Is there any good way for a child to cry when he encounters something he can t do alone?

Good children are boastful, more encouragement, more inspiration.

<> children can't do one thing to break down and cry, in fact, they don't know how to face frustration, young children are not mature enough, learning and growing up to encounter failure, such as not getting a good ranking in the exam, speech contest was eliminated, pinyin is always not passing, etc., at this time often frustration, as a parent, if you can't solve this frustration in time, the child may be slumped. In fact, this is a normal phenomenon, and adults will not have various emotional reactions to things that have been tried for a long time and have not succeeded.

In this case, many parents are accustomed to comfort their children and help them drive away their frustration, saying, "It's not a big deal, what's the matter?" Cry for this little thing, are you ashamed? This approach is too superficial, it is useless to say so, and it will not solve the problem at all.

So, what exactly should parents do?

Parents should first accept their children's various emotional reactions mentally.

Secondly, Dr. Zhang Guowei has an "emotional sandwich" theory that can effectively solve problems. That is: first talk about love, then talk about love, and finally reason.

Take the example of losing a child's speech contest and being eliminated. Talk about love first, that is, empathy, and recognize the child's current emotions. It should be said that "child, this speech contest did not make it to the finals, I know you are sad, you care about this speech contest very much, and you have worked hard for the competition, if it is me, I will be sad".

Then say love, that is, affirm what they have achieved. "Actually, you have done a good job in this competition, and you can make a speech with emotion and color, and I appreciate your style."

Finally, reasoning, that is, helping them analyze the reasons for the failure. "Although you have your own strengths, what are your shortcomings compared to the students who made it to the finals? Analyze it yourself" At this time, maybe the child has stopped crying, calms down and analyzes the reasons for the defeat with you, and then puts forward your point of view - "I think you neglected to set the atmosphere and mobilize emotions, did not quote the beginning of a story, and there are no ups and downs and twists and turns in the middle.

By adopting an "emotional sandwich" approach, parents can comfort their children, help them find the cause, and get rid of frustration. Not only will the child not be crushed by this defeat, but will become more and more courageous until he succeeds.

Parents should be patient with their children, tell them how to solve some things, and should not cry often, because this approach will only waste more time and will not solve the problem reasonably.

You can patiently tell your child what to do, and you should also tell your child that you should find a way to face it in your life, if you cry a lot, you will still not be able to do it in the end, and it will be a waste of time.

The right thing to do is to comfort your children, understand them, comfort them, clear their thoughts, and encourage them.

Persuade him in a gentle tone and comfort her. Don't criticize him, guide him slowly. Let him know it's okay.

If we are outside, we try not to let the child out of our sight and protect the child from harm. If you go to a relative's or friend's house or some public place, and there is a dispute, parents must be with their children as soon as possible.

After learning that the child was bullied and beaten, what the child needs most at this moment is not the parents to change hands or scold each other, the most important thing for the child is to be comforted, and the parents should admit and express their understanding that the child is now sad, very painful, and even very painful. If a child cries, especially a boy, you must not say that he is cowardly, this is just a way to express his emotions, and it does not mean that he is cowardly.

When a child is bullied, do not encourage violence or ridicule the child for cowardice, no matter if the child fights back or reacts in other ways, parents can wait until the child to understand the reasons behind it and know whether the child reacts after thinking. If the child doesn't fight back, you can ask him why he didn't fight back, maybe the child will say, because the other person is older than me and seems to have a lot of strength, I don't think I can fight him enough. At this time, parents should affirm the child's approach, because the decision is made by the child through his own thinking.

We should guide our children how to find solutions, not make bad decisions on the spur of the moment.

When you are bullied by someone older than your child, you should teach your child to protect his important parts (head or important parts of boys and girls), and when he knows that he is not enough for the other party to beat, the child should seek help from parents or passers-by, and let others help stop the other party's behavior.

If the parents are present and know what happened, they can analyze the reasons behind it with their children, if their children are wrong, and the other party is just resisting in self-defense, then they should stop their children appropriately; If the other party actually wants to express good intentions, but the way of expression is wrong, at this time, you can teach the other party and your child how to show goodwill; If the other party is bullying for no reason or maliciously, stop the other person's behavior immediately and criticize it.

Introduction: Children cry when they encounter setbacks, and parents should also help their children.

Many children will only cry when they encounter something that cannot be solved in school, and parents must learn to help their children. This can be very painful, so parents should learn to guide their children at this time, because the most important thing is how much you can help your children. Then be sure to talk to your child about it, so that he knows what to do when he encounters setbacks.

Some children may also have some feelings of despair, so you have to learn to guide your children well so that they can do more well. Be sure to provide children with some professional knowledge, so that children can carry out the phenomenon with ideas. Parents will feel that their children have lost valuable opportunities, so at this time you need to remake a plan for your children and let them stop on their own.

Be sure to teach your child by word and deed, and your ideas are very important to your child. If you see your child's emotions out of control, or if your child wants to succeed, you must educate your child with a high IQ and let your child get exercise slowly.

Parents must find a suitable opportunity for their children, many parents hope that their children can become excellent, so you have to look at the desperation behind the child's success. You can set a rule for your child because only then can he become good. We must combine the child's thinking, what the child does not want to do, and parents should not force the child, because it is also a fatal blow to the child.

Parents can consult their children well, if you see that the child is often unhappy with you or the child is very resistant, then you should also adjust the child's situation in time, when the child does not want you to touch him, you should accompany the child next to the child. Some parents are afraid to approach their children when they encounter setbacks, because they are afraid that their children will be hurt more seriously, so you must learn to treat your children well.

Communicate more with your child, give your child more encouragement, listen to your child's ideas, accompany your child more, praise your child more often, and cultivate your child's self-confidence.

Encourage children, you can give children a certain space to vent their feelings, so that children can grow better.

We should make a rule for him, if he likes to cry when he is not satisfied, then we will let him cry and make a fuss until he corrects himself.

It is necessary to stop the child's crying and fussing behavior in a timely manner, and use appropriate methods to let him know that it is not possible to solve the problem by crying and fussing, and not to say that crying and fussing can be satisfactory, and to criticize in a timely manner, not to spoil.

This happens often if the hair happens. We should teach our child not to make him think that crying will solve anything. Learn to communicate with your child often. Establish a good habit of behavior for him.

If the child often cries and makes a fuss when he is not satisfied, first of all, we should let him vent his emotions, in fact, we must communicate with him well, because it is very necessary, and then teach him well, not to do this again, this is not right, tell him what can be talked about with the parents.

You should let him cry while he cries, ignore it, and don't fulfill his request even after he cries, in which case he will change.

You shouldn't ask your child to do everything for him. You should learn to say no to your child appropriately. This will change his behavior.