Why is she like this, please come in with a wealth of emotional experience

Classmate, her meaning is very clear, that is, to continue to maintain a friend relationship, and she has no feelings for you other than friends. If you continue to hold on, you may not even be able to make friends in the end. Take a step back and say, she promised you, you graduated from high school in the third year, it is impossible to be together in college, I also went to college, and the long-distance relationship I saw was fruitless.

So let's do what she says, and let your pure friendship in high school become a beautiful eternal memory.

I don't like you more likely, of course, it may be that I don't have so much courage or embarrassment in my first relationship, if you really like her, stick to it! Don't give up, it's time to see how she reacts. If you still blindly refuse, then I guess I don't like you very much. If she starts to accept that she has an ambiguous relationship with you, it proves that you have a chance

I can't look down on you, there are two choices, one is to chase with your life, and the other is to give up.

Let it go, she sees that the situation is very clear and has no feelings for you, but she said it so tactfully because of her friend's face.

Men are open-minded, it's good to be an ordinary friend, there is no grass at the end of the world, right?

Know how to refuse. If a girl has not experienced much affection, then she usually does not know how to get along with friends of the opposite sex, and in the case of friends of the opposite sex expressing their feelings to her, she is very easy to blindly follow the trend of acceptance, because she does not know how to refuse. But if she has more experience in emotional work, then I firmly believe that she must have the trait of "knowing how to refuse".

Most women with experienced relationships usually know what they want and how to get what they want. Therefore, in this kind of society, she usually knows how to refuse people and "things" that she does not need.

Stable. Remember the shyness and helplessness you felt when you first fell in love? It is not even clear what to say to the other party to ease the awkward atmosphere.

But nowadays, you can talk freely with every friend of the opposite sex, which is a major sign of your emotional experience, and your steadiness is usually a reflection of your emotional experience. Therefore, if she has always been very sensible, rational, perfect and calm in dealing with feelings, then I need to be able to figure out why she has such qualities, mostly because of her emotional experience.

Not impressed by your rhetoric.

It's long past the age of listening to love", why is there such a sentence? Because of the little girl who has just touched love, most of them like to listen to this kind of rhetoric, and feel that the rhetoric you often say to her is a mountain alliance and sea vow, and it will feel that this is a major manifestation of true love. And the reason for this sentence is that with the growth of age and the slow accumulation of emotional work experience, I know more about what true love is.

If she is no longer overwhelmed by rhetoric and cares more about your behavior, you confirm that she has been through many relationships for the most part, and the experience that has been summed up for this is also a trait that she has in her emotional experience.

Know how to dress up and love yourself.

A woman who has been through many relationships usually knows how to dress better and is more willing to love herself. Because she has had several unsuccessful relationship experiences, her heartbroken heart is beautiful, and she understands that only by becoming better can she be happier. Therefore, a woman with rich emotional experience usually knows how to dress up and love herself well.

It is not easy to regard feelings as all that is food, clothing, housing and transportation.

At the age of seventeen or eighteen, most little girls want to have the beautiful love in fairy tales, and expect all love to step into the palace of marriage and bear fruit. But a woman with rich emotional experience, she usually does not regard feelings as all she has, which is also a trait of emotional experience.

I especially understand the thoughts of the opposite sex, know how to improve my ability, know how to invest in myself, will not suffer from gains and losses, and has a particularly high emotional intelligence.

The pattern is very large, knows how to tolerate others, knows how to consider problems from the perspective of others, does not care about immediate interests, will love themselves very much, and people with rich feelings will have these characteristics.