't always wait for him to pay for you, you just sit back and enjoy it, and the relationship must be taken care of, come on.

I hope your boyfriend can have the same mentality!

I hope it will help you.

There are very few people like you, huh? I support you, but what I want to tell you is that let's talk about it, but it's very difficult to do, so you have to be mentally prepared for all the negative in advance. So come on. Challenge yourself and test your love ...

Is there really such a transition period? Probably not, I'm guessing maybe it's just that your first love isn't as good as you think. It's not a transition period at all, as long as you love each other, there won't be any problems, as long as you have him in your heart, you'll be together!

Believe in yourself and believe in Him!

Love is mutual, as long as there is a pay, there will be a gain, maybe one day, he will be moved by your sincerity, unless he is hard-hearted, he has no feelings for you at all, if so, then there is no need for you to continue to be together.

Try to learn to forget, you will forget after a long time, and now I don't think it's something that happened on TV or **.

Hehe. Friend.

You're not a lady if it's the same as you say.

He should be with you, not for any love.

Why did he love you in the first place? Think about it, huh.

Think about it, could that be the case? Hehe.

Everyone's situation and personality are different, it all depends on the situation. But as far as I can see it, it's true. There is a shadow of a paragraph in the second paragraph. First love is always the simplest and most unforgettable. But after a lot of experience, these are indifferent...

As long as you treat him with sincerity, he can feel it after a long time.

I think your idea is very good, so you should do it, because you can dare to love and dare to give, so as to enjoy the sunshine of love.

Dear, after three months of love, there will be a transition period. At this time, the relationship began to fade slowly, the reason is because there is a gap between each other, there is no contradiction when you start to fall in love, the other party is relatively fine, there are no shortcomings, no quarrels and too many calculations. Until they have been in love for a while, they have almost understood each other, and they began to analyze each other's shortcomings and bad habits.

They began to lose their ability to accept each other, they began to hurt each other, they began to calculate, they complained, they had arguments and quarrels. This is an unavoidable stage in a relationship, because it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along. So if you want to maintain your feelings, the best way is to be tolerant.

Understand. And the most important thing is to forbearance. Otherwise, in a good love, it will also fade.

Maybe you're in the love run-in period.

What is the love run-in period.

The love run-in period is a necessary stage in the process of love, and it is a stage of friction between men and women in spirit, life, details and dealing with problems.

From hot love to passionate cooling, after realizing the difference between each other, entering a relatively stable state of love is the first run-in period; The sublimation of the relationship between each other, and the entry from the single state into the world of the two is the second run-in period, and it is also the real test period. The process of overcoming the run-in period is also a process of trying how to love someone. When two people are together, it is not simply a question of who is right and who is wrong, the key is to respect each other's ideas, try to change themselves for each other, and accept each other with a tolerant heart, love will be more beautiful!

When a man and a woman decide to walk together after a period of hard work, they have to face a longer road, because after that they are really living together, out of the perfect side that they showed at the beginning.

They may have a cold war because they have a different opinion on a certain line in a certain movie, or they can quarrel because the other party does not wash their socks, in short, they will feel unacceptable to each other in many details, and then it will be time to run in. It's a long process, and you have to be tolerant and considerate, and be able to think about each other and the future. Lovers who have gone through this level will be sublimated to a state of knowing each other, and you will become more and more tacit at that time.

This may be the so-called how to see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, and how to achieve harmony without experiencing running-in.

How to spend the run-in period of love.

Only when the two who successfully pass the love run-in period can the two who love each other really accept the test. As the saying goes: if you only stay in the center of the circle, you will never find the radius and you will never be able to draw a circle.

Therefore, men and women in love should not always be self-centered, only care about their own feelings, but should start from the other party's point of view, tolerance and patience are the laws of harmony and immutability.

If you quarrel over different lifestyles, you can make a rule and make everyone give way; If you quarrel over housework, you might as well make a task list and assign the tasks to people, which will add more fun and harmony; If you quarrel over money, you might as well set up a savings account for two people, and each person will save a fixed amount of money into it, so that you have both money for the future and the freedom not to interfere with each other; If you quarrel because you have lost your freshness, you might as well change your monotonous lifestyle, or change your image or surprise each other a little more...In short, no matter what method is used, it is only by safely passing the run-in period that the fortress of true love is strengthened.

I suggest you talk to him first. Speaking from the heart, sometimes good communication is more important than anything else. Or something new, surprise him or something.

Although it wasn't made by a girl. But if my boyfriend and I have a problem, I'll take action first. Ha.

I wish you happiness.

This problem has occurred between me and my wife, including all my friends around me and their respective girlfriends, and it has occurred after about 4 months of dating.

Your relationship has entered a state of "crisis", so be careful!

The transition period is a time period for testing each other, and it is also a time period for each other's personalities to be blended.

It depends on how well you know and trust each other, if it's a similar personality, it may be a moment, if it's the opposite personality, then it will take time to get used to it.

After the transition, it is the sublimation period of feelings. We need to be more considerate and caring for each other.

Love is generally divided into four stages: hot love period, transition period, flat period, and stable period, when two people are in love, they are full of freshness and love.

I can't wait to marry each other and be carried away by love.

After a while, the shortcomings of the other party began to slowly appear.

Inevitable quarrels and cold wars Many lovers are like this, and once the transition period of breakup is over.

Then came the lull.

Both parties began to understand, and the quarrel slowly decreased, but the novelty also faded, and life will return to the way it was before the relationship, how to do it or what, as long as you get through the lull period, it is towards happiness.

The most important thing for both sides is to be considerate and communicate.

This is the most important thing.

True love, it is an ability, not attachment, a person must have himself in order to have true love. Only after ordinary and long years, only endlessly repeating firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and only after the test of hard work and struggle, can we appreciate its rich connotation.

True love is a kind of careful care, it is like a plant, it needs to be watered and cared for, otherwise it will wither and die, so if you want to have unswerving love, you must take care of and care for your flowers and plants.

True love is a lock that can only be opened with sincerity, sincerity, and true affection. True love is a poem, and you can only read between the lines if you understand the poet's vision. True love is a song, only by singing with heart and affection, will you sing the artistic conception of the song, and you can feel the joy of singing.

Men become cold to women.

Men are obsessed with work.

Women are no longer willing to run the family for men.

Neither man nor woman wants to talk to each other.

If both men and women suddenly don't want to talk to each other, they feel that silence is better than talking. It doesn't mean that these two people are no longer in love, this is a situation that will occur in both couples, after all, everyone will not have endless words. When a man and a woman find something interesting, they will still share it with each other.

When this situation occurs between a man and a woman, it does not mean that the two people are no longer in love, but that the emotional crisis between the two people has come. Maybe it's just that they've been together for a long time and see each other's shortcomings. But in fact, only if you know each other well enough, two people can really be together.

Therefore, an emotional crisis is not a bad thing, as long as you face it well, you can get through it.

A real relationship, there is no real transition period, if two people really love each other, it will always be a happy life.

In fact, the emotional transition period is the real incompatibility of two people's personalities, which will cause such an ending, and the real happiness will not have such a transition period at all.

When two people love each other, they must have a common topic, and such a topic is mainly because two people have the same three views, so that there will be real words in life so that two people have a way to communicate.

This is the most basic principle, if the three views are not the same, it will always be a quarrelsome principle or very indifferent, and two people can't find the real common ground.

To love each other is to pay each other, there must be a real sense of responsibility between the two to maintain the real relationship, do not let the two really quarrel because of a little thing, everyone must tolerate some, in order to have a real happy life.

Patience in love is exchanged for the greatest happiness, this is the tolerance of love, and this kind of love is completely the other party's hard work, there is such a return, cherish each other well, there is a real love.

Everyone wants a true love, as long as two people have a sincere heart to love each other completely, they must respect each other so that they can get true love.

But while respecting each other in the relationship, it is a real responsibility, and when everyone has a sense of responsibility, they are truly responsible for love, and if you cherish this kind of love, you will have a complete happiness.