During the Chinese New Year, why is the comparison phenomenon in the village getting more and more s

Because people nowadays are more face-saving, vanity is heavier, and they don't want others to look down on them.

Because rural people value face very much. When you go home for the Chinese New Year, your children will come back home, and it is the time to make a face for yourself.

It may be because the living conditions of young people are better now, so they have the mentality of comparison.

Because most of the people nowadays go to work outside, and show that they are good outside.

Because people nowadays are more and more face-loving, they are becoming more and more comparative.

It's human nature to want to be better off than others, even if it seems that way. Therefore, many people in the village are very concerned about face to compare.

Because vanity and face are shared by everyone, the New Year is just one time for everyone to get together.

It may be that rural people have a better face, and they want to prove that they are doing well in this way.

I think that now people only pay attention to what the benefits are, and they don't care about these things, and the smell of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker.

It's just the ability to compare.

Young people are working hard outside, isn't it just to go home and glorify their ancestors.

Even the rich are no exception.

The countryside is a vast world, people have a positive heart, now to run to a well-off life, have to show their wisdom to get rich, let the big city people see, the village people are not worse than the big city, so that some urban old people look forward to the countryside, want to enjoy their old age. The people in the village are not blindly comparing, but also diligent in reform and innovation. Let more people go to the countryside to experience the beautiful scenery of the countryside, go to the leisure farmhouses run by farmers to enjoy the special food, and the sophistication of the people!

Nowadays, the trend of blind comparison is not only in the countryside, but also in big cities, such as what cars are good, houses, clothes and bags, which are especially worse than those in the countryside. After reading this type of question, as a villager, I feel that the question is mainly a kind of contempt for the village and the people in the village. There is no doubt that today's trend of blind comparison has changed, and most of them are blind comparisons in chemicals and scenes, not in the positive energy of society. This shows a common problem for some Chinese: to save face.

What kind of car others drive, what kind of car do I want to drive, what scene do other people's family do things, I also want what scenes, in front of others can not be embarrassed, that is to say, love face and die to save face. That kind of blind comparison carried out in order to earn face, hurts the family, endangers the society, you can look at the many actual situations in life to identify the advantages and disadvantages of the blind comparison. Is it true that the style of blind comparison in the countryside is getting worse and worse?

The premise of blind comparison is economic ability, in other words, there must be money, and no money and people are just empty words. Think about it, there are things in the world that borrow money and people blindly compare? Why bother to be in debt for the sake of blindly comparing yourself with others?

How many such fools are there in the world? Not. There is no sign of the blind comparison in my hometown.

As far as the wedding and funeral celebrations, food, clothing, housing and transportation in the countryside are concerned, no family is more specific than the family, and the standardization of borrowing is generally not bad. The funeral is prominent, only coffins, drums, etc.

Because people living in the countryside have never seen the world, they like to compare, they love face and have no culture, so they are eager to be recognized by others, and they will have this kind of comparison mentality.

At present, the trend of comparison in many rural areas is still very serious, which is also restricted by the quality culture, and the poorer the place, the more inferior people are. The more you want to compare.

Why is the comparison wind getting more and more seriousIn fact, the comparison wind is not only in rural areas, everyone will have vanity, in fact, from a different point of view, the comparison is not a bad thing, only the comparison can see the gap.

Because the development of rural areas is getting better and better, because the rural network is becoming more and more developed, because the rural life is getting better and better, and because the rural life is getting richer and richer, the comparison psychology will become more and more serious.

Because now in the countryside, people will compare with each other, who builds a better house, and who earns more money, so this trend is becoming more and more serious.

The trend of comparison in rural areas is indeed intensifying. Because everyone wants others to feel that they are doing well, they keep comparing.

It has something to do with the current fast-paced, and the current fast-paced life has affected everyone very much, and everyone is following the trend to compare, which is the formation of such an atmosphere.

First, because of the rapid economic and social development, there are really some rural people who have earned money, and this part of the people who got rich first often tend to be more high-profile and deliberately show off in order to let everyone know that they are rich.

The second is that because the people who got rich first deliberately show off, they drive others to show off as well, and if they don't show off, they will be looked down upon. In the long run, a large-scale comparison has been formed.

In addition, in recent years, more and more peasants have gone out to work, and their income is no longer limited to the little money they spend on farming, and some people have good luck, work well, and earn more. Or do your own business in the city, and there is a gap in income. There are many people in a village, and if they can see each other, they should compare themselves with each other.

It's not like living in a building, knowing no one and living your own life.

In today's rural areas, most young people go out to work, and it is rare for them to return home during the Chinese New Year. In order to have a light on their faces, in order to show how they live like a fish in water outside, some of them have learned to compare and pretend to be forced.

This kind of atmosphere is really not good, I usually save money, and I spend a lot of money during the New Year.

Is there a culture of comparison in your village?