Long distance relationship, will you go to see your boyfriend 40

Updated on amusement 2024-04-13
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If I were you, landlord.

    Will definitely go. Because it's painful to endure separation, isn't it?

    I really understand. For example, my subject is in Xinjiang, I am in Chongqing, and I will go to see him when the financial situation allows.

    The friends above are not wrong, they are encouraging you to go on well.

    In fact, do you know that when you are in love, why do you bother with the problem of not looking at it? If you want to, you can go. If you don't want to, you won't go, isn't it?

    You don't know when it's the head, this kind of thinking is too pessimistic. In love, the real obstacle is not geographical distance, you know? I'm also in a long-distance relationship.,I hope you can go on smoothly.。。

    Wishing you happiness! ~~

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, if two people are always together, it will be awkward.

    In fact, this kind of thing depends on fate, and it is best to go with the flow.

    I'm definitely going to see it!!It's definitely inevitable unless you don't like him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'll go see him. Feelings sometimes have to go with the flow.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since they are all planning to start again, don't be confused, be a normal couple, and go see him!

    I'm also in a long-distance relationship, it's been more than 4 years, and the way we maintain our relationship is to go with the flow.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In my opinion, long-distance relationships are unlikely to end well.

    Even if it's every day, it's not as good as seeing each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it's online dating, I think it's better to forget it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Fool, you already started three years ago, didn't you?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I am not optimistic about such feelings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no need, because you have to wait for the boy to take the initiative to come.

    A month is not a long time, and many long-distance couples do not see each other once a year, so the frequency of seeing each other once every three months is more appropriate. Girls should not be too active in their relationships, and if their boyfriend misses you, they will naturally come by car. He didn't even offer to meet, so you don't have to post it upside down.

    As soon as the two met, the expenses were very large, and it cost money to open a house and eat and drink. The boy bears all the costs alone, and the pressure is not small. Girlfriends should be sensible, share some of the burden for each other appropriately, and don't meet unless necessary.

    The normal state of life is separation, I don't advocate long-distance relationships, the cost of seeing each other once is much more than being together every day, and everything is spent on eating, drinking, and having fun.

    1. Being in a different place is the right way to test the relationship of a couple.

    Due to geographical restrictions, two people can't see each other every day, and their relationship is completely connected by the Internet. This is conducive to increasing the freshness of each other, and distance produces beauty. Seeing once a month is too frequent, and the student party simply can't afford it.

    2. Let your boyfriend come to see you.

    The girl didn't have to travel and wade through mountains and rivers to find him. The boyfriend should take responsibility and don't let the woman come all the way. This relationship has signs of continuing to develop, and boys should take the initiative. No one likes long-distance relationships, and since they can't change the status quo, it's a positive problem.

    3. Girls must learn to be reserved, and there will be countless times when they go to see their boyfriends for the first time.

    This will make him a habit, and he will blame you if you don't go. Therefore, we have to convince the boys to come to their own city. A long-distance relationship goes both ways, and girls can occasionally go to him if they have time, but it is not recommended to go too often.

    The end result of a long-distance relationship is a breakup, and very few can go to the end. You shouldn't pay too much in the process of falling in love, especially girls, don't be sad for a long-distance boyfriend.

    Will long-distance relationships last? How often should I see you?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's been a long-distance relationship for a month, and I shouldn't go to see my boyfriend, there's no need for this. First of all, it is safer to have the man come and see you. Secondly, girls should be a little reserved. Also, girls should take more time to get to know each other. <>

    In view of the above situation, I personally think that it should not be done, and there is no need for it. Next, I will give you an analysis.

    First of all, if you meet, you should let the man come and see you, which is safer. Many girls want to see their boyfriends after a month of long-distance relationships. Actually, it's very unsafe.

    You've only been talking for a month, and you don't know what kind of person the other person is, so it's easy to put yourself in a dangerous situation by going to another city to meet a man you don't know very well. If the two parties want to meet, they can ask the man to come and see him. After all, it is a boy, and the safety risks will be smaller.

    Secondly, girls can be a little more reserved, and only then can they take the initiative in the relationship. Girls don't take the initiative and don't be eager to meet each other. If the other person really wants to see you, they will naturally come to see you.

    If you take too much initiative, the boy will feel that he has controlled the woman and will be able to dominate the other person's emotions in this relationship, so that the girl will be easily hurt. <>

    In addition, girls should take more time to get to know each other instead of rushing to meet. If you go to see each other after a month, it is obvious that the time is still too short. In a relationship, you should spend more time getting to know each other, and slow down the pace and don't rush to meet.

    Time can witness everything, and if the boy really has a heart for you, your relationship will definitely be maintained. If you break up because you didn't go to see him in a different place, don't feel sorry for it, it proves that he doesn't really want to be with you at all.

    I hope you can keep your eyes open in the relationship, don't be confused by the other party's words, mainly to see what he has done for you. The above are some of my personal opinions, just for your reference.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's time to go, it's necessary. The relationship of a long-distance relationship is very fragile, two people are slowly estranged because they can't accompany each other, and girls should also take the initiative in the relationship, after all, the relationship needs to go both ways.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, you should go to see your boyfriend, and it is necessary to do so, after all, we haven't seen each other for a month, and feelings need to be maintained.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, it is necessary, because couples who are separated from each other for too long can easily lead to emotional breakdown, so it is best to meet often in order to maintain the relationship between the two parties.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The current feeling is pain and happiness.

    Because it's a long-distance relationship, I can't meet him every day, and I can't hug and kiss Lu Yuan, although we will play **** every night, and we will send messages and chat during the day, but I still feel lonely, especially when I go back to the house alone after work, in the dead of night, I always think about the meaning of a long-distance relationship.

    The deepest feeling is that I was wronged, he can only send a "hug" through WeChat, because he is a rented house, recently plagued by power outages, cold in winter without electricity and no hot water, normal life also has a great impact, and the landlord also quarreled because of this matter, the problem of power outage is difficult to solve, I myself am a more coarse number of people, the proposed compensation method landlord does not agree, I don't know what to do, a person who is aggrieved can't stop crying at night when there is no electricity, boyfriend hit** I didn't want him to see it, so I refused his ** call, and he called again after a while, and I had to answer it, because I knew that if I didn't answer, neither of us would sleep well at night. Then he cried, and when he told him, he could only say that there was something to tell me, and there was me.

    But he was thousands of miles away, and he could not play any role, neither to help me seek justice from the landlord, nor to hold me and comfort me. I also had to hold back my sadness and tell him that I was not sad. Long-distance relationships can really make people feel powerless when they are sad.

    But there is also happiness, otherwise it really won't last. When we haven't seen each other for a long time, we look forward to the next day we meet, just like the sentence in the book, "I know you're coming on Friday, and I've been looking forward to it since Monday." I would be thrilled from the moment I knew he bought the ticket and the anticipation would continue until I saw him.

    There will also be another kind of expectation, that is, he didn't tell me to buy a ticket, secretly came to see me, pretended that he was doing something else, and then suddenly knocked on the door and asked me to open the door, that kind of surprise is also indescribable, so that I was still like a dream two days after seeing him, obviously an hour ago I felt that he was in another province, how did he come to my eyes at once, it feels incredible, but this kind of surprise is only suitable for one or two times, and if you have more, you will have a feeling, and slowly know in advance that he is coming.

    Long-distance relationships will make us cherish the days of meeting extraordinarily, never quarrel, we go to eat delicious food together, watch movies, go for a walk in the park, climb the city wall, cook together, shoot each other**, just to leave good memories, in those days when we can't see each other, flipping through **, reminiscing about where we went before, I can't help but raise the corners of my mouth.

    I think I have a fairy-like boyfriend who will coldly buy me a set of skin care products, a blazer, or a big box of snacks, tell me to eat well all day long, don't eat snacks, and can't help but buy me all the delicious food, in short, I am very happy to eat snacks.

    A long-distance relationship is nothing, and now we are all working hard for a better life in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My feelings are very negative, very low, very painful, very sad, very lonely, and very lonely.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Feelings are difficult to maintain, loneliness, etc. It is difficult to maintain the relationship between the wild people, and when encountering problems, they can only communicate and solve them; Loneliness, eating and shopping, etc., are all answering cheats alone, and I feel very lonely.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's very close at that time, right?! Get along like relatives, it's very simple and harmonious, at least there are no quarrels.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    But now that things have happened, don't think about it so much and manage your feelings well. If one day the situation you mentioned really arises, you can also protect yourself through the law.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on how your boyfriend treats you and how he loves you, we are also in a long-distance relationship, I went to see her for the first time, she helped me open a house, we went out shopping together during the day, ate, played, and stayed with me at night

    It's hard to have a good ending to the outcome of a long-distance relationship, but it's better to work hard, communicate more, and communicate more.

    It is recommended that you surprise her and give her a gift that is both affordable and beautiful, such as when the weather is getting colder, give her a scarf, water glass, etc., I sincerely wish you happiness! Happy, happy friend, mine it.

    Take him out for a walk, browse your local attractions, and taste your food. Give him some of your specialties.

    It's possible that he couldn't come because of something.

    He may have other girlfriends (depending on the individual).

    I just don't like you that much.

    It is estimated that it is very busy, and now social work is extremely stressful, exploitation is serious, there are almost no holidays, and overtime is often overdue.

    Distance produces beauty ......But everything is relative, there are no absolutes.

    Now that you've talked about things, you might want to consider whether you want to take the time to take the initiative to go and see him. There are many reasons for the reluctance to come, maybe there is something that has not been said clearly? Or is it because of the distance?

    It will be extremely difficult to maintain a long-distance relationship until the end, but since it has started, don't just give up if there are no special circumstances. The fate comes to the tomb in an instant, and the fate is over for a lifetime. Make a brief contact as soon as possible to ask about the situation, and if necessary, the two of them will have a good talk when they meet.

    Wait for your period to come back just to do that kind of thing, and I also hope to pay nothing, come to see you and ask you to reimburse the travel expenses Anyway, I look down on this kind of man, only mu and can help you analyze so much, you can judge for yourself.

    Dress up well There may be a different place where the climate is not very adaptable, it is best to bring common medicines, or tissues, and arrange the time, do not be interrupted by work, and finally go to the station to pick him up, so that he will see you as soon as possible......

    1. You complained that he didn't come to see you, but didn't you go to see him? If you blame him, he can also blame you completely :) Everyone competes like this in everything, and they all blame each other, so how can they love.

    2. If love can be so simply boiled down to right or wrong, then it is not love. You jump to conclusions so simply, it only shows that you don't care about him at all, you don't care about the feelings between you at all.

    3. What do you want him to do to you, you have to do this to him first. You want him to be considerate and care about you, you have to be considerate and care for him first, don't believe it, you try, it works very well :)

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