Can I marry someone I don t like but like me?

Guideline: Find someone who loves you to be your life partner.

Find someone you love to be your friend.

It's better to find someone who loves you than someone you love. Then you will be happy. Maybe you'll be happy when you marry him. It's saying that feelings can be cultivated.

The premise is that if you don't feel sick and uncomfortable at the sight of him, your relationship can be cultivated. Wouldn't that be nice? This is my personal opinion.

You shouldn't be in a hurry to make a decision now. At least you're not mentally ready to accept him. Marrying him with hesitation will cause a lot of problems.

If you can't convince yourself that you like him, then continue to wait and see.

No, you don't like him, what's the matter, you think for yourself.

It's a very simple question, feelings are a matter of two people, and women have to find their own belonging after all, which is the happiness of a woman's life. And marriage is based on feelings, how can marriage come without feelings? Do you want to face a person you don't like forever in the future, and you can't give yourself a happy life for a lifetime?

If you do, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I hope you can find the happiness that truly belongs to you and bless you

How so? It is said that you should marry someone who loves you to be happy!

But I don't think so, being with the people you love is true happiness, and a person's life should be wonderful, right? Will you be happy with someone who loves you but doesn't? Do you feel happy every day in front of someone you don't like?

Marriage is a major event in life, so be cautious!

Let me ask you first, do you like him? And do you have a favorite person? If you have someone you like, then develop with someone you like, if you don't like someone, wait, why marry someone you don't like?

It's a lifetime affair when you get married! Although it is said that the relationship can be cultivated slowly, in the end, you still have to find someone you like to live a lifetime. I wish you to find your happiness soon.

OK. Feelings can be slowly accompanied, he loves you, he will cherish you, love you and let you. People say that if you are looking for a husband (wife), you must find someone who loves you, and if you are looking for a lover, you must find someone you like.

It's up to you, whether you like to love or to be loved.

Do you think you will be happy if you marry him? Will it be fun? You've got to figure it out. What's more, this matter is up to you, not us outsiders, not to mention that this is a marriage matter, and you have to make your own decisions!

Dizzy, maybe you give him a chance and it will change your life.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, if you don't really love each other, I advise you to think about it carefully, after all, if you regret it then, it will not be good for anyone, and if you feel that you can't like that person, you still dispel this thought, don't delay that person to find his true happiness.

No, because you won't be happy.

Don't!! It's better not to, unhappy, and not financial!

When considering emotional issues, if you meet someone who likes you but doesn't like you, when you want to enter the marriage hall, you will definitely think about it in the long run. After all, married life is a lifelong event, and you can't joke about your life's events. Even if the other party likes him, but he doesn't like it, he must not get married, after all, no one wants to compromise in love life.

Two people will be together, and slowly there will still be conflicts because of the inappropriateness of their personalities, and the other party likes themselves, it must be because they give each other a certain degree of goodwill. <>

When you meet someone who likes you, it is a very enviable thing to meet someone who you like and like yourself in a relationship. There is no such flawless relationship in most people, and most men and girls will discuss it when it comes to who likes whom more. Boys think that they have given their all in the relationship, while girls think that they have given their youth in the relationship.

If you marry someone you don't like, if you meet someone you don't like in a relationship, why bother thinking about marriage. After all, once two people enter married life, two people need to live together for a long time. If you don't like each other in your heart, no matter how you run in, you will feel very disgusted when you see each other.

Even when the other party does anything, it is difficult to achieve their own satisfaction, so it is easy to waste each other's energy and time. <>

Once you think about getting married, two people must consider getting married because they like it to some extent, and marriage is a big thing for a lifetime. When you get married, you should think carefully, when you are in love, you can break up if the couple is not suitable, and after marriage, the two people need to take their own responsibilities. It's not just a union of two people, it's also a union of two families.

Parents also hope that their children can live happily and for a long time after seeing their children enter married life.

No, because the feelings are mutual in the end, it is impossible for him to be good to you unilaterally, you will need to pay the same love and price one day, but you are unwilling.

I won't. If I don't have someone I like at that time, I can tell him that I try to get along with him for a while, and some feelings are going to be slowly run in, if it really takes a while, I don't have feelings for him yet, it's a big deal to separate.

Oops hey! Don't let yourself feel indispensable in the hearts of others! Woe! People can't pursue what they like, they have to accept what they don't like! Isn't that boring!!

Of course not, because I feel that if I marry such a person, I will eventually divorce, because the two people have no emotional foundation at all.

I think that no matter how suitable it is, if you don't like it, you don't envy you to be together, and don't get married, which will make your married life very unhappy and unhappy, and only with the people you love will make your family life happier.

Why can't you marry someone you don't like?

1.In this case, I don't think you should get married. The reasons are:

It's easy to get married, but it's not easy to get along. If you don't like each other and are reluctant to be together, in the long run, you will inevitably have negative behaviors such as complaining and nagging because of dislike of each other in your future life. The other person will also sense that you are bored with her, so there is constant friction and quarrels.

There is an ancient saying in our country called "family and everything is prosperous", such a marriage, the family must be not harmonious, how can it be happy?

2.Although I don't encourage marrying someone I don't like, I recommend not saying no to someone unless they're a particularly annoying person.

Because love is a wonderful thing, sometimes people who meet your criteria for choosing a mate may not be suitable for you after dating, and those who do not meet your criteria for choosing a mate are likely to be very suitable for you. And people's mate selection criteria will also change with age, experience, etc. So, sometimes you can't trust your own subjective judgment too much.

For example, many girls are very concerned about the external conditions of boys when they are young, and they don't marry if they are not handsome. But as we grow older, we find that appearance is not very important, but instead care about a person's inner quality and other conditions, which is that the criteria for choosing a mate have changed at different stages, and we cannot grasp and control this change, so we can only go with the flow.

Therefore, if you can't meet the person you like, you can also try to date those people you don't like, but you don't hate for a while, maybe you will find some shining points from the other person, and fall in love.

No. Marriage is a lifelong journey, I would rather live alone than find a model to spend my life with someone I don't like, why bother, it is an unwise decision for each other to choose to live together even if I know that I don't like it. Of course, there are also cases where long-term love will happen, but the probability is low.

If you don't like a person, you may have resistance to him in your heart, and you can't look at it objectively, so if you don't like it, consider it carefully.

What's more, a life is so short, and there is no afterlife that can make us make up for our regrets, so why make it difficult for yourself to live with someone you don't like. If you get married for the sake of this, then it is better not to get married, it is better to be a single dog and be free.

In a relationship, we always want to be with someone you love him and he loves you, and enter the palace of marriage with him, but love is never smooth sailing, nor can you get it if you want to.

Sometimes, we will marry someone we don't like so much, maybe because we are older, maybe we no longer believe in love, and we feel that marrying anyone is the same, so we will make such a choice.

Will you be happy if you marry someone you don't like? I think it varies from person to person, if you are willing to cultivate a relationship with him, or cherish his affection, you will also live well, and if you keep thinking about the past, thinking that he is not the person you love the most, it can only be painful for a lifetime.

In fact, whether you marry someone you like or someone you don't like, there are two sides, marrying the person you love does not necessarily mean that you can grow old together, and marrying someone you don't like is not necessarily unhappy, it still depends on your own mentality.

Whether you choose what you love or love you, you should live a good life, this is your own choice, don't complain, and don't feel that marrying him is the wrong marriage.

Although many people are more realistic in marriage and relationship, thinking that they can't find someone they like, then they often choose to find a suitable person to marry, but for me, I will not do this.

First of all, if I choose a person I don't like, but I feel that I am suitable for myself to marry, then I will have a sense of guilt in my heart, because I have not really loved each other, but I choose to marry with each other, this practice is very irresponsible to the other party, it is difficult to really bring each other happiness and joy if I don't love each other, this will affect the other party's life, maybe many people think that feelings can be cultivated slowly, but if you live with a person you don't like for a long time, If the relationship is not cultivated as originally envisaged, then it will only waste the precious youth and energy between each other, which is a harm to both parties.

And from another point of view, choosing a person I don't like, but the right person to marry will make my life a sense of frustration, after all, whether a person is happy or not, the key is whether he is successful in his career, whether he can meet a person who really loves each other, if you find a person you don't like, then your emotional life is always imperfect, you can't get happiness and joy in this marriage, and you will have an irreparable regret in your life. Therefore, for a life event such as marriage, we should try our best to find a person we really like, and the other party also likes us to marry, so that we can make each other feel real joy and happiness in the future marriage.

I won't choose, marry someone I don't like, and feel that this is a disservice to two people.

If you really decide to get married, you must choose a person you like, and feel more suitable for each other, so that there will be happiness and joy in such a life.

But real life is particularly complicated, and there are still a considerable number of people, for various reasons, who marry someone they don't like and live together for the rest of their lives.

There are men and women among them, and each of us has these people around us, and there are about three categories.

First of all, the first category is that some men or women have some accidents, they are older, and they can't find a more suitable one, so they can only retreat to the next best thing, find the opposite sex who is willing to live with them, and the two of them live together and take care of each other.

Of course, some have children, and some have no children at all, and the two people live in a special loneliness, and they usually don't communicate at all, just find some work every day, earn some money, and live every day now.

The second is those who can't help themselves, the family is particularly poor, and can only use marriage to achieve their own goals.

There is a girl who is still beautiful, but her family is deep in the mountains, her parents are seriously ill, and there is a younger brother, and the family is very poor.

At this time, there was a leader's stupid son, but he had a soft spot for this girl who worked part-time, and he liked this girl. The people around him helped the leader and discussed with the girl's family to marry the girl to this stupid son.

Later, the leader gave a large sum of money to the girl's family, and arranged a job for the girl's younger brother, and the girl naturally married this stupid son.

The girl also accepted her fate calmly, sometimes looking miserable, but most of them looked depressed and flat.

There are also those who marry people they don't like for their own desires or purposes.

Nowadays, such men and women are also everywhere, but there are more girls. Most of them took a fancy to the man's power or status and married the man.

When we first started together, I felt that my economic status had changed, and I had money in my hands that I had never seen before, and I was very comfortable.

But after a long time, it doesn't look happy. After all, the gap between the two people is too big, the age gap, the physical gap, the thinking gap, the social status, and the ideological concept are too big.

The two of them don't go out together at all, for fear of being criticized or discriminated against by others, and they feel very unhappy.

How happy it is to be able to control your own destiny and marry the person you like! I hope that people who truly have this ability will be able to cherish the life in front of them.